What's a nice way of telling a guy your not interested?

[rudeboyja]

"Thank you, but I'm not/no longer interested", works well for me.

If he is emotionall/mentally unstable, there have been times I have not said anything and stop answering calls & em-mails (Yes, I know. I know).

yeah that usually works.

Now will you please remove that restraining order you have against me.

 

[pintoca]

"Thank you, but I'm not/no longer interested", works well for me.

If he is emotionall/mentally unstable, there have been times I have not said anything and stop answering calls & em-mails (Yes, I know. I know).

You never return my mails anymore...should I take a hint? or is just that life is hectic a bit?

 

[Raina]

A firm knee to the groin says more than words ever can.

 

[*MissFit*]

There i did it.. i left a msg

 

[*MissFit*]

hahaha i just always take the pussy way out and just dont return calls..

The msg was just as bad but.. it's a step in the right direction.. I'm growing up

A firm knee to the groin says more than words ever can.

 

[Raina]

You could always just start laughing and tell the guy "look at me, obviously I'm totally out of your league bitch".

 

[Miss24k]

A firm knee to the groin says more than words ever can.

I've used that method before, it works pretty well.

 

[RottenWillow]

ladies, you have to be firm and blunt, especially with persistent dudes.

ooooh...I dont know Killah. I have trouble being firm and blunt, especially with guys. Could you suggest some effective alternative for me?

thanks.

 

[seizer]

Tell him his penis is too small for you and off to the psych ward he will go.

But for real, just be BLUNT, tell the guy straight up so there aint much brain work involved in figuring out that he aint no shaquelle oneal.

 

[nycgirl]

yeah that usually works.
Now will you please remove that restraining order you have against me.

LOL. Um, no.

I know it may look cowardly, but I've come across some crazy MFers (this includes the mothers of their children that have threatened bodily harm), sometimes the best thing is to just walk away. I know who I am, I don't have to prove anything to crazy, dramatic, & emotional people.