What would you do...

[alphaxi]

I have a friend who I recently found out was cheating on his girlfriend...but the problem is this: she is also my friend. What should I do?? I am stuck here. I want to do the right thing.
On one hand I think I should mind my own business and let them deal with their own problems. But on the other hand I would want someone to tell me if my bf was cheating... I wish I had never found this out....

 

[Toothless]

I would advise against protecting either one of them.

Insetad, lock them both in an electrical shed and burn them with kerosene. If they should live, kick their skulls in and mutilate their corpses.

 

[alphaxi]

I would advise against protecting either one of them.

Insetad, lock them both in an electrical shed and burn them with kerosene. If they should live, kick their skulls in and mutilate their corpses.

Ummm...thanks for the advice?

 

[smallmovesal]

I have a friend who I recently found out was cheating on his girlfriend...but the problem is this: she is also my friend. What should I do?? I am stuck here. I want to do the right thing.
On one hand I think I should mind my own business and let them deal with their own problems. But on the other hand I would want someone to tell me if my bf was cheating... I wish I had never found this out....

stay out of it... from personal experience i'd keep that info to myself and feign ignorance if asked.

from someone who "did the right thing" and told, the person stupidly (imo) stayed... and is going to sadly get really hurt willingly i suppose. hard to say, tell and they freak or tell and they stay... best to do nothing. ugh... i feel ya though.

 

[decem]

who are you better friends with? who were you friends with first? are you a guy or a girl?

 

[bunnymt]

Re: Re: What would you do...

stay out of it... from personal experience i'd keep that info to myself and feign ignorance if asked.

from someone who "did the right thing" and told, the person stupidly (imo) stayed... and is going to sadly get really hurt willingly i suppose. hard to say, tell and they freak or tell and they stay... best to do nothing. ugh... i feel ya though.

My thoughts exactly:stay out of it. You do not want to be responsible for helping the shit to hit the fan.

 

[Night Fly]

I think you should stay out of it...simply because...the guy should be man enough to tell her himself...and if he doesn't, then she will find out eventually.

Plus...she may run to him and confront him about it...and he deny it, and she will turn against you when you were only trying to protect her.

It would be in your best interest just to not bother with it.

 

[alphaxi]

Re: Re: What would you do...

stay out of it... from personal experience i'd keep that info to myself and feign ignorance if asked.

from someone who "did the right thing" and told, the person stupidly (imo) stayed... and is going to sadly get really hurt willingly i suppose. hard to say, tell and they freak or tell and they stay... best to do nothing. ugh... i feel ya though.

I was thinking the same thing...I hate hanging out with both of them and knowing...but I would rather keep it to myself than cause problems..not only with their relationship, but my relationship with both of them...cause I dont want to lose either one of them as friends...

Thanks smalls... BTW..how you been girl?? Havent talked to you lately!

 

[big4life]

Re: Re: What would you do...

stay out of it... from personal experience i'd keep that info to myself and feign ignorance if asked.

from someone who "did the right thing" and told, the person stupidly (imo) stayed... and is going to sadly get really hurt willingly i suppose. hard to say, tell and they freak or tell and they stay... best to do nothing. ugh... i feel ya though.

What smalls said.

I've been in your situation and there's no easy answer.

I wish there was.

 

[alphaxi]

I guess another thing Im worried about though is that I think that she suspects something is going on...and I dont want her to ask me about it. I would hate lying to her...

But thanks for all the advice guys!! I appreciate it!