lol, i'll agree with you there. in fact, many can be
but its foolish to think that men aren't visually oriented. it's what our DNA programs us to perceive. If i've dated beautiful women, i expect to date women nearly or equally as beautiful. it's that simple. Now, this girl for instance i find very attractive but many girls get insecure about living here
For woman, looks are not as big an issue. That's pretty much universal knowledge