What would you think?

[conundrum]

For the past ten months I have been hanging out with the same girl....yada yada yada...Any way, she stays over my place every friday and sat night. (I work at a bar on those nights) so she usually there when I get home.

Well last night I got home and she wasn't there. She had sent me a text while I was driving to let her know when I was leaving work so she could meet me at home. I didn't respond, because I was driving thinking if she didn't here from me she would just meet me at my place. Needless to say I went to bed thinking she would come home eventually. I woke up in the middle of the night arouond 5am and she was not lying next to me as usual. I called her phone and got no answer. She called me back around 11am the next day.

Her story was that she was hanging out at her friends house with some friends she hadn't seen in awhile, had a few two many beers and didn't want to drive home. So she slept on the couch. She did not call and ask me for a ride, nor did she take a cab to my place which is about 10min away.

I came home tonight to find her asleep in my bed. Her phone was open on her chest. So I decided to look through the text messages and call list. What I found out was, she had stayed over some guys house that I didn't know and just said she stayed over her friends house cus she knew I would get upset.

I then woke her up and asked her again where she stayed last night. After a long hesitation started to tell the same story again. I then confronted her about her text messages.

I think you can figure the rest out from there.

 

[layinback]

dump her immediately.

 

[conundrum]

I did, I just sent home 10min ago. literally!!!

 

[calveless wonder]

karma my friend...i read your other thread.

i can't really badger you for going through her phone, because you were right. i've done that and been right and she tried to flip it on me and accuse me of "snooping" and not trusting her. yeah, no shit? obviously you are not to be trusted

obviously not a healthy relationship anyways. both of you cheated, i think that says it all. maybe she knew something was up that night at your friend's bachelor party, maybe she didn't. sounds like she used the exact same excuse you did, no?

i think this should be a lesson to you. you cheat and it will come back to haunt you, in one form or another. at least if you didnt cheat you, and she did..you're at least left with your integrity

 

[conundrum]

karma my friend...i read your other thread.

i can't really badger you for going through her phone, because you were right. i've done that and been right and she tried to flip it on me and accuse me of "snooping" and not trusting her. yeah, no shit? obviously you are not to be trusted

obviously not a healthy relationship anyways. both of you cheated, i think that says it all. maybe she knew something was up that night at your friend's bachelor party, maybe she didn't. sounds like she used the exact same excuse you did, no?

i think this should be a lesson to you. you cheat and it will come back to haunt you, in one form or another. at least if you didnt cheat you, and she did..you're at least left with your integrity

No she had no idea about mine. Even during the argument about 10min ago she didn't bring it up. Didn't even make reference to it at all.

 

[conundrum]

karma my friend...i read your other thread.

i can't really badger you for going through her phone, because you were right. i've done that and been right and she tried to flip it on me and accuse me of "snooping" and not trusting her. yeah, no shit? obviously you are not to be trusted

obviously not a healthy relationship anyways. both of you cheated, i think that says it all. maybe she knew something was up that night at your friend's bachelor party, maybe she didn't. sounds like she used the exact same excuse you did, no?

i think this should be a lesson to you. you cheat and it will come back to haunt you, in one form or another. at least if you didnt cheat you, and she did..you're at least left with your integrity

but I gotta agree with you there...karma coming back to spit in my face.

 

[myway]

dump her immediately.

TITCR.

 

[chefbone]

It's hard to trust women these days....

 

[myway]

It's hard to trust women these days....

These days??!?!?!?!??!

 

[chefbone]

These days??!?!?!?!??!

Touche salesman...