What causes people to be Gay?

[JohnnyO]

This is a link at Rutgers quoting the research done .. I'll see if I can find the ACTUAL research (it was done quite a few years ago in the 70's)

http://www.rci.rutgers.edu/~charlesf/sexlec.html

 

[WODIN]

Listen old timer, the last time you pulled a log other than havoc's was a self-gratifying experience back in 48. That's 1648. So go wrap those collagen lips of yours around a joint. Oh, and froider's legs don't count this time, ok?

Calm down son...the best part of you may have dribbled down your momma's leg but I see you got some fire to you.

 

[the nature boy]

....more after my boss leaves.

<sound of the nature boy hitting the refresh button, over... and over... and over..... you get the point>

 

[casavant]

Well, how many of us chose to be attracted to women? Probably not many. I think most gays have about as much choice in the matter as we do.

 

[freshr1]

What causes people to be Gay?

That's an easy one.. WOMEN!

 

[strongchick]

sigh. okay...

My first girlie contact was when I was 8 years old...I got my cute cousin to strip, then convinced her that laying down like Ken and Barbie was a good thing to do...my first orgasm...

First real deal...

In college, I had a crush on this half black/half Jewish girl
with an incredible 5'5" body and open mind. My boyfriend was
best friends with her boyfriend...we were over their place, had a few drinks, then the guys left...I knew she liked me too, so when we were sitting on the couch, and her boob touched my arm through her sweater...it was electric!

<I've learned over time how to hide my energy a bit...it is so strong that I make women uncomfortable....I mean, they don't know I'm gay, or whatever, but they feel something, especially if they are questioning themselves.>


...next thing you know she's on my lap, naked, and we're kissing.

I'm naturally strong, so I gently picked her up and made it over to the carpet where we proceeded to do the 'delicious'.

What was cool about it was she was completely uninhibited. She let me do whatever felt good...I had no idea what I was doing, I thought, but somehow it worked...it was the most natural thing in the world.

we hardly knew each other, but the attraction was so strong. More than anything, I remember her scent, her lips, and how she moaned when she came. She liked being submissive, and it was fine with me too...

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I was at a Xmas party once thrown at a public restaurant for my company. We were all very intoxicated...but I was still coherent...I had no idea anyone knew about me. My boss hired this incredible Asian fox (reminds me of Ling from Ally McBeal, but much prettier) who was very in touch with her sexuality.

I was standing near the bar, with all of my co-workers milling around, chatting it up, laughing, etc. Then this sexy, house style dance tune came on. This woman walked right up to me and started moving to the music. I took a swig of wine...while making eye contact...as soon as I put the glass down, she turned her head toward mine and kissed me, full tongue and all...!

The world, the restaurant, my boss....just stopped...

I don't think it was just me...I was a top performer at the company (software sales), and that has some kind of panache, I think. Women are very turned on by winners.

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that's it. no juicy details. I'm not a Harlequin romance writer, ya know!

 

[TN MuscleBear]

My theory is:

Genetically, all people can and are born with a propensity for certain traits...i.e. aggressive behavior, shyness, alcoholism, etc. Now these genes are not dictators....as evidenced by identical twins with completely different personalities...but do influence people to be more or less likely to take on certain traits given their environment. I believe that, in identical environments that may cause, say, aggressive behavior (stereotypically what?...oldest child, father obsessed with winning at sports, pressure to not be a "wimp"...I don't know...I hope you get the idea...) Those with a gene for a leaning toward aggressive behavior would be more likely to become aggressive than one who does not have the gene....

I think homosexuality is a trait like that....

All bets are off with some women though...I think there are certainly some women who are with other women because they cannot get their emotional needs met by men....because men can tend to be less sensitive and nurturing then women. Even there, I don't think it's necessarily a choice, but could be fulfilling a need that may or may not be understood....

With men, the mental, emotional and physical attachment with other men must be extremely strong to win out over years of social conditioning....I don't think it's such an issue for women, so they may be free to experiment without as much fear of being ostricized....

Ok...enough of the windy opinion. It is right, however. Just ask me.

 

[strongchick]

This is a link at Rutgers quoting the research done .. I'll see if I can find the ACTUAL research (it was done quite a few years ago in the 70's)

http://www.rci.rutgers.edu/~charlesf/sexlec.html

excellent! thanks.

 

[GinNJuice]

I'm begining to really like your posts strongchick!


..... still waiting for more pictures......

 

[spentagn]

Calm down son...the best part of you may have dribbled down your momma's leg but I see you got some fire to you.

Sorry gramps, that flame has been in use longer than your pacemaker.