what is your definition of a loser

[cuthroat]

I agree with most of everything that has been said. We all can name the guy or girl that to us is the epitome of a loser; be it the guy with the collar popped that hits on anything that walks on two legs, the 95 pound barbarian that doesn't do anything but work his biceps with those #20 dumbells and pose in front of the mirror, the reclusive girl who never seems to go out and have any fun, etc. These individuals may be losers from our perspective; however, I believe a true loser is someone who is satisfied with a life of mediocracy, someone who never challenges themselves or pushes themselves to achieve, someone who expects everything in return for nothing.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

speaking of losers

speaking of jets fans which is worse

 

[pin]

What seems to always get under my nerves are people who don't work and are quite capable mentally and physically to do so yet choose not to because they are lazy. They won't work for someone else because they don't want to be told what to do, they won't work for themselves because it's too hard and they're always play the role of the victim, how someone is always out to get them and that's why "they can't". These people usually mooch off of someone else like a parent, sibling or any other easily manipulated person willing to "buy them gifts" or front them money or until they run out.

What is more offensive is the person that give the money yet complains about the moocher and their actions (and lack of) but still can't stop themselves from perpetuating the problem by never cutting the moocher off and never telling them what really bothers them instead of dumping it on a third party person.


That has loser written all over it for me.

+1!!!!!!

 

[needtogetaas]

What seems to always get under my nerves are people who don't work and are quite capable mentally and physically to do so yet choose not to because they are lazy. They won't work for someone else because they don't want to be told what to do, they won't work for themselves because it's too hard and they're always play the role of the victim, how someone is always out to get them and that's why "they can't". These people usually mooch off of someone else like a parent, sibling or any other easily manipulated person willing to "buy them gifts" or front them money or until they run out.

What is more offensive is the person that give the money yet complains about the moocher and their actions (and lack of) but still can't stop themselves from perpetuating the problem by never cutting the moocher off and never telling them what really bothers them instead of dumping it on a third party person.

That has loser written all over it for me.

I like this one. So some one living in a home not paying any money, Has no way of income. thats a loser? If some one has a lot of income coming in but works for them self thats ok then?

Like lets say some one that makes about 3-4k a month a lot of times more sitting in front of a comp and pays all your bills and even gives you fun money to play with. Thats not a loser right?

 

[hog#head#cheese]

I like this one. So some one living in a home not paying any money, Has no way of income. thats a loser? If some one has a lot of income coming in but works for them self thats ok then?

Like lets say some one that makes about 3-4k a month a lot of times more sitting in front of a comp and pays all your bills and even gives you fun money to play with. Thats not a loser right?

LOL at needto fishing for what he wants to here,Your a good bro in my book

 

[needtogetaas]

LOL at needto fishing for what he wants to here,Your a good bro in my book

No just asking thats all lol.

 

[chris302001]

How bout the guy in front of me at the smoothie shop making sure he said, "Hey girls, this is for you," while he dropped a buck 25 into the tip jar......

 

[velvett]

I like this one. So some one living in a home not paying any money, Has no way of income. thats a loser? If some one has a lot of income coming in but works for them self thats ok then?

No no, not someone that has no way of income - someone that actively chooses not have an income not to have a job - any job, at home, in an office, outside - whatever but is able and capable of getting work to generate income (I am excluding situations where someone seeks work but can not find it due to economic climate).

Like lets say some one that makes about 3-4k a month a lot of times more sitting in front of a comp and pays all your bills and even gives you fun money to play with. Thats not a loser right?

That is not a loser.

 

[needtogetaas]

That is not a loser.

so how someone makes the money is not the problem. As long as he makes a lot of it. Lets say some one that makes as little as 3k a month but as much as 10k or more in different ways is ok he is not a loser. This person gets up and logs on to a comp every day in his own home. Some would say because he is no longer going to a job site he is a loser. You think that is true?

Some one who makes a good amount of money from 3k to 10k depending on different things plus is working to make even more is not a looser right?

I guess seeing this person stay home all day would make some one think this though.

 

[Smurfy]

so how someone makes the money is not the problem. As long as he makes a lot of it. Lets say some one that makes as little as 3k a month but as much as 10k or more in different ways is ok he is not a loser. This person gets up and logs on to a comp every day in his own home. Some would say because he is no longer going to a job site he is a loser. You think that is true?

Some one who makes a good amount of money from 3k to 10k depending on different things plus is working to make even more is not a looser right?

I guess seeing this person stay home all day would make some one think this though.

No if the person is working towards accomplishing something and is generating income suitable for their lifestyle, or suitable for supporting their family if thats their responsibility, then that person is not a loser. As long as the means are legit and not illegal, then it matters not HOW the money is made.