What Would You Do If You Found Out or Caught Your SO Cheating on You?

[mrbill]

Dude you should never mess with another man's woman. It even says that in the Bible. The husband will never forgive that and he will take revenge. If you sleep with a married woman you ARE playing russian roulette because most men WILL kill for something like that.

Curling, i think you are missing my point. I am not condoning anyone cheating..man or woman. I am just discussing placing the blame with the responsible party. If your wife is cheating on you who's fault is it?? The other guy's or your wife's. Don't forget she is the one who made the vows "before God" to be faithful etc. Not the other dude. He might not even know she is married.

 

[polarpixie]

Altho I agree that cheating on your SO is a horrible crime of the heart, I don't think that any man's life should have been taken away because of it. I mean, if it is 'morally' alright to kill a man over that, what other 'crimes' should be 'morally' agreed upon as worthy of death?

Instead of killing that guy, he should have just shot his jaw or something....Make him reeeeal ugly and no man's wife would ever even want to cheat with him.

 

[mrbill]

Instead of killing that guy, he should have just shot his jaw or something....Make him reeeeal ugly and no man's wife would ever even want to cheat with him.

I just don't get this...the fucking wife is a cheating bitch and the other guy should be the one that should be "shot in the jaw"?? Why not shoot the bitch in the jaw so she can't cheat on anyone else??

 

[polarpixie]

He might not even know she is married.

somehow I doubt that!! Even if he never asked or she never told him that she was married, when you are married to someone and you live in the same household, there is evidence everywhere there is someone of the opposite sex who shares that house with you. I do think that assholes who mess with someone else's SO, married or not, are just as guilty!

I would NEVER get involved with a man if I found out he was married or had a girlfriend...that is just WRONG. I know some people, both guys and girls, who don't think that is a big deal, because they are not the ones doing the cheating, but that is just as bad!!! They are an accessory to cheating!

 

[dballer]

I think he did a good job. This guy I am talking about is getting pretty old. He is about 70 now. He is still very heartbroken. I can tell. Even though he does not talk about it.. I can see it in his eyes when he sees another couple.

He is the victim.

 

[polarpixie]

I just don't get this...the fucking wife is a cheating bitch and the other guy should be the one that should be "shot in the jaw"?? Why not shoot the bitch in the jaw so she can't cheat on anyone else??

I guess I inadvertently just answered that in my last post..

 

[dballer]

I just don't get this...the fucking wife is a cheating bitch and the other guy should be the one that should be "shot in the jaw"?? Why not shoot the bitch in the jaw so she can't cheat on anyone else??

Yeah.. shoot him in the jaw.. and shoot her in the spinal cord.

 

[Taps]

Well, I think it's fucked up that some got killed for sticking his dick in another man's wife.

When it comes to cheating, I believe that it takes 2 to tango, but the ultimate responsability falls on the person with a SO.

If my (hypothetical) girlfirend ever cheated on me, I wouldn't kill her, but I'd _never_ be able to trust her again. I suppose I could forgive her eventually, but there's no way we could have a romantic relaionship ever again.

What bothers me is that the majority of women I know have cheated on thier long term parteners. Only 2 of of my guy freinds have done the same -- and they're both total assholes, while all the ladies I know are generally nice people. Doesn't exactly fill me with confidence about the fairer sex.

 

[curling]

Well, I think it's fucked up that some got killed for sticking his dick in another man's wife.

When it comes to cheating, I believe that it takes 2 to tango, but the ultimate responsability falls on the person with a SO.

Agreed but you are not talking about a rational thinking person. You are talking about one that is hurt massively and wants to strike back. And besides you don't know the guy you know and love your wife still. See the difference?

If my (hypothetical) girlfirend ever cheated on me, I wouldn't kill her, but I'd_never_ be able to trust her again. I suppose I could forgive her eventually, but there's no way we could have a romantic relaionship ever again.

And you could grow to love her and trust her again too. I am talking about your soul mate here. You know the girl that God wanted you to have. They are different than just some chick.

What bothers me is that the majority of women I know have cheated on thier long term parteners. Only 2 of of my guy freinds have done the same -- and they're both total assholes, while all the ladies I know are generally nice people. Doesn't exactly fill me with confidence about the fairer sex.

Maybe that is why those chicks cheated because husbands were assholes.

 

[dballer]

Taps.. you are soooo fucking right it is sick. I wish I could say you were wrong.. but you are not. The same rings true with me. It is sad.. There are a few good women out there with morals... but few is a BIG word.