What's a nice way of telling a guy your not interested?

[thelion2005]

Seriously

I always pick up on body language.

If a woman is not making eye contact, approaching me, smiling or following up on open-ended offers ... I go away.

If she talks about her boyfriend/hubby in a flattering, commited way, she is off the list as a girlfriend.

If I get eye contact and smiles, stepping into my personal space, touching and "bumping" with the front of her body, she is interested. It is my turn to approach.

There have been a few times I've simply said ; "I am interested in getting to know you better. Do you want that?" (" NO..you dirty old man!)

All that said ... If this guy is not picking up on your signals OR you are giving off the wrong signals because you don't want to hurt his feelings ... You may have to say to him "I am flatered by your interest in me. However, I am not interested in dating you."

 

[rudeboyja]

maybe the first one, but the second 2 are no good. ladies, you have to be firm and blunt, especially with persistent dudes. why you ask? simple - because all of your playing hard to get and "no doesn't really mean no" games have created this environment where men feel like no really doesn't mean no. granted, you have the douche bag dudes that keep on pushing cause they are too insecure to take the hint and hurt their fragile little egos. but when it comes down to it, if you are not blunt with a guy, it is your fault if he keeps coming after you.

Exactly. but if you really want to get rid of him, have sex with him. truth is most dudes will be persistent until they get the ass, and then be out

 

[*MissFit*]

then he will never go away

Exactly. but if you really want to get rid of him, have sex with him. truth is most dudes will be persistent until they get the ass, and then be out

 

[pintoca]

Simply tell him he is not your type??? It's not your fault if people cannot cope with being turned-down. It will build their character, so in a way you are doing them a favor... lol

now seriously, don't lie (seeing someone else) or leave open a possibility that "just now, no, but maybe later..." dudes have good memory.

 

[KillahBee]

Anything short of - I am not interested will leave the door open in most guys' minds.

 

[ziggyziggy]

Pepper Spray usually sends the message.

Zig

 

[pintoca]

Anything short of - I am not interested will leave the door open in most guys' minds.

agreed.

just tell him, while laughing manically "WHAT??? BWHAHAHAHAHA, You gotta be FUCKING KIDDING ME!!!! PHEWWWW, Go out with you??? "

walk away laughing like Cruella Devil

 

[nycgirl]

"Thank you, but I'm not/no longer interested", works well for me.

If he is emotionall/mentally unstable, there have been times I have not said anything and stop answering calls & emails (Yes, I know. I know).

 

[Miss24k]

Fit you need to be straight up, and tell him you aren't interested in him.

Do not tell him that you are dating someone else, cause then he'll be like "Oh I can treat you better than him, blah blah blah". And he'll still try and try and try again.

 

[rudeboyja]

then he will never go away

well then make sure not to be good.