What Would You Do If You Found Out or Caught Your SO Cheating on You?

[AziaReign]

Tie him down all sexual-like, blindfold him.........run my little hands down his thighs.............and back up...........then grab a very large butchers knife, snip off his balls, plop them in his mouth, gag him, make him choke on his own shit ya know???

I am SOOOOOOOOOOO kidding! ew! No, I wouldn't have to do anything. Just the look of disappointment should be enough. But also, he would be the one with the guilt on his shoulders of throwing away the relationship.

Then again, you never know what you would do in a situation like that.

 

[dballer]

Tie him down all sexual-like, blindfold him.........run my little hands down his thighs.............and back up...........then grab a very large butchers knife, snip off his balls, plop them in his mouth, gag him, make him choke on his own shit ya know???

I am SOOOOOOOOOOO kidding! ew! No, I wouldn't have to do anything. Just the look of disappointment should be enough. But also, he would be the one with the guilt on his shoulders of throwing away the relationship.

Then again, you never know what you would do in a situation like that.

Think of this....

If you mattered that much to him where guilt would be enough.. do think he would cheat in the first place??

I would go back to option A

 

[curling]

[ I don't understand how anyone could do that to someone they cared about. [/B]

That's the point that I think vixenbabe brought up. Maybe they "didn't" care about you at that time they . You let them down somewhere in their eyes and they sought effection elsewhere because they weren't feeling from their spouse. But then they saw that it sux with the person they do it with feel bad.

Like I said, I have totally changed from the way I use to be. I use to be a dick and said hateful things to my wife(I still am mad at myself for doing it but I still did it all I can do now is change for the better you can't change the past) So say I found out she cheated on me then it was partially my fault for not being a nice husband. It would still hurt and it would take a while to build the trust back up but I would do it because I love and she is my soul mate.

 

[curling]

Blamed myself- got super depressed and filed for divorce..

Oh how I hate to hear this. Was your SO sorry they did it and then ask you to forgive them?

 

[AziaReign]

Think of this....

If you mattered that much to him where guilt would be enough.. do think he would cheat in the first place??

No. I have 100% trust in my BF, moreso the past year we have been together. I positively know that he will never do anything to ever hurt me, and I have the exact same respect for him.

#1) There is no reason for either of us to even consider cheating. We provide each other with as much as we are able to.

#2) In my eyes, no one can compare to my BF. Not one person on this earth.

 

[Wombat]

If my wife went behind my back-----Lets see what would I do??????

Well lets try this-----

1. Talk to her and try to get to the truth on why...
2. Leave her --no matter what--I would rather be alone then to have to wonder about it all the time...
3. Wait 1 year and then all hell would break loose...
4. I would slice the back of her moms hamstring (ala caddyshack) and have her dads cock cut off for creating such a creature.(plus I don't really like them anyway) The reason I would wait a year is to get into a diff--relationship so when I do this to the parents, there will be no motive. I would tell no one about it...It would never be solved and my ex-wife at the time would always wonder just who did this to her parents. But the little voice inside her head would know exactly who did it. It may sound harsh but its not like I would kill them Plus the two of them are cheating bastards anyways-----

5. or maybe I would do nothing and just move on. But #4 is my plan as of today......

 

[Longhorn85]

Anyway say you found out(Heaven forbid) your SO cheated on you. They admit and apologize would you leave or forgive them?

I would be hurt, but I would rebound quickly, forgive and then ask: "Now can I have a turn? There is a cute little number at the gym who just wants my schlong..."

 

[Wombat]

Nicole---you have to be very passive about it----and let no one know......wait until your re-married(even if its 5 years later) then do what you have to do....Its amazing what you could do to him just by breaking into his house one night and slip alittle G in his cool-aid Fucker will never see anything coming The key to victory is to never tell anyone(and do it all yourself) Just don't kill him and god will have mercy on you for you showed mercy on him......That's the way I see it anyway....

 

[dballer]

No. I have 100% trust in my BF, moreso the past year we have been together. I positively know that he will never do anything to ever hurt me, and I have the exact same respect for him.

#1) There is no reason for either of us to even consider cheating. We provide each other with as much as we are able to.

#2) In my eyes, no one can compare to my BF. Not one person on this earth.

Yep.. and that is awesome. I pray ya'll never do anything like this to eachother.. but this was a hypothetical situation.

 

[mrbill]

This happened to me.. I tried to be civil. I threw her out of the house. Then I went to where the sancho worked... which was a bar. I made him cry in front of a bar full of people.


side-note...

I have a friend who walked in on his wife in bed with some guy. He took out a shotgun and proceeded to remove the sancho's head with 2 rounds from a 12 gauge. He was convicted of vol. manslaughter in 1981 and sentenced to 20 years. He did 9.

I think he should have been awarded a medal.

i have never understood this kind of "logic", why should the husband shoot the guy?? If anyone should be shot it should be the cheating wife, she is the one that has promised to be faithful. The guy might not even know she is married. Women also give the story that yes they are still "technically" married but it is really already over. I have heard this line myself more than once. People always want to blame the other party instead of the person who actually cheated on them.