After reading through these posts... O.k. well half of them. I see the following theme:
It's o.k. for a guy to sleep with many women and it's even fine if he happens to be divorced. Yet men want a woman that is slightly more experienced then a virgin. The women that have only been with a few men no more then like 5, and probably not divorced. 52% of the poll is based on virgin and slightly experienced. You know how many guys want to jump in the bed the first night? Well I'm sure you do... I would have to say about 95% of the men I have dated in the past two years would do the deed on the fiirst date. Some as bold as the first 2 hours on a date.
Which leads me to very confusing questions....
What happened to building up the tension and then doing it? Orrr What turns a girl that you would do in the first two hours on a date to someone that you would want to date period? Are brains more important with good looks or Is it just looks? I know some of the dumbest girls married to the 'smartest' guys. Talking with their men they even say that the communication is lacking. So why would a guy marry a girl with just looks? Is it immaturity? I mean to me I would rather be with a mixture of both. Looks can always improve with exercise, diet, surgery, etc... But looks fade and all you are left with is the soul of the person. Do you plan on trading the 40 year old wife in on two 20 year olds? Or another 20 year old just barely not a virgin?
I guess I'm just confused about what goes on in your all heads'... Expand please