Well that's it, the FOREVER relationship has ended.

[onebigab]

Hey u got any naked pics of her. Post them up on the net.

 

[PHATchik]

Sorry bor,

but she sounds young and it could have been worse. You could have married the ditz.

Now you know why any girl that says "I only have guy friends" is not relationship material

Whoa, whoa, whoa. I've been through this round before, and I think it's shit. I have guy friends...my best friends are guys. Nothing has ever happened with them. Yes, Alien got screwed on this one. She sounds immature and he's better off, but you can't generalize based on her.

I've had to defend myself about my guy friends before, and no, you can't trust all women that say this. I realize that raises the question of "how do you know you can trust any of them?" I don't know how to answer that. I know that with me, when I say I have guy friends, that's what I mean. It's just a matter of trusting me. Sometimes, trust can be misplaced, but you can't go into the relationship assuming it's all a big lie.

 

[EnderJE]

Hey u got any naked pics of her. Post them up on the net.

And if not, then photoshop her head one some and post up one of those "priceless" pics.

 

[Razorguns]

never fall for that "i got LOTS of great guy friends! all of them FRIENDS".

we know GUYS. Every guy who's "friends" with a hot chick, just wants to get into their pants. And will keep "trying" and "waiting"f or that opportune moment. They may be friends, but if that "opportune" moment comes up - BOOM! They're on them like vultures.

Especialy when that conversation from her starts with the "Damn, my bf is such an ass". that's the cue where guy friends start "consoling" them and make their move.

trust me on that one. I see it all the time. Fortunately most women don't like dating their guy friends, and usually date someone brand new after they brake up with someone.

 

[Dial_tone]

My FB has alot of guy friends and she doesn't screw them, but then they're all dorky computer geeks who wouldn't know what to do with a real woman anyway. She has alot of female friends too.

 

[TC2]

Well I admit I like them young, but surely I've learned my lesson this time.

The bad part is that I NEVER meet any girls my age that are single. The few to choose from are all ugly, out of shape, in a relationship, or have baggage.
All of my hookup situations are all under 23 it seems.

Life sucks.

Word broly, I'm 28 also and it's like a barren wasteland as far as single/no kid having/none crazy/not fat as fuck, chicks our age.

But fuck it, I'm not even going to waste my time on a chick that is under 25.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Whoa, whoa, whoa. I've been through this round before, and I think it's shit. I have guy friends...my best friends are guys. Nothing has ever happened with them. Yes, Alien got screwed on this one. She sounds immature and he's better off, but you can't generalize based on her.

I've had to defend myself about my guy friends before, and no, you can't trust all women that say this. I realize that raises the question of "how do you know you can trust any of them?" I don't know how to answer that. I know that with me, when I say I have guy friends, that's what I mean. It's just a matter of trusting me. Sometimes, trust can be misplaced, but you can't go into the relationship assuming it's all a big lie.

Yeah, I don't have a problem with the guy friends being around if I trust the girl, but when they start acting shady that creates a problem. That's what happened here. She didn't handle the situations well at all, even if there was truly nothing going on. There are certain ways you should act in a relationship like that and she didn't do that.

She made her choice and that was to keep hanging out with them. It's kinda a blessing in disguise like JerseyArt said. I was stressing in the last week or so because of the way she handled these situations.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Well I've been busy nonstop since yesterday (thank goodness for weekends). I hung out with a lot of friends today and I went shopping today with my best female friend. She goes into women's stores to shop for clothes and at the same time I hit on the other girls shopping. It's great. I got 2 numbers and could've gotten a third easily. I can call these girls up to hang around and mess around with. This is the best medicine for post breakup stress.

We all went out later on and had a blast. I talked to several girls. I'm feeling good right now. A relationship is what I want, but these girls will do in the meantime helping my ego, build myself up, and get over the ex. It's just a matter of time before I found another girl I see as potential dating material.
I just wish there was more to choose from.....most are psycho, as TC2 points out.

 

[alien amp pharm]

never fall for that "i got LOTS of great guy friends! all of them FRIENDS".

we know GUYS. Every guy who's "friends" with a hot chick, just wants to get into their pants. And will keep "trying" and "waiting"f or that opportune moment. They may be friends, but if that "opportune" moment comes up - BOOM! They're on them like vultures.

Especialy when that conversation from her starts with the "Damn, my bf is such an ass". that's the cue where guy friends start "consoling" them and make their move.

trust me on that one. I see it all the time. Fortunately most women don't like dating their guy friends, and usually date someone brand new after they brake up with someone.

I couldn't agree more. Every word you said is dead on.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Whoa, whoa, whoa. I've been through this round before, and I think it's shit. I have guy friends...my best friends are guys. Nothing has ever happened with them. Yes, Alien got screwed on this one. She sounds immature and he's better off, but you can't generalize based on her.

I've had to defend myself about my guy friends before, and no, you can't trust all women that say this. I realize that raises the question of "how do you know you can trust any of them?" I don't know how to answer that. I know that with me, when I say I have guy friends, that's what I mean. It's just a matter of trusting me. Sometimes, trust can be misplaced, but you can't go into the relationship assuming it's all a big lie.

True, but that's when you as the female do things to reassure the boyfriend that there is noting to worry about. Acting shady will only put doubt in the boyfriend's mind. You don't have a guy friend over to your place and then not answer the phone when the boyfriend was scheduled to call, not say 'I love you' when the guy friends are around when the BF is on the phone, etc.

I'm not saying you are guilty of this. That is just what this girl did. Then got upset at me if I pointed out it bothered me (which it would anybody).