Jeez Pam.... you're acting like there is no such thing as a 'sexually inviting look.' You guys are really acting ridiculous...how many times do I have to fucking explain it? I KNOW the difference between polite smile and a fuck-me/look at me/ I think you're hot look...maybe you and vixenbabe (and phatchick but she's irrelevant due to her personality) are just not the types to go aound doing this.
Ok, I'll give you a straight forward example. A couple weeks ago I was getting out of my car at school for class when two girls were walking to their cars on the sidewalk in front of me. They were staring at me with "that look" as they were walking by, and the first chick, the one really staring was like "Oh he's hot" and then they were laughing and saying stuff like "Do you workout alot?" while they were walking away. (note, wasnt really attracted back)
Now, are you going to tell me that the looks they were giving me were simply just polite grins? Horseshit...I almost have to think you guys are purposely bullshitting for some reason, but to claim that a smile is always just a smile is retarded.
Anyway the whole point of this thread was to hear some other guys' experience with this, not so I know what to do but just for amusement reasons... the thing to do IMO in this situation is to just avoid the smile game with her because then you get the bf upset and unecessarily get yourself in a bad situation.