what would U do if your girl ?

[Castro_bigdog]

Say you wake up one day and your girl is trippen for no reason would you A. leave and not come home till late night or B. hang out and ask her what the hell is up with her azz....

 

[needtogetaas]

depends on how much she was trippen.if she was helling and screaming and making a very large seen and would not stop then ya I would get the fuck out and come back in a few days.if it was just the run of the mill bitching then I would try to talk to her about it.

 

[Castro_bigdog]

depends on how much she was trippen.if she was helling and screaming and making a very large seen and would not stop then ya I would get the fuck out and come back in a few days.if it was just the run of the mill bitching then I would try to talk to her about it.

Hmmm good point, I just try to play it off sometimes but sometimes I am so fed up with work and other things like that, that I just dont really say shit and act like a tree and leave........

 

[layinback]

Say you wake up one day and your girl is trippen for no reason would you A. leave and not come home till late night or B. hang out and ask her what the hell is up with her azz....

people sometimes "act out" emotions when they feel they cant articulate or otherwise express them in a healthy manner. common forms of acting out are gambling ,drugs, drinking, inappropriate anger and outbursts. these are all passive aggressive attempts to get ones needs met. she is trying to tell you sumthin...listen and create a space for her to express herself. tell her how her behavior confuses you. keep the focus on YOU and do not be accusatory as this will only arouse her defense mechanisms. castro, women neeed to talk. too bad i learned all this shit late in life. lol.

 

[biteme]

people sometimes "act out" emotions when they feel they cant articulate or otherwise express them in a healthy manner. common forms of acting out are gambling ,drugs, drinking, inappropriate anger and outbursts. these are all passive aggressive attempts to get ones needs met. she is trying to tell you sumthin...listen and create a space for her to express herself. tell her how her behavior confuses you. keep the focus on YOU and do not be accusatory as this will only arouse her defense mechanisms. castro, women neeed to talk. too bad i learned all this shit late in life. lol.

I just often wish they'd shut the fuck up.

 

[Castro_bigdog]

people sometimes "act out" emotions when they feel they cant articulate or otherwise express them in a healthy manner. common forms of acting out are gambling ,drugs, drinking, inappropriate anger and outbursts. these are all passive aggressive attempts to get ones needs met. she is trying to tell you sumthin...listen and create a space for her to express herself. tell her how her behavior confuses you. keep the focus on YOU and do not be accusatory as this will only arouse her defense mechanisms. castro, women neeed to talk. too bad i learned all this shit late in life. lol.

Thanks bro good point...............

 

[layinback]

I just often wish they'd shut the fuck up.

are you fightin with your fiance?

 

[biteme]

are you fightin with your fiance?

If I were, I couldn't talk about it here.

 

[layinback]

If I were, I couldn't talk about it here.

word.

 

[string_bean00]

You're making a lot of weird, paranoid threads lately man...