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What's your self image like?

jd_uk

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How do you see yourself? Do you see yourself in a positive way or a negative way? How do you think people see you? IS there any side of you that you feel embarassed about?

Just wondering...

Personally i seem to go through phases, for a long while i've had a very good self image but recently i've realised that i havn't been my usual confident and happy self. It's good that i've realised though as i can now correct it.
 
usually it is very good.

Now, I'm not so happy about being so big. I don't dress nicely because none of my clothese fit. It makes me not want to do other stuff. It just snowballed.
 
Lol ^^^

Me honestly.


People see me as Sweet and Funny ( it really does suck) oh and i can talk my way out of anything...

so but people assume they can take my sweetness for weakness but thats not the case.

oh and someone said i have alot of ampahty....
 
Just to point out, this thread isn't just about physical appearance.

crazyjoe...even though you're joking, my body is one side of me that i'm always confident about. For me it's more of a mental thing. I feel like i've 'gone into my shell recently'...life does that to you sometimes if you're not careful.
 
heatherrae said:
usually it is very good.

Now, I'm not so happy about being so big. I don't dress nicely because none of my clothese fit. It makes me not want to do other stuff. It just snowballed.

I'm sure that happens to every pregnant lady at some stage. Just make sure it's only temporary and that your confidence comes back when he/she pops out!
 
I THINK

people IRL see me as nice, accepting girl who loves to have fun. I try to enjoy life as much as I can.

I dress nice ; and always look pulled together ; and I'm not one of those people who try and impress you with the things that I have. I am ; and belive I appear to be to others, more practical.

One thing I do know is that I'm a very accepting person. I have lots and lots of friends, and i think it because I accept everyone for who they are. :) :)

(which means I'll drink a beer with just about anyone)

I would say thats a good self image. :)
 
jd_uk said:
Just to point out, this thread isn't just about physical appearance.

crazyjoe...even though you're joking, my body is one side of me that i'm always confident about. For me it's more of a mental thing. I feel like i've 'gone into my shell recently'...life does that to you sometimes if you're not careful.
Trust me, I know how ya feel. :)
 
jd_uk said:
Just to point out, this thread isn't just about physical appearance.

crazyjoe...even though you're joking, my body is one side of me that i'm always confident about. For me it's more of a mental thing. I feel like i've 'gone into my shell recently'...life does that to you sometimes if you're not careful.


I've been there; and I just force myself to get out there and have a good time!!!!
 
People think I am a bit egotistical (not about appearance tho), a bit crazy, pretty weird, very obnoxious, annoying to talk to cause I just shit on anything having to do with pop culture or small talk and that's pretty much all anyone has to say, smartass, fun to be around.

That's the majority of people. The few people who are independent enough to actually see thru the bullshit and the "fuck you" facade I put up (to fuck with people and weed out the boring ones) get to know a really loyal person, someone who has a lot of love to give, and someone who has their own insecurities.
 
Self image?

I tend to be way too hard on myself. I've had such a negative and defeating internal voice for years (alot to do with my parents). Caused me to be incredibly insecure...despite others outside approval. But im getting better now...

had a ton of pressure on me since i was little. smartest kid in my fam, had the entrepeneurial spirit since i was like 8 years old, and everyone that ever knew me always said i was destined for greatness(teachers, bosses, co workers etc). I guess it pissed people off when i failed or didnt live up to expectations so quickly. My extreme ADHD,OCD and disorganization played a big part in this and people couldn't understand.

but as i grow older i guess i'm realizing my qualities are very unique and learning to address my weaknesses, and more importantly play to my strengths. I view myself in alot better light now.

some people tend to think i'm arrogant (because i'm smart and grew up well off), and i'm direct. i don't hold many feelings back. but like killah said about himself, once you get past the fact i'm a ballbuster you find someone that's loyal to the end and will do anything for someone close to them. i'm definetely a good person, with good ethics and alot of ambition...i just haven't put all the pieces in place for my success
 
KillahBee said:
People think I am a bit egotistical (not about appearance tho), a bit crazy, pretty weird, very obnoxious, annoying to talk to cause I just shit on anything having to do with pop culture or small talk and that's pretty much all anyone has to say, smartass, fun to be around.

That's the majority of people. The few people who are independent enough to actually see thru the bullshit and the "fuck you" facade I put up (to fuck with people and weed out the boring ones) get to know a really loyal person, someone who has a lot of love to give, and someone who has their own insecurities.

^^really good at directions...

My SELF image: probably at its highest its ever been. It's great to get past the highschool and college years of trying to shard to figure yourself, everyone else and the world out. I"m totally comfortable with myself now (not complacent tho) and very willing to accept the path I chose.

Pretty shitty view of my body tho, but that's all changing.
 
Defiant.
 
KillahBee said:
^^really good at directions...

My SELF image: probably at its highest its ever been. It's great to get past the highschool and college years of trying to shard to figure yourself, everyone else and the world out. I"m totally comfortable with myself now (not complacent tho) and very willing to accept the path I chose.

Pretty shitty view of my body tho, but that's all changing.


I did the same thing:

my SELF image is good! what other people see in me is ultimately what I see in myself. Nice ; fun ; accepting ; lots of friends ; I like to laugh ; cute ; practical. oh yeah, NOT good at directions. lol

that is all
 
My self image changes by the minute. I see myself as pretty much invincible 98% of the time, but when my confidence takes a shot it takes quite a bit for me to right the ship. No one will see it, but if I lose at something I beat myself up way longer than I should.

I don't know how others really see me. I think because my head is shaved and I'm reasonably built I come off as intimidating until people get to know me. Also, even though I've been here (UT) for 10 years, I'm still very Philly and some of these mo-mo's don't "get" me. Anyone I've worked with knows I'm the guy that will do anything to get something done and they trust me to be fair with who they refer. That means a lot to me and I guess is pretty positive. Fuck, I don't know.
 
timtim said:
jacked, gorgeous, 12 inch hammer cock, and an awesome personality.

thats what my myspace blog says anyway.
:lmao:

Is this that one guy? What was his name again? The one that had a 175 IQ and was 2x as strong as any man?
 
heatherrae said:
:lmao:

Is this that one guy? What was his name again? The one that had a 175 IQ and was 2x as strong as any man?

That would be me. Except that I'm 2 1/2 X stronger than the average man.
 
Something else that is really bothering me lately.

I've been working pretty damn hard the last year+ trying to change my outlook on life, mostly with women. I truly believe I have gotten about 90% past my misogynistic former self (fuck you mavafanculo!) and have also, somewhere along the lines, found myself not really interested in random one night fucks with club chicks. I actually felt....shame....a while ago post-coitus (sp?).

Anyway, b/c of this seemingly positive change in my mindset, my sex life has taken a nose dive. Now, it's not the "not having sex as often as I used to" thing that bothers me - truthfully, dry spells never really bothered me much - it's just the fact that when I was waking around like a fucking testosteroned up animal growling with sharp teeth and fuck-enraged blood coursing thru my body all whilst viewing women as pieces of meat I just wanted to tear to shreds and drink their blood, pussy just RAN to me.

Now that I am trying to sheath that beast, it's mucs, much different. I guess this is what aap-type dudes have been describing to me all their lives. Fuck, it's boring.
 
KillahBee said:
Something else that is really bothering me lately.

it's just the fact that when I was waking around like a fucking testosteroned up animal growling with sharp teeth and fuck-enraged blood coursing thru my body all whilst viewing women as pieces of meat I just wanted to tear to shreds and drink their blood, pussy just RAN to me.

Now that I am trying to sheath that beast, ...

Fuck, it's boring.

Is this goober for real? No one is that delusional and full of themselves in real life are they?
 
covergrl80 said:
Only that douche bag.. can he see this? :worried:
To have me on ignore, he sure hangs on my every word and even starts threads about it.

It's okay, though, because he has me "stuck on the realness." What the fuck does that even mean?

:lmao:
 
i was thinking about this today because someone said i'm like a sophisticated hippie.

i like that. i am that, i think.

i think for the most part i'm seen as artistic and free spirited, happy and a little goofy. that's pretty much how i am 99% of the time unless i'm mad, which doesn't happen very often.
 
i have worked hard to create a professional image when I work
usually though I have been told I come off as pretty intimidating to people when they first meet me
then they get to know me and I feel I am a friendly, optimistic, thoughtful friend.

i have never really suffered from self image problems.
 
jd_uk said:
How do you see yourself? Do you see yourself in a positive way or a negative way? How do you think people see you? IS there any side of you that you feel embarassed about?

Just wondering...

Personally i seem to go through phases, for a long while i've had a very good self image but recently i've realised that i havn't been my usual confident and happy self. It's good that i've realised though as i can now correct it.
i feel rather positive about myself but Im not overly-confident. im pretty aware of my true capabilities. as well as my limits. embarrassed? just being fatty. kinda of embarrassing. probably the only thing I dont like about myself. other than fattiness, I'm pretty much an awesome person.
 
javaguru said:
It ain't easy being a high value male with morals....
:lmao:

you sound like someone else on the board. Are you mocking someone?
 
javaguru said:
I try to push everyone's buttons....
I gotta take myself off to bed.

I normally wear a size 7 shoes, and can't shove them into an 8 1/2 right now. Gotta prop those puppies up. :bawling:

Nighty night all.
 
heatherrae said:
I gotta take myself off to bed.

I normally wear a size 7 shoes, and can't shove them into an 8 1/2 right now. Gotta testosterone propionate those puppies up. :bawling:

Nighty night all.
I've been here since 2001 and have less than 15k posts...you've been here since 2006 and are on pace to double mine soon... :worried:
 
heatherrae said:
Is this goober for real? No one is that delusional and full of themselves in real life are they?

I see what he's trying to say though. If a man is his natural sexual self in public then women will notice it and he'll get much more 'pussy'. If a man behaves the way society tells him and is a bit more reserved then he won't get many sexual opportunities at all. Women are completely dumb like this...it's like they forget that you are a sexual person until you show it constantly. I'm talking from experience here.
 
everyone thinks im a huge asshole who doesnt care about anything but really im a small weak fat loser on the inside whose worrying too much about how much i think i suck to care about what others think. oh, and im a sucker and have a big heart and worry too much about other peoples feelings (not opinions though)
 
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