What's a nice way of telling a guy your not interested?

[jack sparrow]

Honestly, dont do anything. If the dude cant see for himself that you aren't interested, then he should probably hang himself. Your not obliged to make people warm and comfortable about the fact that you dont want them around you.

 

[hamstershaver]

have you ever turned down a guy before?

 

[needtogetaas]

have you ever turned down a guy before?

all the time.

 

[UA_Iron]

tell him there's someone else you're seeing or involved with.

If you dont give him "a good enough" reason he might still pursue you...guys be dumb like that.

 

[Cutiebaby]

just kindly tell him that you dont think you are ready for a relationship with him...but that you would like to still talk

 

[*MissFit*]

hmm... i get someone else to do it
or stop picking up my phone.. but im trying to be a grown up going forward

have you ever turned down a guy before?

 

[BUBBLES]

Be honest and firm but with diplomacy.

 

[KillahBee]

Just tell him that you think he's swell but you don't feel sparks with him.

Or tell him that you are dating someone or are focused on your own stuff right now and don't want to date in general.

maybe the first one, but the second 2 are no good. ladies, you have to be firm and blunt, especially with persistent dudes. why you ask? simple - because all of your playing hard to get and "no doesn't really mean no" games have created this environment where men feel like no really doesn't mean no. granted, you have the douche bag dudes that keep on pushing cause they are too insecure to take the hint and hurt their fragile little egos. but when it comes down to it, if you are not blunt with a guy, it is your fault if he keeps coming after you.

 

[squatpuke]

"Make like a tree and leaf"

"Make like a flower and petal"

"Make like an egg and beat it"

 

[*MissFit*]

YAh Exactly...

maybe the first one, but the second 2 are no good. ladies, you have to be firm and blunt, especially with persistent dudes. why you ask? simple - because all of your playing hard to get and "no doesn't really mean no" games have created this environment where men feel like no really doesn't mean no. granted, you have the douche bag dudes that keep on pushing cause they are too insecure to take the hint and hurt their fragile little egos. but when it comes down to it, if you are not blunt with a guy, it is your fault if he keeps coming after you.