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What Would You Do If You Found Out or Caught Your SO Cheating on You?
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polarpixie said:
First, I think that is very admirable that you would stay with him for the kids knowing how you feel about him cheating. But I bet if he did all those things around the house and for you and proved to you he wouldn't do it agaiin you would end up forgiving and falling back in love with him.
Yes jimmbc, God is perfect and we are not but we are to strive to be perfect.
polarpixie
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Boach said:
shyeah....I fell for that one before thinking...what are the chances he will meet Pamela and her 5 sisters? WELL, GUESS what happened next?
Curling...you may be right...who knows? I know better than to predict my own actions by now tho. Of course, he REALLY would have to complete each and every single task on the PAYBACK TIME checklist, then I MIGHT think about it.
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Boach said:
Shyeah! I knew that!
Lord_Suston
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Never..........
Never could I trust them.... I have seen my friends go insane because their SO cheated on them. They were hurt beyond belief, imagine the one person who you have done everything for stabbed you in the back. Forgive them.... NEVER.... I couldn't do that I dated a girl once for a few months and she started to like someone else, and I knew it, so we broke it off. She never cheated but it haunted me to the point I couldn't sleep. I wondered what i did wrong, for the longest time. Eventually I grew up and realized it worked out for the better now imagine that situation and married to boot, with more time an effort and trust involved. I couldn't take it i would destroy the guy, and I don't know what i would do to the women, especially if i saw it.
My girlfriend just moved to go work in Manhattan, so we are about 2.5 hours away, am i worried yes, and I trust her implicitly. I have seen her out drunk and what does she do, she calls me and talks only to me and her friends. So excuses don't work....
Never could I trust them.... I have seen my friends go insane because their SO cheated on them. They were hurt beyond belief, imagine the one person who you have done everything for stabbed you in the back. Forgive them.... NEVER.... I couldn't do that I dated a girl once for a few months and she started to like someone else, and I knew it, so we broke it off. She never cheated but it haunted me to the point I couldn't sleep. I wondered what i did wrong, for the longest time. Eventually I grew up and realized it worked out for the better now imagine that situation and married to boot, with more time an effort and trust involved. I couldn't take it i would destroy the guy, and I don't know what i would do to the women, especially if i saw it.
My girlfriend just moved to go work in Manhattan, so we are about 2.5 hours away, am i worried yes, and I trust her implicitly. I have seen her out drunk and what does she do, she calls me and talks only to me and her friends. So excuses don't work....
##spiderbaby##
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Forgiveness doesnt work. Ive been there, its pure hell. Someone said it best "once a cheat always a cheat"
I always thought I would never forgive in that situation. It happened to me and I forgave but could not forget so in the end I had to let her go.
I never found out who he was, try as I might no one would give him up. The only person who knew him was her and her friend and they never told me for good reason I supose. I know it wasnt someone I knew because they would have told me in an instant to see me hurt and beat someone down.
I only date women who come from good loving familys now. No more broken home girls, you cant save them.
Get rid of her. Only the weak keep them. There are good women out there.
##spiderbaby##
I always thought I would never forgive in that situation. It happened to me and I forgave but could not forget so in the end I had to let her go.
I never found out who he was, try as I might no one would give him up. The only person who knew him was her and her friend and they never told me for good reason I supose. I know it wasnt someone I knew because they would have told me in an instant to see me hurt and beat someone down.
I only date women who come from good loving familys now. No more broken home girls, you cant save them.
Get rid of her. Only the weak keep them. There are good women out there.
##spiderbaby##
