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my company's IT guy comes around my office every day to say hi.

wait. i think i mentioned this. i can't remember. he says some slightly innapropriate things, but i do NOT encourage it in any way, nor do i tell him he's gross. I'm totally unreadable. anyway, today i get an email from him that says, "look on your desktop".

i look and there's a song on there that I didn't put there.

"one hot momma" by some country guy.
it was a sexual song. something about being hot and once the kids go to sleep we're gonna turn things up.

wha?
what??

i don't know what to say, so i replied, "I never heard of him before"

and an hour later I get an email from him that says, "tip of the iceberg"
and nothing more.
does that mean that song is just good and i haven't heard anything yet, or is he coming on to me?
because I don't want that. and I'm not fostering it. i don't even know what to say- i seem to be unable to joke with this guy without him taking me seriously or thinking i'm encouraging things, so i'm serious and... a little moody.

what do i do?
 
You could easily have his bitch ass fired why dont you do it. His game sucks anyhow and anyman whose game sucks as bad as his deserves to get shitcanned.
 
he knows i'm married.

once he told me he was going home to have a quicky with his wife. I said "TMI!!!!!!!!!!" and he laughed and said he guesses I don't want to hear how it was afterwards.

Uh.. No, I said.

later he came by and said he had nothing to tell anyway- his neighbor was over when he got there.

ok. got it. thanks. bye.
 
gotmilk said:
email him a pic of you in the squat rack....
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i'm not sending him pics of anything.
my coworker told me she could tell from my first day that he has a crush on me. i didn't see it till now.
 
Psst Stilleto, it's a Trace Adkins songs.

Tell him you're a Toby Keith Fan.

They both used to be roughnecks. Well Toby Keith was, Trace was on a casing crew, and quit when a joint of casing dropped on the chest of one of his hands and killed him.

I made that up, or did I?
 
mountain muscle said:
Psst Stilleto, it's a Trace Adkins songs.

Tell him you're a Toby Keith Fan.

They both used to be roughnecks. Well Toby Keith was, Trace was on a casing crew, and quit when a joint of casing dropped on the chest of one of his hands and killed him.

I made that up, or did I?
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yeah, that's the name of the guy. i never heard of him before and couldn't figure out why he'd send me the song till i heard it.

:worried:
 
stilleto said:
i'm not sending him pics of anything.
my coworker told me she could tell from my first day that he has a crush on me. i didn't see it till now.
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put a karma bomb in his pocket protector :)

i think i would tell him, in the presence of his superior that you are uncomfortable with his actions...cya
 
too much uptightness in this world; go along with it and have fun - people who complain turn workplaces into morgues.
 
eddymerckx said:
put a karma bomb in his pocket protector :)

i think i would tell him, in the presence of his superior that you are uncomfortable with his actions...cya
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well, he's never around his superior, and saying something like that to someone you've been friendly towards is hard.

i think i'll wait until the next thing he says and say "you better not be coming on to me"
hopefully he'll ask why not and i'll say because i don't want you to.

and leave it at that. I don't mind any language or conversation, as long as it's not directed at getting me into sechs.
 
stilleto said:
well, he's never around his superior, and saying something like that to someone you've been friendly towards is hard.

i think i'll wait until the next thing he says and say "you better not be coming on to me"
hopefully he'll ask why not and i'll say because i don't want you to.

and leave it at that. I don't mind any language or conversation, as long as it's not directed at getting me into sechs.
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Let's do the horizontal mambo.
 
stilleto said:
well, he's never around his superior, and saying something like that to someone you've been friendly towards is hard.

i think i'll wait until the next thing he says and say "you better not be coming on to me"
hopefully he'll ask why not and i'll say because i don't want you to.

and leave it at that. I don't mind any language or conversation, as long as it's not directed at getting me into sechs.
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i would just ask him if he was the kid that ran the film projector in elementary school--that should be enough for him to realize his chances are a bit less than zero
 
Speaking as an attorney you need to notify your first level supervisor and get something in writing. If it continues then file a formal EEO complaint.
 
eddymerckx said:
i would just ask him if he was the kid that ran the film projector in elementary school--that should be enough for him to realize his chances are a bit less than zero
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nah, i've told him he was a giant geek when he was telling me about a new watch he wanted with a built in jump drive. I said it just needs a walkie talkie so he can talk to the other nerds incognito and he's in business.
 
The Old Vet said:
Speaking as an attorney you need to notify your first level supervisor and get something in writing. If it continues then file a formal EEO complaint.
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hmm. thanks.
i'll give him a hint and then a clear message first i think.
it doesn't bother me enough to want to get him in trouble- i don't.
 
stilleto said:
my company's IT guy comes around my office every day to say hi.

wait. i think i mentioned this. i can't remember. he says some slightly innapropriate things, but i do NOT encourage it in any way, nor do i tell him he's gross. I'm totally unreadable. anyway, today i get an email from him that says, "look on your desktop".

i look and there's a song on there that I didn't put there.

"one hot momma" by some country guy.
it was a sexual song. something about being hot and once the kids go to sleep we're gonna turn things up.

wha?
what??

i don't know what to say, so i replied, "I never heard of him before"

and an hour later I get an email from him that says, "tip of the iceberg"
and nothing more.
does that mean that song is just good and i haven't heard anything yet, or is he coming on to me?
because I don't want that. and I'm not fostering it. i don't even know what to say- i seem to be unable to joke with this guy without him taking me seriously or thinking i'm encouraging things, so i'm serious and... a little moody.

what do i do?
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In case you hadn't noticed by the boyz' e-behavior round these parts, your mere presence in the same state with him automatically means YOU WANT HIM and that you are an attention whore of epic proportions.

The only reasonable course of action would be to kill yourself. After all HIS BEHAVIOR is 100% YOUR FAULT.


..... least that is what my elite chat and conversation nuthin but a bunch of dumb juicehead handbook says. :lmao:



Now the real world adult answer? The guy clearly has his own reality so nothing short of you very straight out telling him (I would also put this in writing to protect yourself down the line) that this behavior of his is not welcome or warranted. You can also let him know that you have no clue where his ideas came from but you do not find them funny, matter of fact they make you feel VERY uncomfortable and you would appreciate it - actually that is a PC way of demanding - that he would stop. PERIOD.
 
stilleto said:
hmm. thanks.
i'll give him a hint and then a clear message first i think.
it doesn't bother me enough to want to get him in trouble- i don't.
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Given his behavior, do you REALLY think this guy gives a shit about how he is making you feel? Then what is this whole "I don't want to get him in trouble" nonsense.

HE DID IT TO HIMSELF..... did he not?

I understand how you feel. I used to feel the same way you did, until I got jumped on by one too many assholes for being "nice" that way.

Some guys need to learn a lesson and that lesson should be, if you wouldn't do/say something to a man's wife or his daughter or you wouldn't want it said/done to YOUR wife/daughter... THEN DONT FUKKIN SAY OR DO IT.
 
See, you realllly are too nice. I would have told him that his half assed attempt at flirting is only going to make me to loath him even more than I already do.

He can be replaced if this shit continues. I have little patience with men like him, and it sounds like he's gone over the top. Jerk!


Did u get my check yet? I'm curious as to how long it'll take to get there.:)
 
Is this the same jerk as u talked about last week?
G, time to show him how to respect a lady!

Oh and speaking of which, remember I told you about my ex boss who asked me if I would "give him a BJ if I didn't work for him". Well the scum bag just requested to add me as a friend on facebook.
Imagine the fukkin nerve!
 
vixensghost said:
See, you realllly are too nice. I would have told him that his half assed attempt at flirting is only going to make me to loath him even more than I already do.

He can be replaced if this shit continues. I have little patience with men like him, and it sounds like he's gone over the top. Jerk!


Did u get my check yet? I'm curious as to how long it'll take to get there.:)
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:)
yes, i got it last night and i'm sending it out today- i had to get a good box and packing material.

your note made me laugh. to me, from me.
you know.
:)
 
blueta2 said:
Is this the same jerk as u talked about last week?
G, time to show him how to respect a lady!

Oh and speaking of which, remember I told you about my ex boss who asked me if I would "give him a BJ if I didn't work for him". Well the scum bag just requested to add me as a friend on facebook.
Imagine the fukkin nerve!
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yes, same guy.
he's not a jerk actually- he's nice, but i don't want him to have any idea that I'm attainable.
I have a male friend here who can say some rather raunchy things, but i don't feel threatened by him at all, so it's different.
 
stilleto said:
:)
yes, i got it last night and i'm sending it out today- i had to get a good box and packing material.

your note made me laugh. to me, from me.
you know.
:)
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Yes, I know on the "to me from me" dealio. lol

Wow, it got there faster than I thought, I guessed it would arrive today!


No worries on when you send it, as long as it's before Christmas, I'm good. I will, however, be very excited to get it. Keep me posted on the updates, I may order another. :) Nay Nay wants to order too, remind our lil muscle head though. :heart:
 
vixensghost said:
Yes, I know on the "to me from me" dealio. lol

Wow, it got there faster than I thought, I guessed it would arrive today!


No worries on when you send it, as long as it's before Christmas, I'm good. I will, however, be very excited to get it. Keep me posted on the updates, I may order another. :) Nay Nay wants to order too, remind our lil muscle head though. :heart:
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lol... i'll remind him. I know he's very busy, modding and all. :)
 
stilleto said:
my company's IT guy comes around my office every day to say hi.

wait. i think i mentioned this. i can't remember. he says some slightly innapropriate things, but i do NOT encourage it in any way, nor do i tell him he's gross. I'm totally unreadable. anyway, today i get an email from him that says, "look on your desktop".

i look and there's a song on there that I didn't put there.

"one hot momma" by some country guy.
it was a sexual song. something about being hot and once the kids go to sleep we're gonna turn things up.

wha?
what??

i don't know what to say, so i replied, "I never heard of him before"

and an hour later I get an email from him that says, "tip of the iceberg"
and nothing more.
does that mean that song is just good and i haven't heard anything yet, or is he coming on to me?
because I don't want that. and I'm not fostering it. i don't even know what to say- i seem to be unable to joke with this guy without him taking me seriously or thinking i'm encouraging things, so i'm serious and... a little moody.

what do i do?
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ignore it. comes with the territory.
 
The Old Vet said:
Speaking as an attorney you need to notify your first level supervisor and get something in writing. If it continues then file a formal EEO complaint.
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You goddamn attorneys make me sick... Just tell the guy that you are not comfortable with his actions towards you and he will stop, at least warn the guy. Any reasonable person would stop at that point... If he continues, .... well then, he's just stupid.
 
ok, so today he came by my office again. We chatted for a while- nothing unusual or out of the ordinary.
I mentioned that I can't stand all the spelling errors our human resources dept. makes in their emails and he said to send them to him so he can see if he spots them all. ok. games, i guess. harmless though, so ok.

Then he said, "hey..." and stared at me. eye contact and he looked nervous. My assistant came in and he glanced at her and then back at me. more staring. "um... I'll see you later."

and he quickly turned and left. then i told my assistant she is not to leave me alone even for a minute and we laughed.
 
tell him your husband is great and your boyfriend is hung like a can of pringles and you have no room for a third.
 
put a picture of my cock on your wall in your office.. I just uploaded it and sent it to you via karma
 
stilleto said:
my company's IT guy comes around my office every day to say hi.

wait. i think i mentioned this. i can't remember. he says some slightly innapropriate things, but i do NOT encourage it in any way, nor do i tell him he's gross. I'm totally unreadable. anyway, today i get an email from him that says, "look on your desktop".

i look and there's a song on there that I didn't put there.

"one hot momma" by some country guy.
it was a sexual song. something about being hot and once the kids go to sleep we're gonna turn things up.

wha?
what??

i don't know what to say, so i replied, "I never heard of him before"

and an hour later I get an email from him that says, "tip of the iceberg"
and nothing more.
does that mean that song is just good and i haven't heard anything yet, or is he coming on to me?
because I don't want that. and I'm not fostering it. i don't even know what to say- i seem to be unable to joke with this guy without him taking me seriously or thinking i'm encouraging things, so i'm serious and... a little moody.

what do i do?
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have sex with him and take some pics and post them on ef. you know you want. i hate colossal cock teases.
 
stilleto said:
my company's IT guy comes around my office every day to say hi.

wait. i think i mentioned this. i can't remember. he says some slightly innapropriate things, but i do NOT encourage it in any way, nor do i tell him he's gross. I'm totally unreadable. anyway, today i get an email from him that says, "look on your desktop".

i look and there's a song on there that I didn't put there.

"one hot momma" by some country guy.
it was a sexual song. something about being hot and once the kids go to sleep we're gonna turn things up.

wha?
what??

i don't know what to say, so i replied, "I never heard of him before"

and an hour later I get an email from him that says, "tip of the iceberg"
and nothing more.
does that mean that song is just good and i haven't heard anything yet, or is he coming on to me?
because I don't want that. and I'm not fostering it. i don't even know what to say- i seem to be unable to joke with this guy without him taking me seriously or thinking i'm encouraging things, so i'm serious and... a little moody.

what do i do?
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I used to get icy if men did that at work. When I was married i would mention in passing that I'm married and would never think of cheating. They usually get the hint.
 
heatherrae said:
I used to get icy if men did that at work. When I was married i would mention in passing that I'm married and would never think of cheating. They usually get the hint.
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he knows i'm married and happy. I've never complained about my husband or indicated that he, or any other guy, has any chance with me.
 
stilleto said:
he knows i'm married and happy. I've never complained about my husband or indicated that he, or any other guy, has any chance with me.
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do I have a chance with you? :qt:
 
stilleto said:
he knows i'm married and happy. I've never complained about my husband or indicated that he, or any other guy, has any chance with me.
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Yeah, some men are just dense.
 
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