just like awitty said in an earlier post - the woman needs to know how good she is gettin it from her partner, so she wont be wandering and asking what if's. On another hand, if a woman is a certain way and cant keep her panties on all the time, she'll more likely be that way forever evethough thats a probability. Personaly, I dont think its fair to look for a virgin when the man himself is not one either. Not fair towards her. What justifies him to go have sex and be promiscius and she needs to be clean like a drop of water? If all girls decided to stay virgins, I would really like to see what men would do