Oh a lot of women can tell before they've even missed
one period...and pee-tests work usually by the time the first period is missed, almost always a week or two after that (but nothing works infallibly, in this world...)
If you have a son or daughter out there, beginning to form, and you choose to have that baby killed, you might feel better today, this week, this month, even this year or for a few years.
But if you ever have a child that is born live [in the future], I bet you'll start thinking about how they could have had an elder brother or sister...what would that child have been like? Your first child...
There are some things people think are good ideas today and then they are haunted by them for the rest of their lives...
The facts on this are somewhat suppressed but go out there and talk to people who had babies aborted a while ago...see how they feel about that now...some will say "Great" and some will not; and some will be crying in the night about that child they never knew...and some will have made peace with the decision but for the rest of their lives they will wish they had chosen otherwise...
But...you can play the odds if you want...it's just a kid...after all...
[I do not take a position on people who have abortions
for the baby's sake - no-one has more right to make that decision than them...it is a very hard one...don't bug them about it

. But people who do it
for their own convenience...



love
Helen