What Would You Do If You Found Out or Caught Your SO Cheating on You?

[dballer]

i have never understood this kind of "logic", why should the husband shoot the guy?? If anyone should be shot it should be the cheating wife, she is the one that has promised to be faithful. The guy might not even know she is married. Women also give the story that yes they are still "technically" married but it is really already over. I have heard this line myself more than once. People always want to blame the other party instead of the person who actually cheated on them.

That is easy.. she was less than 2 feet away from the actual gunfire. She had to watch 2 shotgun blasts go into this guys head. I guess you do not really understand it until you walk into your house and see some guys pecker in your wife.

It makes perfect sense to me.

 

[Night Fly]

When I was in high school....I dated this guy for about 3 years. 7 mths into the relationship he cheated on me. I thought that I was completely in love with him...so I forgave him...but the trust never ever came back. I questioned him all the time...and from that point on, he questioned me too. Probably because he thought that I was going to try to get revenge on him or something. I tried and tried and tried to trust him again...but I couldn't. We finally broke up...and a few months after we had broken up...I found out that he had cheated on me with 13 other people while we were together. No wonder he questioned me all the time. What a jackass.

I was so hurt and vowed to never ever be with someone after they did that to me. I don't care if I was married to them or what. If you made them happy then they would have no reason to go out and do that to you. If they did...then something went wrong somewhere...I just coudln't do it. Like Vixenbabe said, I could forgive, but the trust would never return.

 

[dballer]

This shit makes me hate humans. The more I think about it.. the more bitter I get.

 

[mrbill]

That is easy.. she was less than 2 feet away from the actual gunfire. She had to watch 2 shotgun blasts go into this guys head. I guess you do not really understand it until you walk into your house and see some guys pecker in your wife.

It makes perfect sense to me.

dballer...it still doesn't answer why not shoot the "bitch". She is the one cheating. Don't get me wrong, I have no sympathy for the guy if he knew she was married and had the balls to fuck some guys wife in the husband's house. He should at least had the sense to go to a hotel or somewhere else. I am just refering to the general idea that it is somehow the fault of the other person and not the one who is actually cheating. You see this kind of stuff all the time. Some guy cheats on his girl and she wants to kill the other chick for "stealing her man" instead of getting rid of the cheating asshole. Or guys want to go out and beat the ass of the other guy instead of blaming their girlfriend, wife, etc. Just my 2cents.

 

[mrbill]

That is easy.. she was less than 2 feet away from the actual gunfire. She had to watch 2 shotgun blasts go into this guys head. I guess you do not really understand it until you walk into your house and see some guys pecker in your wife.

It makes perfect sense to me.

dballer...it still doesn't answer why not shoot the "bitch". She is the one cheating. Don't get me wrong, I have no sympathy for the guy if he knew she was married and had the balls to fuck some guys wife in the husband's house. He should at least had the sense to go to a hotel or somewhere else. Also, the guy might have just been a fuck so how is that going to "hurt" the cheating wife. She might not even have really cared about the dude. So all that happens is the husband goes to prison, the other dude is dead and the bitch who started it all probably doesn't give a shit about any of them. How exactly does this "hurt her"??
Anyway, I am just refering to the general idea that it is somehow the fault of the other person and not the one who is actually cheating. You see this kind of stuff all the time. Some guy cheats on his girl and she wants to kill the other chick for "stealing her man" instead of getting rid of the cheating asshole. Or guys want to go out and beat the ass of the other guy instead of blaming their girlfriend, wife, etc. Just my 2cents.

 

[curling]

i have never understood this kind of "logic", why should the husband shoot the guy?? If anyone should be shot it should be the cheating wife, she is the one that has promised to be faithful. The guy might not even know she is married. Women also give the story that yes they are still "technically" married but it is really already over. I have heard this line myself more than once. People always want to blame the other party instead of the person who actually cheated on them.

Dude you should never mess with another man's woman. It even says that in the Bible. The husband will never forgive that and he will take revenge. If you sleep with a married woman you ARE playing russian roulette because most men WILL kill for something like that.

dballer,

I know this is bad nasty subject and I almost wish I wouldn't have started it. It is depressing and sad. Sorry dudes and dudettes if ya'll want I will close the thread, just tell me and I will.

 

[dballer]

dballer...it still doesn't answer why not shoot the "bitch". She is the one cheating. Don't get me wrong, I have no sympathy for the guy if he knew she was married and had the balls to fuck some guys wife in the husband's house. He should at least had the sense to go to a hotel or somewhere else. Also, the guy might have just been a fuck so how is that going to "hurt" the cheating wife. She might not even have really cared about the dude. So all that happens is the husband goes to prison, the other dude is dead and the bitch who started it all probably doesn't give a shit about any of them. How exactly does this "hurt her"??
Anyway, I am just refering to the general idea that it is somehow the fault of the other person and not the one who is actually cheating. You see this kind of stuff all the time. Some guy cheats on his girl and she wants to kill the other chick for "stealing her man" instead of getting rid of the cheating asshole. Or guys want to go out and beat the ass of the other guy instead of blaming their girlfriend, wife, etc. Just my 2cents.

I totally understand where you are coming from. To me.. it does not really make sense why he did nothing to her either.. but shooting the guy does make sense. You see.. the guy was next to her.. I guess laying next to a human being and having sex with them.. then 30 seconds later watching their head turn into hamburger.. that is kinda like a punishment. You see.. she has to know how bad she hurt him to do that.. and she has to know that by her being a whore.. she killed a man.

 

[dballer]

dballer,

I know this is bad nasty subject and I almost wish I wouldn't have started it. It is depressing and sad. Sorry dudes and dudettes if ya'll want I will close the thread, just tell me and I will.

Oh well.. it is life. This is what you are gonna deal with when you put your trust into someone. This is what happens.

 

[satanic goatslayer]

The only man that women cheat on me with is the Reaper.

 

[curling]

Oh well.. it is life. This is what you are gonna deal with when you put your trust into someone. This is what happens.

Yea, but at other times they can make you feel like you are on top of the world.

Goatslayer,

That was funny.