Were humans designed to be monogomus?

[velvett]

No, absolutely not. It's against our very nature. It's a choice, based on religious or moral beliefs. I was married for 10 years and never screwed another woman, so I guess I did pretty good. And even if I had given in temptation, it wouldn't mean I didn't love my wife. This is where many men and women are different. Many women claim they could never have sex with another man when they are love with someone. Not so for men.

I would never marry and breed for religious belief.

If I had found the right person and the feeling were mutual why in the world would I want to screw that up? Then I'd have to go out and search all over again - OH GOD the misery in the thought of that.

I don't believe that is true for all men nor all women.

 

[coverguy]

I'm not saying that i condone cheating, but i think if you look at the human species as a whole throughout time you will come to the conclusion that the human species were not made to be monogomus. As biteme said earlier, marriage is an idea based on moral and religious beliefs. Without these two things the world would be one big orgy!

 

[biteme]

I would never marry and breed for religious belief.

If I had found the right person and the feeling were mutual why in the world would I want to screw that up? Then I'd have to go out and search all over again - OH GOD the misery in the thought of that.

I don't believe that is true for all men nor all women.

That's why I didn't screw anyone when I was married. I truly loved her for the stupidity of me. Didn't want to risk losing her or hurting her like that. Didn't seem to bother her too much, but maybe it did, I'll never know.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i think we are intelligent enough to do either.

if you take a look at the middle east, youll see that polygamy has been a successful strategy for a few thousand years.

these days if youre marrying for love, unless your partner is into it, you cant but be monogamous...or the whole thing will fall apart.

or you could be like aap, who has lived a life of forced celibacy.

whatever floats your boat

 

[velvett]

i think we are intelligent enough to do either.

if you take a look at the middle east, youll see that polygamy has been a successful strategy for a few thousand years.

these days if youre marrying for love, unless your partner is into it, you cant but be monogamous...or the whole thing will fall apart.

or you could be like aap, who has lived a life of forced celibacy.

whatever floats your boat

Don't forget Utah!

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Don't forget Utah!

if you or no one else interesting lives there, whats to remember?

 

[velvett]

if you or no one else interesting lives there, whats to remember?

 

[GoldenDelicious]

lol velvv, im trying to say that i dont get the inside joke on utah...i take it that theyre polygamous there?

 

[velvett]

lol velvv, im trying to say that i dont get the inside joke on utah...i take it that theyre polygamous there?

Many yes.

 

[Robert Jan]

No.