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What Would You Do If You Found Out or Caught Your SO Cheating on You?

Pamela said:
If you truely love & understand someone
you should be able to over come any situation.



Pamela :frog:
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I loved someone.. but I could not get the image of another guy banging her out of my head.

If you truly love someone you do not commit a crime that will forever scar someone.
 
dballer said:



I loved someone.. but I could not get the image of another guy banging her out of my head.

If you truly love someone you do not commit a crime that will forever scar someone.
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I understand totally where you are coming from but it will pass over time. Time does heal.

Pamela,

That was beautiful what you said and very true love and understanding can conquer anything if you just try it and have faith in it.
 
Pamela said:
If you truely love & understand someone
you should be able to over come any situation.



Pamela :frog:
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I don't know if I would feel that generous to someone who had just totally destroyed my world because of their whimsical selfishness. Sex is a very central issue to any relationship, and I'm not sure I could deal with a cheater. In fact, I'm damn near sure that I couldn't.
 
I will just let God forgive my ex.. she is not in my life anymore. I really don't think about it anymore. But it did effect my trust. I can still trust.. but more like a prision guard trusts inmates.. hahahaha
 
casavant said:



So is my size 15 when it boots her ass out the door.
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:lmao:
 
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What?

True love does not conquer all.

What books have ya'll been readin'?


If the person in question loved and respected you so much they wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place.

Drop the fairy tale - love does not conquer all nor is it a forever type of feeling, it is just an emotion and as any emotion it is not a permanent thing.
 
velvett said:

Drop the fairy tale - love does not conquer all nor is it a forever type of feeling, it is just an emotion and as any emotion it is not a permanent thing.
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yeah... like an upset stomach.
 
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velvett said:
What?

True love does not conquer all.

What books have ya'll been readin'?


If the person in question loved and respected you so much they wouldn't have cheated on you in the first place.

Drop the fairy tale - love does not conquer all nor is it a forever type of feeling, it is just an emotion and as any emotion it is not a permanent thing.
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Velvette,

I am surprised this doesn't sound like you love can overcome anything with God's help. I mean He forgave us for all the crap we have done to him why can't we forgive someone that we love that made a mistake that hurt us? Sure the person shouldn't have cheated but we are just mere mortals and maybe the relationship was in slump at the time. But like I said how can we not forgive somebody when God forgives us. Matter of fact it says in the Bible if you do not forgive somebodies trangressions against you, He in turn will not forgive yours.

I am not saying you have to stay with the person it doesn't say that, but if the cheating spouse is really sorry and promised to never do it again. I think everybody deserves a second chance don't you?
 
curling said:
I think everybody deserves a second chance don't you?
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I used to.

But it has been proven to me since childhood that offering second chances will lead to third and fourth chances.

Sometimes people need to learn and suffer the consequences of their actions. By being given chance after chance they will never learn from their mistake.

This thought is not soley limited to love and cheating, it really goes for anything really.
 
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I wouldn't expect a second chance if I cheated on my SO. I would understand if they didn't want to stay with me.
 
Well in 2000 while visiting my girl and her damn redneck parents in the far west.

I lost my trust in her, but didnt had any proof at all she was cheating, anyway
I knew that the relationship was kind of f*** and I wanted to put an halt to it.
But while I was waiting to tell her, and instead of telling me " Hey not working together lkalalala" SHE WENT DOWN ON A GUY IN FRONT OF MY EYES!!!!!!
that was her way to tell me, it was over

I took first plane back home and volunteered for a exchange tour in Siera Leonne
so when she tried to call me I was farrrrrrrr away!

PS: SHE MARRIED the guy last summer and she cheated on him at least 5 times :(

:bawling: :bawling: :bawling:
 
God's love is perfect and we are not capable of anything near that, so it is not analogous.

I think what Velvet said is right about it being a fairy tale. Although love conquers all is a romantic notion and a novel idea, relationships are easily broken by infidelity. Love is something that can be sustained for a lifetime, but it has be to be a strong bond and both parties have to work at it.
 
3Vandoo said:
PS: SHE MARRIED the guy last summer and she cheated on him at least 5 times :(

:bawling: :bawling: :bawling:
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3Vandoo, You got lucky you didn't end up with that floozy!


I think everyone deserves a 2nd chance too.....with someone else. A second chance isn't gonna happen with me.
 
3Vandoo said:
Well in 2000 while visiting my girl and her damn redneck parents in the far west.

I lost my trust in her, but didnt had any proof at all she was cheating, anyway
I knew that the relationship was kind of f*** and I wanted to put an halt to it.
But while I was waiting to tell her, and instead of telling me " Hey not working together lkalalala" SHE WENT DOWN ON A GUY IN FRONT OF MY EYES!!!!!!
that was her way to tell me, it was over

I took first plane back home and volunteered for a exchange tour in Siera Leonne
so when she tried to call me I was farrrrrrrr away!

PS: SHE MARRIED the guy last summer and she cheated on him at least 5 times :(

:bawling: :bawling: :bawling:
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You just made me hate another person I do not know.

This thread makes me like Morrisey more and more.

People fuckin suck.
 
Jimsbbc said:


That's the right idea.
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Thanks Jim. The only time that may not apply is if I were married with kids tho. If that bastard ever cheated on me, no, I wouldn't divorce him until after our kids were grown up, but in the meantime, HERE's the deal......I'd NEVER have sex with him again (i'm incredibly self-sufficient), he'd be the house elf and clean and cook and give me weekly pedicures, 3/4 of his paycheck, and that is only the beginning of payback time. Damn...the more I think about it...that would be nice to have around the house....know any cheaters wanna marry me? HAHAHAHAHA!
 
polarpixie said:


Thanks Jim. The only time that may not apply is if I were married with kids tho. If that bastard ever cheated on me, no, I wouldn't divorce him until after our kids were grown up, but in the meantime, HERE's the deal......I'd NEVER have sex with him again (i'm incredibly self-sufficient), he'd be the house elf and clean and cook and give me weekly pedicures, 3/4 of his paycheck, and that is only the beginning of payback time. Damn...the more I think about it...that would be nice to have around the house....know any cheaters wanna marry me? HAHAHAHAHA!
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If that's your body in the avatar, then the only people I'd cheat on you with is "Palm-ela" and her 5 sisters.
 
polarpixie said:


Thanks Jim. The only time that may not apply is if I were married with kids tho. If that bastard ever cheated on me, no, I wouldn't divorce him until after our kids were grown up, but in the meantime, HERE's the deal......I'd NEVER have sex with him again (i'm incredibly self-sufficient), he'd be the house elf and clean and cook and give me weekly pedicures, 3/4 of his paycheck, and that is only the beginning of payback time. Damn...the more I think about it...that would be nice to have around the house....know any cheaters wanna marry me? HAHAHAHAHA!
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First, I think that is very admirable that you would stay with him for the kids knowing how you feel about him cheating. But I bet if he did all those things around the house and for you and proved to you he wouldn't do it agaiin you would end up forgiving and falling back in love with him.

Yes jimmbc, God is perfect and we are not but we are to strive to be perfect.
 
Boach said:


If that's your body in the avatar, then the only people I'd cheat on you with is "Palm-ela" and her 5 sisters.
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shyeah....I fell for that one before thinking...what are the chances he will meet Pamela and her 5 sisters? WELL, GUESS what happened next? :(


Curling...you may be right...who knows? I know better than to predict my own actions by now tho. Of course, he REALLY would have to complete each and every single task on the PAYBACK TIME checklist, then I MIGHT think about it. :D
 
polarpixie said:


shyeah....I fell for that one before thinking...what are the chances he will meet Pamela and her 5 sisters? WELL, GUESS what happened next? :(

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No...PALM-ela as in my left hand!!!
 
polarpixie said:


Curling...you may be right...who knows? I know better than to predict my own actions by now tho. Of course, he REALLY would have to complete each and every single task on the PAYBACK TIME checklist, then I MIGHT think about it. :D
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Fair enough. :D
 
Never..........

Never could I trust them.... I have seen my friends go insane because their SO cheated on them. They were hurt beyond belief, imagine the one person who you have done everything for stabbed you in the back. Forgive them.... NEVER.... I couldn't do that I dated a girl once for a few months and she started to like someone else, and I knew it, so we broke it off. She never cheated but it haunted me to the point I couldn't sleep. I wondered what i did wrong, for the longest time. Eventually I grew up and realized it worked out for the better now imagine that situation and married to boot, with more time an effort and trust involved. I couldn't take it i would destroy the guy, and I don't know what i would do to the women, especially if i saw it.

My girlfriend just moved to go work in Manhattan, so we are about 2.5 hours away, am i worried yes, and I trust her implicitly. I have seen her out drunk and what does she do, she calls me and talks only to me and her friends. So excuses don't work....
 
Forgiveness doesnt work. Ive been there, its pure hell. Someone said it best "once a cheat always a cheat"

I always thought I would never forgive in that situation. It happened to me and I forgave but could not forget so in the end I had to let her go.

I never found out who he was, try as I might no one would give him up. The only person who knew him was her and her friend and they never told me for good reason I supose. I know it wasnt someone I knew because they would have told me in an instant to see me hurt and beat someone down.

I only date women who come from good loving familys now. No more broken home girls, you cant save them.

Get rid of her. Only the weak keep them. There are good women out there.


##spiderbaby##
 
well yes, thanx god she did that to me, in fact I was happy a while after, while in SL in a chopter I started laughing madly thinking about her and her new bf. Only the brits next to me thought I was insane at first.

For months I said hey she was a damn bitch, in fact she is, she disrespected me on the higher note possible. I remember her friend that told me < hey j what are you doing with her >

But it all past now, and I am VERY happy that I am not the one MARRIED and stuck with THAT.

About second chance, in cheating I don t believe in that.
there second chance for other things but not for cheating.

I don t know how people can cheat I ve been in hundred of situation where I was able to cheat and I never did, I am very faithful and proud of it, I get mads when some peoples laught at me because I am faithful and loyal to the person I love :(.

I guess I am an utopian lover :rose: :nopity:
 
3Vandoo said:


About second chance, in cheating I don t believe in that.
there second chance for other things but not for cheating.

I don t know how people can cheat I ve been in hundred of situation where I was able to cheat and I never did, I am very faithful and proud of it, I get mads when some peoples laught at me because I am faithful and loyal to the person I love :(.

I guess I am an utopian lover :rose: :nopity:
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You have no idea how much I understand.
 
I got cheated on.. same as everyone else. I was just really taken by suprise. As you can see I have strong feelings on the subject.

I think they should make a video of peoples reaction to their loved ones cheating on them with that Foreigner song "I wanna know what love is" playing in the background.
 
dballer said:
I got cheated on.. same as everyone else. I was just really taken by suprise. As you can see I have strong feelings on the subject.

I think they should make a video of peoples reaction to their loved ones cheating on them with that Foreigner song "I wanna know what love is" playing in the background.
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I hear you, man.
 
curling said:
Was she your girlfriend or your wife? And how long has it been?
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It has been over a year.. I am over her.. I just cannot get over that people really do this shit to eachother.. it makes the words I Love You seem so cheap and over-used.. kinda like Trust Me...
ya know??
 
Man, dude that sux. I pray that you find someone that you can trust so the words "I love you" will take the positive meaning they should to you. Where did you meet this girl btw?
 
dballer said:


It has been over a year.. I am over her.. I just cannot get over that people really do this shit to eachother.. it makes the words I Love You seem so cheap and over-used.. kinda like Trust Me...
ya know??
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It's been more than a year??? The way you speak about it, I would've thought it just happened just the other day.... :( Do I need to leaver her an Ass Imprint? :D Don't worry DB, one day you will be so over it, you won't even feel bad or anything at all when you speak of it, like curling said, I hope you'll find trust again.

I agree about the over-used part.
 
polarpixie said:


It's been more than a year??? The way you speak about it, I would've thought it just happened just the other day.... :( Do I need to leaver her an Ass Imprint? :D Don't worry DB, one day you will be so over it, you won't even feel bad or anything at all when you speak of it, like curling said, I hope you'll find trust again.

I agree about the over-used part.
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Yeah.. I am over it. I am just pissed people can be so self centered. I am over all of it.
People just suck.
 
curling said:
Man, dude that sux. I pray that you find someone that you can trust so the words "I love you" will take the positive meaning they should to you. Where did you meet this girl btw?
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Thanks man. I do not think it will happen.. I just don't see it right now. I am kinda happy the way I am.. well... kinda. Being lonley is way better than being heartbroken.

Oh yeah, We used to work together.
 
dballer said:


Thanks man. I do not think it will happen.. I just don't see it right now. I am kinda happy the way I am.. well... kinda. Being lonley is way better than being heartbroken.

Oh yeah, We used to work together.
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The best things are never expected. ;)


Oh yeah, We used to work together. <--- bad!!!
 
it would not be pretty. I have a wife ive been married to 7 years in april and 3 beautiful daughters who I love more than the world and may sound evil but i would prolly kill someone and it would ruin all of our lives. Im very touchy when it comes to stuff like this. For some reason i cannot explain ive been very jealous lately. I mean guys talking to my wife looking at her ect...... I never used to be that way. There are guys I know she slept with way before we got together that happen to be married to friends of hers and when they talk to her I dont like it. I know its stupid but I cannot help it. Like i say never used to be that way. It may have something to do with hormones being out of wack due to post cycle. heh not really sure though. I dont say anything to her about my feelilngs or try to be controlling of her but yes if I found out she was cheating I cannot say for sure but I would prolly break out the AR15. :(.

Life is very hard.
 
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it happened to me once... and i've never been able to trust the girl since. we still talk... but i don't trust her 100% and I probably never will again.
 
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