What Would You Do If You Found Out or Caught Your SO Cheating on You?

[Y_lifter]

Been there years ago...
At that time in my life, I could not forgive her especially since we were married only 6 months.

Imagine this, every time they are late coming home or call to tell you they are working late etc what will be your first thought?
Cheating again ? I could not go through that...

 

[curling]

dballer,

I think according to Texas law if he would have shot her too he would have got off tempory insanity. But if you just shoot the dude you are not THAT insane you are just being man that's pissed.

 

[dballer]

dballer,

I think according to Texas law if he would have shot her too he would have got off tempory insanity. But if you just shoot the dude you are not THAT insane you are just being man that's pissed.

He got Voluntary Manslaughter instead of Murder 2 because it was a crime of passion. I think it was worth it.

 

[casavant]

I'm not sure, but I don't think it would be easy to stay together. Every time we made love, I'd be thinking about that cocksucker's dick going into her and her moaning with pleasure (shiver). I don't know if I could take that shit.

 

[Testoterone Tom]

OK I've GOT to throw in my 2 cents. Stupid is as stupid does. Cheater's CHEAT. Good cheaters don't get caught. Bad cheaters have a lame excuse lined up. Like for example "I was drunk". Bullshit. I'm a bartender, and I see it coming a MILE away. It's as plain as the nose on their face. "I'm gonna F*@K that person". And so they do. And first time cheaters that "feel guilty" and confess, NOT "won't do it again" they simply up their standards for doing it again. Kind of justifys it to themselves. If you got a cheater for a G/F or wife, lose her sorry rear before you lose ALL of your diginety and self-respect, and you're put on anti-depressants for the rest of your life. Either that, or, get used to having an open relationship, and get your own "side dish". Personally, if my G/F was cheating I'd problably rage on the offending party. Then it's over. No taking back. She WILL do it again. Don't be a fool. And if the cheating takes place, in my car, or at my house, or with my money, someone's gonna die. Note the period.

 

[casavant]

This happened to me.. I tried to be civil. I threw her out of the house. Then I went to where the sancho worked... which was a bar. I made him cry in front of a bar full of people.


side-note...

I have a friend who walked in on his wife in bed with some guy. He took out a shotgun and proceeded to remove the sancho's head with 2 rounds from a 12 gauge. He was convicted of vol. manslaughter in 1981 and sentenced to 20 years. He did 9.

I think he should have been awarded a medal.

I can't say I blame your friend. I would be crazy mad if I walked in on that.

 

[Fantom604]

i dropped the bitch and eventually forgave her......we never got back together but we are still friends
thats what i would do

Although I would like to disagree with you, bigpimp, that is exactly what happened to me... We were engaged, I had suspiscions, and found out they were true (she had been lying to me for quite some time). Basically, I cursed her very existance, and let her know this for about a year... but eventually, we are friends again, I realized that I was just losing someone who was always a really good friend. We still talk and shit, and she is the only one I can tell most things to still.

 

[vixenbabe]

I'd be more upset with myself to wonder where I failed him in our marriage.

Trusting him would be far harder for me than forgiving him....

 

[Longhorn85]

He got Voluntary Manslaughter instead of Murder 2 because it was a crime of passion. I think it was worth it.

There have been some gruesome episodes of guys in the military that have found their wives cheating. One guy stationed in Germany had a wife who got pregnant by another soldier. He found out while she was in the hospital having the baby. He found the other guy at the military installation in a phone booth, he went in and assaulted this guy, decapitated him, put his head in a bag and took it to the hospital and gave it to his wife.

 

[Raina]

I've always told him I'd castrate him with a plastic sand shovel....but I can't imagine him ever doing that. If he did though, I don't think I could ever trust him again and without trust, we'd have nothing. I'm not friends with any ex's that cheated on me. I don't understand how anyone could do that to someone they cared about.