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NJjuice22

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your ex who you have a kid with. Would you say , "fuck the both of em, im not even going to waste my time thinking about it" or would you say " this fuck is disrespecting me, let me do some investigating and smash his skull in" ?
 
see i have confronted him on this cuz i got this gut feeling about it. he's been acting shady around me lately and i can never seem to reach the both of them at the same time. he knows im crazy and would beat him til someone dragged me off him so he would NEVER have the balls to admit it to me. so I would have to catch them out there.
 
i'd think you need to choose friends wiser.. my best friend would drop kick my woman if she ever made a pass at him..

if its true i'd think you should kill him.. but do nothing unlawful that could make yourself go to jail.. try and fuck his mom or something?
 
NJjuice22 said:
see i have confronted him on this cuz i got this gut feeling about it. he's been acting shady around me lately and i can never seem to reach the both of them at the same time. he knows im crazy and would beat him til someone dragged me off him so he would NEVER have the balls to admit it to me. so I would have to catch them out there.
talk to one of her friends and see if they will tell you whats up. seriously if you find out that he is hittin that shit , fuckin put that prick in the hospital and never talk to his faggot ass again
 
hotzie said:
talk to one of her friends and see if they will tell you whats up. seriously if you find out that he is hittin that shit , fuckin put that prick in the hospital and never talk to his faggot ass again

you know what, im just gonna patiently wait. I mean i have zero evidence so im just gonna wait to catch them out there and when i do. I'll knock that fuck out. we been in fights together, he has no chin and he seen me stomp out some dudes so he is terrified of me. so there is no question that i can take him its just a matter of having just cause to do it.
 
NJjuice22 said:
you know what, im just gonna patiently wait. I mean i have zero evidence so im just gonna wait to catch them out there and when i do. I'll knock that fuck out. we been in fights together, he has no chin and he seen me stomp out some dudes so he is terrified of me. so there is no question that i can take him its just a matter of having just cause to do it.
yea that will work too , just dont let him or anyone else know that you are waiting to catch them slippin , you never know who else is helpin them hide it from you
 
foreigngirl said:
why is it only his fault? The bitch is guilty as fuck too


i fuck her up. i get locked up.

i fuck him up. nothing happens. his ghetto ass sure is fuck is not pressing charges on me.

i get no satisfaction out of hitting a woman. now hitting a man who is my size or bigger...thats just fun.
 
NJjuice22 said:
i fuck her up. i got locked up.

i fuck him up. nothing happens. his ghetto as sure is fuck is not pressing charges on me.


the friend is disrespecting as hell. Bitch is whore. USA is fucked up with the laws
 
jackangel said:
are you still close to your ex?


when you have a kid its almost impossible to not be. i mean i see the bitch everyday cuz i pick my daughter up from school . we have fucked around recently to.



Also..i have no evidence to think this other than a gut feeling and some weird coincedences
 
Dood, I'd be hurt. But what good would beating someone up because he was seeing a kid's mom do? Really, honestly, and seriously? How would it positively get your point across that the behavior of the *sausage* was unacceptable? Beat the hell out of someone because they are making their mom happy? Not the best thing for a kid.
 
You already decided she's not worth your time. The only problem I see is your friend not being man enough to tell you he's interested in her. So either he's a bitch, or he doesn't respect you. Of course you won't be able to help but be mad (I'd wanna bash his face too) but best logic is to say good riddance to the both of them.
 
SoreArms said:
You already decided she's not worth your time. The only problem I see is your friend not being man enough to tell you he's interested in her. So either he's a bitch, or he doesn't respect you. Of course you won't be able to help but be mad (I'd wanna bash his face too) but best logic is to say good riddance to the both of them.



I know..the thing is i have no proof yet. him admitting it is not an option. my friends think im a physcopath...they are not going to admit that kinda stuff to me. so i cant cut him off as a friend yet . i mean we talk everyday, hang out all the time. i know for a fact he is not dating her...i think its more of a "fuck once in awhile thing" but again i have no proof other than him acting weird to me.
 
Smurfy said:
I find this kind of behavior intriguing. I mean, really.


its totally disrespectfull from both sides. If it was one of us, someone would wake up with a gun in his/her face. Just to scare them though
 
NJjuice22 said:
I know..the thing is i have no proof yet. him admitting it is not an option. my friends think im a physcopath...they are not going to admit that kinda stuff to me. so i cant cut him off as a friend yet . i mean we talk everyday, hang out all the time. i know for a fact he is not dating her...i think its more of a "fuck once in awhile thing" but again i have no proof other than him acting weird to me.
Maybe he is just gay and wants you but not sure how to tell ya. :rainbow:
 
The same shit happened to one of my friends he found out his best friend was with his recent ex who he had 2 kids with and the youngest was only months old. He pretty much kicked the shit out of him when he caught him over at her parents house with her. Now she won't even let him see his kids and he has an ongoing battle in court.

If your supposed friend won't press any charges then feel free to bash the fuck out of his sorry ass!
 
i guess im just out there.. but when i let something go then its gone for good. X, friend.. whatever.. if you don't want her for what ever reason theres some fucker that will put up will her shit.. or his(what ever the situation) If you want her then make things right.. other wise she's free game suga... One of my friends hooked up with my X and i can give a shit less... he's a little bit off my back now.. no all the way but better. I don't want him so what right do I have to pick who hes with?

Maybe thats just me, i don't attach to people .... not even to be bothered by the fact that the man i was with for 11 years is with a friend of ours and we have 2 kids together. HELL if he's happy, and she's good to my kids, than its all good.

You make a choice when you break up a relationship and you put that person up for grabs, who has the right to say who they are with?
 
That would be fucked up situation but I'd find out for sure and if its true I'd walk away before doing any damage and now if you caught them red handed I'd definitely put the hurtin thats wrong esp ur boy !
 
You keep using this word "EX." What does this word mean on your planet?

Because on mine, it means "One with whom you are no longer an item. See also: Over. Finished. Done."
 
NJjuice22 said:
your ex who you have a kid with. Would you say , "fuck the both of em, im not even going to waste my time thinking about it" or would you say " this fuck is disrespecting me, let me do some investigating and smash his skull in" ?
more to the point, this is your ex rubbing your nose in shit. hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. They think that they're hurting you by slutting with your friends (or your enemies) when they're really just making themselves look bad.

a guy will fuck anything, there's no calculus involved, for the chick its all planned and strategic.

I had a ex who said [start brazillian accent] "I find out you cheat, I fuck all you friends." [/end brazillian accent] as if that was something bad for me instead of her.

dont waste your energy on either of them and its not worth getting yourself in trouble over. just write them off as dead to you. you'd be surprised how easy it is lol.


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I wouldn't like it. Might have to write him off.
 
digger said:
You keep using this word "EX." What does this word mean on your planet?

Because on mine, it means "One with whom you are no longer an item. See also: Over. Finished. Done."



it sucks when u have a child with the person..believe me. i dont get jealous about her dating habits...but if my best friend fucked her...thats disrespect on a whole new level.
 
think of your kid bro,if you react to this you may never see your kid if she has her way. and if he is doing this he isnt a true friend to begin with,let it go and move on,his loss
 
theoak01 said:
think of your kid bro,if you react to this you may never see your kid if she has her way. and if he is doing this he isnt a true friend to begin with,let it go and move on,his loss

That's true. THe new law states that if you get a domestic violence charge against you, you cannot get custody of your children. I think it's bullshit, but I don't make the laws. Stupid people do. LOL
 
NJjuice22 said:
thanks. for making me want to kill someone...thanks alot.

dude, just confess to him that you have herpes and are scared about what you should do. Ask him if he thinks you should tell her.
 
i dont think you have any business hitting the guy. since youre a self confessed violent sort of guy, any attraction between them was always going to be kept from you (and rightly so) and not just because its none of your business who she has sex with.

dont get me wrong, him having sex with the mother of your child is super slimy, but you should treat it like any other betrayal - cut ties with him then take a step back. if he tries to reenter your life or start drama, then feel free to step up.

on another note, i think it reflects poorly on you that youre letting your mind work itself to the point of wanting to hit your "friend" when you have nothing more than a hunch. youre not the sort of person id personally call friend. its a tad juvenile, really, and being in this pickle serves you right for making your friends think that youre a psycho.

cheerios
 
juicedmohawk said:
dude, just confess to him that you have herpes and are scared about what you should do. Ask him if he thinks you should tell her.

omg thats fucking wrong

LOL
 
thats cool. I feel your opinion. the only reason my friends/the entire town think im crazy is because of a handul of stupid situations. basically, i went to a mostly hispanic school...and since i looked white (im half cuban) i got fucked with. so i became super defensive and got into alot of fights with the puerto rican kids. they call me crazy cuz i hit a kid with a hockey stick in gym class and he was supposedly the badass of the school. but yeah..i dont trust my friend...he;s thinks he's rico suave.
 
juicedmohawk said:
dude, just confess to him that you have herpes and are scared about what you should do. Ask him if he thinks you should tell her.

I would tell em Aids.
 
What the hell is wrong with you people? Why does it matter? Is your Ex not allowed to be happy? Or your friend? If they are playing hide-the-salami, your buddy sure as hell wouldn't say anything, 'cause he knows you're psycho.
How is it disrespecting you. You own her or something?
You gotta learn to let it slide, or you're going to die before your time from a stroke, heart attack, or bleeding ulcer.
 
hidngod said:
What the hell is wrong with you people? Why does it matter? Is your Ex not allowed to be happy? Or your friend? If they are playing hide-the-salami, your buddy sure as hell wouldn't say anything, 'cause he knows you're psycho.
How is it disrespecting you. You own her or something?
You gotta learn to let it slide, or you're going to die before your time from a stroke, heart attack, or bleeding ulcer.



yes, thats the logical opinion...but would you feel the same if it was your friend?
 
NJjuice22 said:
yes, thats the logical opinion...but would you feel the same if it was your friend?
If I felt as strongly, I would just cut ties with him. But but if he's been a friend to this point, the friendship is worth more then the ex. Chances are they won't last anyways. If they do last, & you considered this guy your friend, you really wouldn't want to stand in the way of what could be the love of his life, do you? Unless you're not much of a friend & you think some piece of tail is worth throwing away a friendship.
 
Did you dump your ex or did she dump you? If you dumped her I don't see that there is a problem.

If she dumped you and you still want her that's a different story.
 
no matter how you feel about her, it's clearly a foolish move on his part and a sign of disrespect. in our world, this is all obvious...he could not have slept with his best friend's ex without consciously realizing that this is not a cool move. yet he did it anyway, that's the thing. that decision (or lack of restraint) is what should make you seriously re-evaluate the friendship. so get rid of him, but beating the fuck out of him is probably not the best thing to do.

how about this, do it like a movie: go up to him (once you know he's guilty), lay him out with a shot to the jaw (because he crossed the line), then help him up (because he was your friend), turn your back, and walk away forever. all without saying a word.
 
jackangel said:
no matter how you feel about her, it's clearly a foolish move on his part and a sign of disrespect. in our world, this is all obvious...he could not have slept with his best friend's ex without consciously realizing that this is not a cool move. yet he did it anyway, that's the thing. that decision (or lack of restraint) is what should make you seriously re-evaluate the friendship. so get rid of him, but beating the fuck out of him is probably not the best thing to do.

how about this, do it like a movie: go up to him (once you know he's guilty), lay him out with a shot to the jaw (because he crossed the line), then help him up (because he was your friend), turn your back, and walk away forever. all without saying a word.
Yeah, but what about the "bros before hoes" rule?

Some of my friends have gone out with ex's. One friend went out with an ex that I still wanted. No big deal. Sure, it hurt. But I valued the friend more.
 
EnderJE said:
Yeah, but what about the "bros before hoes" rule?

that's up to each individual. doesn't seem like njjelq is leaning that way, though.

regardless, it's out-of-line behaviour which elicits a "wtf?" from me, so he better be a great friend who happened to make an uncharacteristically retarded move because she was hot and he was drunk and upset that his dog just died.
 
NJjuice22 said:
your ex who you have a kid with. Would you say , "fuck the both of em, im not even going to waste my time thinking about it" or would you say " this fuck is disrespecting me, let me do some investigating and smash his skull in" ?
I would say you mistook him for your best friend....then tear his arm off and beat him to death with it but I'm a pacifist....
 
Thats about one of the most disrespectful things a friend can do next to doing it while your still with the girl in which case both deserve to be hit by a bus or at least something really bad.

Id beat the piss out of him and never speak to him again, and do it in front of the whore

IFFFF this is true that is
 
superqt4u2nv said:
"fuck the both of em, im not even going to waste my time thinking about it"


im sorry but i do agree. you wont be able to stop them. they will just hate you and not each other. it wont accomplish anything. he will still be tagging her no matter what. until their relationship falls apart then your friend will realize he lost his friend for nothing.
 
had same situation...didnt have kids with my ex tho...but my "friend" is now merely an aquaintence...we dont speak much. he's alot bigger than me, and toured the world as a wrestler for the NAVY...he would kill me, and im no slouch. but i knew my capabilities-and she wasnt worth me getting hurt over it.
i told him how i felt about it...they both denied the relationship.
Karma= his wife recently left him and took his kids. he sent her off with a big fat 6 figure check...ENJOY.
motherfucker.
 
If you feel that the acts of your ex with your bestfriend could have negative impacts on your child, I wouldnt even second guess it.

In terms of disrespecting you. Make sure you find out for sure if he is. Then, if he is. Dont beat him, humiliate him. Anybody can get back up from a beating. But humiliation bet's burned into peoples minds and they never forget. Do something nasty...be creative.
 
NJjuice22 said:
your ex who you have a kid with. Would you say , "fuck the both of em, im not even going to waste my time thinking about it" or would you say " this fuck is disrespecting me, let me do some investigating and smash his skull in" ?


Find proof and then confront him and see what he tries to say. If he fesses, go easier on him than if he flat out lies to you and denies it, which would warrant a hospital visit for ex best friend.
 
Ceaser is right, humiliate him.... Im sure he's told ya some deep dark secret if he really is your best friend, don't hold back on anything, use what you got... destroying someone emotionallly and mentally is the best offense
 
He's not your friend if he's doing your ex behind your back. A friend would get approval first or at least a give a head's up.
 
NJjuice22 said:
your ex who you have a kid with. Would you say , "fuck the both of em, im not even going to waste my time thinking about it" or would you say " this fuck is disrespecting me, let me do some investigating and smash his skull in" ?
Happened to me, the fucker did the runner with her in the first week after it came to an end, so he was giving it earlier than that.

I got suspect on them, but people have a way of making it turn on you, like YOU are the paranoid and deranged one.

Never got the chance to beat him as they left town, and when she came back, he never. I taught him to fight and he hasnt the balls to confront me.

Beat that cocksucker up bro, before the chance is gone forever.
 
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