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what flaw do you need to work on?

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We all have them, mine? I'm a bit of a pushover, I'm non confrontational and I dont like "bothering people" what I consider bother most people would consider a given.... I wont bother the person in the aisle seat in a plane if I had to go to the bathroom, I rather hold it in, I wont bother people at work asking for help or protesting when they dump their work on me, an example: Tonight I was having dinner with my husband and the waiter brought our soups, his was fine, mine literally had half the amount as his, it was spilled all over the base plate, I protested with my husband but didnt tell the waiter, which upset my husband, he said I have to speak my mind, so I started making excuses not to do it.... I eventually caved in to his request to complain but it made me uncomfortable...

Some people are the opposite, they need to work on being less outgoing, or they have to work on being more patient, etc, what about you guys?
 
where do I start? I have a ton of flaws. Lol.

Unrealistic/high expectations of myself and others (this can be a strength too, but usually is a weakness)
Intense temper (though it goes away as quickly as it comes)
I tend to stick around too long in bad relationships
I'm hurt too easily
I can be judgmental
I'm tense and full of anxiety - my anxiety is extreme
perfectionist to the point where it's stupid and makes no sense.
 
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I'm too confrontational and an asshole at times
Little selfish (testosterone induced)
Cavalier about feelings usually
Better than everyone else (not gonna work on that one though)
 
I tell people too much too soon.
I trust way too easily, and it usually ends up a mess.
I have no problem standing up for myself, but I can't tell a friend who needs help with something no to save my life, which would be a good trait except that sometimes its to the point where I don't get to do whatever I had to do for myself.
Sometimes I'm too playful/sarcastic with people too often.
I let other people effect my feelings more than they should.
I have a super hard time telling people about any serious feelings.
 
-I need to have a more positive mindset regularly (i catch myself sometimes when i'm negative, but not enough). in general, just have more confidence in my abilities

-need to forgive myself more easily. not let past shortcomings or experiences drag me down. kinda relates to the first point also

-need to break out of my comfort zone more. i used to do this a lot more when i was young, but as i've grown older i've become more set in my ways and find it harder to break the cycle.

-not letting myself get overwhelmed by thinking of the big picture all the time and feeling like i have too much to take on. trying to focus on what i can do TODAY instead of everything at once. this is kind of a big one, because it can really effect my day to day functioning if i feel like my head is spinning, and often it is.
 
I can be annoying at times and talk someone's ear off too.
Sometimes your flaw can be why you are successful, so you have to be careful how much you change yourself or the way you go about doing it.
I changed myself for the worse when I was in a relationship once and it really opened my eyes.
 
lartinos said:
I can be annoying at times and talk someone's ear off too.
Sometimes your flaw can be why you are successful, so you have to be careful how much you change yourself or the way you go about doing it.
I changed myself for the worse when I was in a relationship once and it really opened my eyes.
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i actually agree with lart :artist:
 
I eat salad at Chilli's and post up about it.

I take too many things to seriously and have to remind myself that almost everything doesn't matter.
 
I never think about flaws and stuff too much anymore unless someone brings em up or sometime during my period if i happen to get all depressed and emo-like.

took a melatonin, and too much effort trying to think up of a list now. will reply tom maybe.
 
*ebony* said:
I never think about flaws and stuff too much anymore unless someone brings em up or sometime during my period if i happen to get all depressed and emo-like.

took a melatonin, and too much effort trying to think up of a list now. will reply tom maybe.
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How about you stop being a bitch? That might take some work.

:D
 
*ebony* said:
I will destroy you!!
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Speak to my Al Anon sponsor, she has my step 4 list of all my shortcomings ;-)

Everyone has flaws, I have tons, I work on them daily. My biggest one is I tend to be judgmental and always think I'm right. These are two HUGE issues I've worked on in the last 18 months.
I've had huge life changes in the last 18 months so that pushed me to change.

I'll have flaws til the day I die.
 
blueta2 said:
Speak to my Al Anon sponsor, she has my step 4 list of all my shortcomings ;-)

Everyone has flaws, I have tons, I work on them daily. My biggest one is I tend to be judgmental and always think I'm right. These are two HUGE issues I've worked on in the last 18 months.
I've had huge life changes in the last 18 months so that pushed me to change.

I'll have flaws til the day I die.
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You'll fit right in. Now post up nudes.
 
blueta2 said:
Speak to my Al Anon sponsor, she has my step 4 list of all my shortcomings ;-)

Everyone has flaws, I have tons, I work on them daily. My biggest one is I tend to be judgmental and always think I'm right. These are two HUGE issues I've worked on in the last 18 months.
I've had huge life changes in the last 18 months so that pushed me to change.

I'll have flaws til the day I die.
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hahah me too. If I could just change my J to a P people could tolerate me a little more.
 
(typical ef male response)
i'm too jacked and tan and wemmin get intimidated...i need to work on being more approachable
 
I thought you loved me? Jesus hate is what this shit is.
 
Wut
 
fault?? or trait/characteristic..

I allow others, or rather I expect them to have the same value as I do, atleast the basic type, ... what i'm really doing is allowing them to screw up early on so that i'm not really vested in them, thus limiting the amount of damage that they are able to create..
 
Cindy I will hold you down and put it in your butt.
 
Seriously, other than being severe ADD, messy, and a complete procrastinator, my biggest flaw is my dick is too big causing me to sometimes bottoming out while lost on the feeling which shoots sharp pains through my wife's cervix. I am working on it.
 
procrastinator, insensitive, too judgemental, terrible sense of humor (lolz), etc etc etc.

fuck, i'm a waste
 
youpissmeoff said:
Seriously, other than being severe ADD, messy, and a complete procrastinator, my biggest flaw is my dick is too big causing me to sometimes bottoming out while lost on the feeling which shoots sharp pains through my wife's cervix. I am working on it.
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those are all related to your ADHD
 
calveless wonder said:
those are all related to your ADHD
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Just for the record, I don't consider ADHD as a flaw. I learned long ago that everyone has good and bad characteristics. The people that are succesful focus on the good characteristics and utilize those.

Along with ADHD comes creative thinking or out of the box/blue ideas along with lots of energy and when bridled, is a deadly and effective combination.

I have said it before, while most teachers are trying to medicate these kids and fit them in a box, it is the ones that go unchecked that are going to start the next Microsoft or come up with the cure for cancer.

Thank god for my wife who takes care of the details and allows me to do my thing. If not for her remembering the kids dentist appointments and making sure I have some clean clothes to wear, I would never succeed in this day trading business.
 
youpissmeoff said:
Just for the record, I don't consider ADHD as a flaw. I learned long ago that everyone has good and bad characteristics. The people that are succesful focus on the good characteristics and utilize those.

Along with ADHD comes creative thinking or out of the box/blue ideas along with lots of energy and when bridled, is a deadly and effective combination.

I have said it before, while most teachers are trying to medicate these kids and fit them in a box, it is the ones that go unchecked that are going to start the next Microsoft or come up with the cure for cancer.

Thank god for my wife who takes care of the details and allows me to do my thing. If not for her remembering the kids dentist appointments and making sure I have some clean clothes to wear, I would never succeed in this day trading business.
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Lmfao
 
youpissmeoff said:
Just for the record, I don't consider ADHD as a flaw. I learned long ago that everyone has good and bad characteristics. The people that are succesful focus on the good characteristics and utilize those.

Along with ADHD comes creative thinking or out of the box/blue ideas along with lots of energy and when bridled, is a deadly and effective combination.

I have said it before, while most teachers are trying to medicate these kids and fit them in a box, it is the ones that go unchecked that are going to start the next Microsoft or come up with the cure for cancer.

Thank god for my wife who takes care of the details and allows me to do my thing. If not for her remembering the kids dentist appointments and making sure I have some clean clothes to wear, I would never succeed in this day trading business.
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there's good aspects and bad.

the problem is, many of the bad aspects don't fit in with contemporary society's expectations.

Delegation helps a ton, but only if you're in such a position to do so. if you're alone or you don't have a personal assistant, then you're kinda screwed.

It's pretty frustrating when you want to function "Efficiently" and really can't because your head is spinning most of the time. There's only a few jobs i feel that are ADHD friendly. Unless you are involved in something that keeps you in "hyperfocus" mode all the time...which is probably someone with ADHD's best chance for success.
 
calveless wonder said:
there's good aspects and bad.

the problem is, many of the bad aspects don't fit in with contemporary society's expectations.

Delegation helps a ton, but only if you're in such a position to do so. if you're alone or you don't have a personal assistant, then you're kinda screwed.

It's pretty frustrating when you want to function "Efficiently" and really can't because your head is spinning most of the time. There's only a few jobs i feel that are ADHD friendly. Unless you are involved in something that keeps you in "hyperfocus" mode all the time...which is probably someone with ADHD's best chance for success.
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I started my career in accounting and was surprisingly good at it. Mundane task with hard deadlines are perfect careers for ADHD peeps.

FYI, as musclemom has warned, ADHD gets much worse as you approach 50 and beyond. I constantly have to read contracts now that are quite important. I have to hit the highlights and rely heavily on lawyers or assitants to make sure I did not miss something big in the fine print.
 
Well I hold myself to very high standards at anything, my problem is I also hold everyone else to the standard I set for myself and get pissed and view people as incompetent when they do not meet my expectations
 
Think of myself first. "working on that"
Don't allow others to get close. "might be why i creep on here more than post???"
A bit anal when it comes to my house. "cleanliness" I get pissed when others make a mess in it.
Procrastinate way too much

Whiskey
 
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