Well that's it, the FOREVER relationship has ended.

[alien amp pharm]

Yep, that's right.
The girl I thought to be the perfect one turned out to be just like the rest.

She has a ton of 'guy friends' and is always making new ones and hanging out with them. She gave me the same ole "they are just friends, I love you, trust me, etc." Well here lately (since school started) she's been acting all shady. If I ever questioned anything I was labeled jealous and controlling.

Within the past couple of days she's been acting real strange. Having guys over and not answering her phone when I call, Not saying "I love you" when we get off the phone when people (guys) are around.

Then this morning she gives me the ole "I don't think we should do this anymore". She blames it on me, saying I have a problem with her being around guys and stressing her out about it. I truly did not see this coming because although it bothers me the situations she puts me in with guys, I never got upset over it.

My guess: She has been hanging around a guy and wants to start seeing him.

 

[ChefWide]

time to make a change

 

[alien amp pharm]

time to make a change

?

What kind of change? Don't date young, immature girls? I think you are right.

 

[ChefWide]

?

What kind of change? Don't date young, immature girls? I think you are right.

Good call.

 

[Y_lifter]

next !

 

[Werd]

next !

What he said....

 

[KillahBee]

Not to be a dick, maing, but I will NEVER feel bad for a person above the age of 17 that lets themself believe the fairytale and get all caught up in the hype instead of using their head to see the situation for what it is worth (a lot easier said than done for many, I know). And I am not saying you want us to feel bad for you, but Jesus, what is it about people that make them just go insane when starting a relationship and convince themselves that it is going to be so great without actually analyzing the situation the way it should be? Do they want/need love that bad?

 

[jerseyart]

Sorry bor,

but she sounds young and it could have been worse. You could have married the ditz.

Now you know why any girl that says "I only have guy friends" is not relationship material

 

[alien amp pharm]

Not to be a dick, maing, but I will NEVER feel bad for a person above the age of 17 that lets themself believe the fairytale and get all caught up in the hype instead of using their head to see the situation for what it is worth (a lot easier said than done for many, I know). And I am not saying you want us to feel bad for you, but Jesus, what is it about people that make them just go insane when starting a relationship and convince themselves that it is going to be so great without actually analyzing the situation the way it should be? Do they want/need love that bad?

Well this girl seemed different (I know you've heard that before).

We had everything in common, and I mean everything. Liked the same exact stuff and had all the qualities I was looking for.

She said it was because of me fighting with her (over guys), but I KNOW that was not the case. Something changed in her and it wasn't on my end.

I need love yes, thought I found love, but in the end it was just the same ole bullshit I've dealt with for most of my 28 years.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Now you know why any girl that says "I only have guy friends" is not relationship material

True that.
I knew what was going on here and that's why it bothered me. I just don't fabricate stuff. I can live with a girl having guy friends, but the situations she put me in/thru were a bit too much (and obvious). That's were we had our problems (which she is blaming me for).

I'd be lying if I said I didn't see this coming.

 

[KillahBee]

Well this girl seemed different (I know you've heard that before).

We had everything in common, and I mean everything. Liked the same exact stuff and had all the qualities I was looking for.

She said it was because of me fighting with her (over guys), but I KNOW that was not the case. Something changed in her and it wasn't on my end.

I need love yes, thought I found love, but in the end it was just the same ole bullshit I've dealt with for most of my 28 years.

I hear ya bro. It'll all work out in the end - I am a firm believer in that.

 

[danielson]

sorry bro

when i split with my gf im sure it will shock me as i do love her quite a bit, just the thought gives me the shivers, but she sounds like she wasnt the one, and like said above, at least you didnt ave to mary her to find that out

Its because one of her 'friends' has been upgraded on the ladder and she's using all of this as an excuse IMO, just like u said

 

[Deleted member 33117]

A feel for you orb. Believe me, I know about girls who seemed different, but in the end just play games. You'll find the right one, just keep searching, and keep your standards high.

 

[the nature boy]

Dude what finishing move did you use on her?

 

[from zero]

My guess: She has been hanging around a guy and wants to start seeing him.

Hey, look, Captain Obvious has joined the party.



Just playing bor. Sorry this shit happened. Don't worry though. I'm sure you'll find another broad with wretchedly low self esteem again soon.

 

[jerseyart]

Love Hurts

Love hurts
love scares
love wounds and mares any heart
Not tough nor strong enough to take a lot of pain
Take a lot of pain
love is like a cloud
holds a lot of rain.
Love hurts
love hurts
I'm young I know but even so
I know a thing or two I've learned from you
I've really learned a lot
really learned a lot.
Love is like a stove
burns you when it's hot.
Love hurts
love hurts
some fools rave of happiness

Blissfulness
togetherness
some fools fool themselves
I guess

But they're not fooling me I know it isn't true

No
it isn't ture. Love is just a lie made to make you blue.
Love hurts
love hurts.

Love hurts
love scares
love wounds and mares any heart
. . .

 

[alien amp pharm]

Dude what finishing move did you use on her?

Um, well, she SAID she was a virgin and had never even messed around much before. She told me she wanted me to be her first. We were getting to that point....she was fixing to start birth control next week.

I'm wondering if the virgin thing was all a lie now too.

 

[BileStew]

Amp dude. do yourself a favor...date women that are at least 27 and older. They seem to be out of their partying stage (somewhat) and are more interested in focusing on their future and potentially a comapnion.

Younger ones are more interested in getting wasted and having the times of their lives. Nothing wrong with that, but not GF material if you're looking for that.

And I'm with Nature Boy, what finishing move did you do on her.. Tombstone neck breaker?

 

[Dial_tone]

Maybe she was just tired of having to defend herself all the time. My FB is one of those tomboyish chicks that has a ton of guy friends too so I've been there. A few months ago she spent 2 weeks traveling another country with a dude, in the same hotel room no less. Yes, it bothered me but I decided to roll with it. I have 100% faith that absolutely nothing happened. One thing she's never done is lie to me.

 

[from zero]

I'm wondering if the virgin thing was all a lie now too.

Bro don't even worry about it. Don't think about her. Don't wonder about her.


Move on homes, and live yo life.

 

[hamstershaver]

there is only one rule regarding women - never trust them

 

[jerseyart]

True that.
I knew what was going on here and that's why it bothered me. I just don't fabricate stuff. I can live with a girl having guy friends, but the situations she put me in/thru were a bit too much (and obvious). That's were we had our problems (which she is blaming me for).

I'd be lying if I said I didn't see this coming.

Unfortunately too many people like that in the world. The louder they protest, the more guilty they usually are. That's a sad truth.

A person has an obligation to try and trust the person they are with, but that doesnt extend to willful stupidity in the face of the facts.

A dishonest partner is worse than useless. Good riddance. It could have lingered into years of hell for you bor. You'll meet the right one. Dude, go chase Phatchick

 

[bran987]

Dude what finishing move did you use on her?

Sub-Zero
Skeleton Rip
Back Forward Forward Down (A3)

FATALITY

 

[alien amp pharm]

Bro don't even worry about it. Don't think about her. Don't wonder about her.


Move on homes, and live yo life.

I know. It's hard though. Especially sitting here at work by myself all day today. She just broke up this morning.

Thanks for the replies though guys, it's helping.

 

[BileStew]

Bro don't even worry about it. Don't think about her. Don't wonder about her.


Move on homes, and live yo life.

Yeah, what glaucoma eyeball dude said....

 

[alien amp pharm]

Maybe she was just tired of having to defend herself all the time.

She put me in some awful situations and started acting shady. Of course I'm going to question it, but I was never to the point of overdoing it, mistrusting her, yelling at her. I simply brought it to her attention, again not overwhelmingly.

and it's not like this had been going on forever. Just since school started last week.

 

[bran987]

I know. It's hard though. Especially sitting here at work by myself all day today. She just broke up this morning.

Thanks for the replies though guys, it's helping.

if you need to get over it faster, you can just read through lestat's threads from his breakup for the rest of the day. you'll have a chick licking your ass my early-afternoon and you'll be almost completely over it by dinner time. vicariously go through every part of a breakup over the next 12 hours.

 

[alien amp pharm]

. It could have lingered into years of hell for you bor.

That is what I'm thankful for right now....better now than later. Even though it hurts either way.

 

[jerseyart]

Fuck that bor

Some bitches will get your ass killed. Throw them to the fucking curb right away if they put your life at risk with silly little girl games

 

[AAP]

you mean the relationship like, lasted past the second date and you didn't get no sex still? damn.

 

[the nature boy]

Sub-Zero
Skeleton Rip
Back Forward Forward Down (A3)

FATALITY

I'm going to try that on my asshole boss when he's not looking.

 

[alien amp pharm]

you mean the relationship like, lasted past the second date and you didn't get no sex still? damn.

Thanks for the reminder

 

[AAP]

what are you? an old fashion gentlemen or something?

shit, if I ain't hit it after the second date, there won't be a third one. unless I am secretly going over to their place to steal a picture frame or something else that caught my eye.

 

[tuc biscuit]

sounds like a skank, I personally never trust women who are only friends with men....there is normally a reason why they have no female friends



also, what good will being down in the dumps about it do?..........NONE!


Go out and get laid!

 

[alien amp pharm]

also, what good will being down in the dumps about it do?..........NONE!

Go out and get laid!

Agreed.

I'm gonna keep this thread bumped at least for today...it's making me feel better.

 

[bran987]

I'm gonna keep this thread bumped at least for today...it's making me feel better.

like a self-made sticky

I for one learned something in this thread, well just something I had never realized. All the girls I dated who said "I only have guy friends, girls don't like me" always ended up badly.

and I just thought it was cause the girls were hot, but that's not it. they're not good peoples.

 

[mountain muscle]

?

What kind of change? Don't get attached to young, immature girls who have no clue what they want. I think you are right.

Good luck bro, women are always a mystery and very few should be taken seriously enough to affect your emotions.

 

[Werd]

Good luck bro, women are always a mystery and very few should be taken seriously enough to affect your emotions.

With this statement I wont disagree...

 

[sweetnes11]

Sorry bor,

but she sounds young and it could have been worse. You could have married the ditz.

Now you know why any girl that says "I only have guy friends" is not relationship material

I don't think you are right on that,, when I met my hubby I only had male friends. not because thats the way I wanted it , but when females are young, there is a lot of jealousy . Most half way good looking females only have one good female friend. and the rest guys.
Guys only want to get down your pants. but at least they are not stabbing you in the back, and stealing your boyfriends.
btw she does sound like she wants to try out a different guy. NOT your fault.

Just my thought on the subject.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I for one learned something in this thread, well just something I had never realized. All the girls I dated who said "I only have guy friends, girls don't like me" always ended up badly.

Well she SAID she had a lot of female friends too, but I don't think I ever saw her hanging out with them nor did they ever call her phone....it was always guys calling her phone when I was around.

I guess that's more important to her right now then a serious relationship with a great guy (sorry but I was). Probably due to her immaturity.

 

[Dial_tone]

Guys, you can't have it both ways. On the one hand some of you are saying girls are conniving bitches but then you condemn a girl who chooses to hang around men instea of other conniving bitches.

 

[Moderate_THIS]

So she dumped you? After all the shit you put up with?

that's like the 5-point palm exploding ego technique

 

[alien amp pharm]

So she dumped you? After all the shit you put up with?

that's like the 5-point palm exploding ego technique

Oh you wouldn't believe.
She talked to her best friend (girl) about our delima with guy friends and even her friend told her there was certain ways she needed to act in order to be fair to me. I guess she just felt I wasn't important enough for that.

I treated this girl like gold. Last time I make that mistake. I put up with a lot that other boyfriends would've gotten pissed over but she never appreciated that I guess.

 

[biteme]

I hear ya bro. It'll all work out in the end - I am a firm believer in that.

Yes, we die and then there's nothing left to deal with. At least not here.

 

[biteme]

A feel for you orb. Believe me, I know about girls who seemed different, but in the end just play games. You'll find the right one, just keep searching, and keep your standards high.

Sounds good and you're just trying to be helpful, but there's no guarantee of that.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Yes, we die and then there's nothing left to deal with. At least not here.

Yes, even the good things in life eventually bring great misery.

I'm tired of the process.

 

[biteme]

if you need to get over it faster, you can just read through lestat's threads from his breakup for the rest of the day. you'll have a chick licking your ass my early-afternoon and you'll be almost completely over it by dinner time. vicariously go through every part of a breakup over the next 12 hours.

Yes. Just take care of yourself and play the game.

 

[supersizeme]

Sub-Zero
Skeleton Rip
Back Forward Forward Down (A3)

FATALITY

BRO this is simply not right.

Forward-Down-Forward High Punch

I mean come on. Also I don't want to nit-pick but, it's called the "spine rip." The whole skeleton doesn't come out, just the spinal cord with the head attached.

aap - next. sorry bud :/ you're in your early 20s so you're going to run into this. good that this ended now and not later.

 

[alien amp pharm]

aap - next. sorry bud :/ you're in your early 20s so you're going to run into this. good that this ended now and not later.

Actually I'm 28. I'm ready to settle down. I was just ignorant and ignored all the warning signs of dating a 20 year old.

 

[Dial_tone]

Actually I'm 28. I'm ready to settle down. I was just ignorant and ignored all the warning signs of dating a 20 year old.

You and phatchik.......it's pre-ordained.

 

[alien amp pharm]

You and phatchik.......it's pre-ordained.

Didn't she move away?

Where is Lestat?...perhaps he could shed some enlightenment upon this thread.

I know what I need to be doing, it's just hard when I gave so much of myself to this girl even if it was in a short time.

 

[Dial_tone]

Didn't she move away?

Where is Lestat?...perhaps he could shed some enlightenment upon this thread.

I know what I need to be doing, it's just hard when I gave so much of myself to this girl even if it was in a short time.

She couldn't have moved far and Lestat is the LAST person you should be taking advice from about this, broski.

 

[mdd]

lets kick his ass

 

[alien amp pharm]

And I'm with Nature Boy, what finishing move did you do on her.. Tombstone neck breaker?

Sorry, I thought he meant sexual finishing move.

 

[from zero]

Sorry, I thought he meant sexual finishing move.

Nah. He didn't.

Did you do the Superfly Jimmy Snuka big splash off the top rope?

 

[supersizeme]

lol my bad. i don't know why i thought you were younger.

the last early 20s girl i dated was when i was 27. she was 23 and fresh out of college. she was beautiful and into me so i temporarily threw logic out the winder but still knew in the back of my mind that it was probably going to blow up like Kirstie Alley. she lived not too far from me here in dallas, but her job was in louisiana so she was out there most of the time and came home 2-3 weekends out of the month. about a month into dating her i came to the conclusion that she had a boyfriend that she worked with there in louisiana. a few times when we'd be together on the weekends, she'd actually talk to this guy on the phone with me while i was within ear shot and have one of those awkward conversations that she assumed i was oblivious to. this girl must've thought i was dumb as a stump not to put two and two together. i decided to treat the situation for what it was and have my fun with it, but after another month of it i called her out on it and told her we were done.

about a month after it ended, her boyfriend found a hard copy of an email exchange between us in her Jeep's glovebox giving her directions to my apartment and what i'm assuming was a gameplan for all the shit we were going to do to each other(this was some naked lover type shit i'm talkin, big perm) and he flipped out on her. apparently he was visiting her in dallas that weekend and flew back home immediately after finding the email. she called me up out of the blue that day telling me about this and saying stuff like "i just want to get drunk and forget about what happened today." any male with half a brain knows this is like a female cricket rubbing her legs together, so i went ahead and went out with her that night knowing what it was going to be. it was gratifying on multiple levels. i never talked to her again after that.

fairly typical early 20s female behavior. not that guys don't do some stupid shit, but when you're in your late 20s you run out of patience for it.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I have this extremely hot blonde a guy was trying to set me up with at the same time I met this girl. I want to persure her but at the same time I don't want it to be a rebound situation.

Your thoughts?

 

[supersizeme]

Just play it cool and propose to her over instant messenger. Make sure to include a rose smiley of some sort.

 

[Dial_tone]

I have this extremely hot blonde a guy was trying to set me up with at the same time I met this girl. I want to persure her but at the same time I don't want it to be a rebound situation.

Your thoughts?

go out with some other chick first so she's the rebound...then go for the hot blonde.

 

[AAP]

BRO this is simply not right.

Forward-Down-Forward High Punch

I mean come on. Also I don't want to nit-pick but, it's called the "spine rip." The whole skeleton doesn't come out, just the spinal cord with the head attached.

aap - next. sorry bud :/ you're in your early 20s so you're going to run into this. good that this ended now and not later.

Ain't that the troof?

Shit, what kind of fucking play is this?

Mortal Kombat Muthafucker!! Do? You? Play? It?

Pffft... pussy finger motherfucker, bet he normally picked Sonja to play with.

Maybe he should stick to less complicated games. Like Tetris.

 

[AAP]

Actually I'm 28. I'm ready to settle down. I was just ignorant and ignored all the warning signs of dating a 20 year old.

SSME wasn't talking to you. He was talking to Bran.

Bran is in his early 20's and really needs to learn about the MK Finish Him sequence. Better he learn now than getting pwned by some 11 year old nerd at the bowling alley arcade.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Dude what finishing move did you use on her?

Smoke - Fatality
Up - Up - Forward - Down
Blow up the fucking planet!

 

[Nathan]

Um, well, she SAID she was a virgin and had never even messed around much before. She told me she wanted me to be her first. We were getting to that point....she was fixing to start birth control next week.

I'm wondering if the virgin thing was all a lie now too.

A virgin? At 20? And she was hot? What the hell?

Anyways, sorry to hear it man. I started banging a girl I work with this past year who told me up front she was seeing someone else. I remember thinking to myself, "Sweet. A fuck buddy." That was pretty stupid. I hate looking and feeling stupid. I'd like to think that was the last time such a thing will happen, but I'm not smart enough to pull it off.

 

[slickdadd]

Just play it cool and propose to her over instant messenger. Make sure to include a rose smiley of some sort.

lol x 2

 

[supersizeme]

Ain't that the troof?

Shit, what kind of fucking play is this?

Mortal Kombat Muthafucker!! Do? You? Play? It?

Pffft... pussy finger motherfucker, bet he normally picked Sonja to play with.

Maybe he should stick to less complicated games. Like Tetris.

Seriously man. Speak it. While reading this post I envisioned a bunch of In Living Color bitches lined up behind you doing the running man with some dry ice steam rising up from the ground.

If you were in my house and did Back Forward Forward Down (A3) <--??? with Sub Zero for a finishing move, Subby would ice his own nuts and then shatter them and a dripping ST00PIDALITY would pop up on the screen.

While we're hijacking aap's thread with some MK, I'd like to bring up the fact that Goro uses twice as much anti-perspirant as a normal man due to having 4 armpits.

 

[150shot]

Back to the title- this is one sorry ass beeatch....try not to worry, hit the weights, I'm in the same boat as you....

 

[alien amp pharm]

Back to the title- this is one sorry ass beeatch....try not to worry, hit the weights, I'm in the same boat as you....

It sucks ass.

She IM'd me and basically told me she's been crying all day, misses me, blah blah blah, but that she chooses her guy friends over me. (even though I never asked her too). She thinks I won't be able to handle it.

Not sure if that's an easy way out or not, but what a BS reason to end something.

 

[Becoming]

Dude the only part of this shit that really pwns you is the fact you didn't geyt any....!

Doh!

She talked to her best friend (girl) about our delima with guy friends and even her friend told her there was certain ways she needed to act in order to be fair to me.

Now here is where you have potential - go out with her freind and bang her... I am sure she will find out about it... then you get laid and teach her ass a good lesson!

 

[alien amp pharm]

Now here is where you have potential - go out with her freind and bang her... I am sure she will find out about it... then you get laid and teach her ass a good lesson!

lol. good idea but she happens to be engaged to one of my good friends. They are they ones that set us up.

I would bang one of her other friends, but hey guess what....they are all guys!

 

[alien amp pharm]

What is absolutely sad is that other thread I made about her and her exboyfriend. The IM's she sent where she said "don't end this, I love you forever, let's get married" blah blah blah.

Looks like she was full of shit the whole time.

 

[Dial_tone]

What is absolutely sad is that other thread I made about her and her exboyfriend. The IM's she sent where she said "don't end this, I love you forever, let's get married" blah blah blah.

Looks like she was full of shit the whole time.

You have to remember college age people can't always separate love from infatuation.

 

[jerseyart]

Alien

Dude, you never hit it?

Thats why she tossed you bor.

Forget what any girl tells you. If you dont hit it soon after meeting her (varies, but no more than a couple of weeks), you are her friend, not her boyfriend.

Learn it,Live it

 

[Moderate_THIS]

For some reason this thread has got that song "Next Time I fall in Love" duet with Peter Cetera and Amy Grant up in my head.

 

[AAP]

(A3) <----- this button doesn't fucking exist.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I just got in. I noticed she is at a dance club (it was on her away message). I know I know, I shouldn't be looking and I am erasing her from my IM contacts right now, but at least I know her reason for breaking up.

She said she's not into clubs and stuff, but it's obvious she doesn't want a boyfriend now and is out living it up...probably with other guys. These girls always seem to be the same in the end. What they say is total opposite of what they do.

This makes it easier for me knowing now what she wants....which is to act all free and party.

 

[biteme]

No way I would date a woman under 25. I prefer between 30 and 40. But you are only 28, so (I don't know what I'm talkin' about) maybe you'll find a good one. I hope

 

[alien amp pharm]

No way I would date a woman under 25. I prefer between 30 and 40. But you are only 28, so (I don't know what I'm talkin' about) maybe you'll find a good one. I hope

Well I admit I like them young, but surely I've learned my lesson this time.

The bad part is that I NEVER meet any girls my age that are single. The few to choose from are all ugly, out of shape, in a relationship, or have baggage.
All of my hookup situations are all under 23 it seems.

Life sucks.

 

[biteme]

Well I admit I like them young, but surely I've learned my lesson this time.

The bad part is that I NEVER meet any girls my age that are single. The few to choose from are all ugly, out of shape, in a relationship, or have baggage.
All of my hookup situations are all under 23 it seems.

Life sucks.

I hear ya, but we have to try and make the best of it. Where's my shotgun? J/K

Be glad that you're not a single dad who is highly involved in his child's life. Women say they admire that, but yet they are extremely jealous and do not want to come second. Most of them that is. Nealy all I would venture to say. And besides that, it makes things very complicated.

 

[Dial_tone]

Well I admit I like them young, but surely I've learned my lesson this time.

The bad part is that I NEVER meet any girls my age that are single. The few to choose from are all ugly, out of shape, in a relationship, or have baggage.
All of my hookup situations are all under 23 it seems.

Life sucks.

wait til you hit 35....by then they're all divorced with children.
(not that there's anything wrong with that)

 

[alien amp pharm]

Where's my shotgun?

lol. you sound like me.

 

[alien amp pharm]

FYI, if anybody else is going thru a breakup try taking a Xanax.

A buddy gave me one, first time I've ever taken one, and I am sleepy (which was going to be hard due to nerves) and now I can't remember shit. I can't even remember what I was going to type. I've almost forgot about whats-her-name now.

 

[biteme]

lol. you sound like me.

lol. And I hate my ex-wife too. Most of the time anyway.

 

[alien amp pharm]

The bad part is that I NEVER meet any girls my age that are single. The few to choose from are all ugly, out of shape, in a relationship, or have baggage.
All of my hookup situations are all under 23 it seems.

^^^ and I think a big reason for this is because I look like I am 20 or so myself. I look young. Good looking, but young.

hehehe

 

[biteme]

FYI, if anybody else is going thru a breakup try taking a Xanax.

A buddy gave me one, first time I've ever taken one, and I am sleepy (which was going to be hard due to nerves) and now I can't remember shit. I can't even remember what I was going to type. I've almost forgot about whats-her-name now.

Just be careful, they're highly addictive. Unless you want to be on them for the rest of your life. I'll be on klonopin, for the rest of my days. Makes life much more tolerable and I do have an anxiety problem that requires treatment. From a lifetime of dealing with shit. The problem with these drugs if you see it as a problem, is that they can make you very apathetic.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Yep, that's right.
The girl I thought to be the perfect one turned out to be just like the rest.

She has a ton of 'guy friends' and is always making new ones and hanging out with them. She gave me the same ole "they are just friends, I love you, trust me, etc." Well here lately (since school started) she's been acting all shady. If I ever questioned anything I was labeled jealous and controlling.

Within the past couple of days she's been acting real strange. Having guys over and not answering her phone when I call, Not saying "I love you" when we get off the phone when people (guys) are around.

Then this morning she gives me the ole "I don't think we should do this anymore". She blames it on me, saying I have a problem with her being around guys and stressing her out about it. I truly did not see this coming because although it bothers me the situations she puts me in with guys, I never got upset over it.

My guess: She has been hanging around a guy and wants to start seeing him.

Get tested for Std's

 

[sigweed]

kinda ticks me off just hearing about this. nothing sucks more when a person you trust shows this side of deciet that you've never seen before, even worse when you really care about the person.

what i do in situations like this is just find somewhere to outlet your anger for this, my choices are working out and playing my guitar, dont usually feel like partying and banging new girls when im upset

 

[jerseyart]

Alien

Yeah, some people need constant validiation from others because of their insecurities. It isn't about you, but whats broken inside of her. It will be the same with the next guy.

Girls who can't draw boundaries and commit are worthless realtionship wise. It's a blessing in disguise

 

[Nathan]

kinda ticks me off just hearing about this. nothing sucks more when a person you trust shows this side of deciet that you've never seen before, even worse when you really care about the person.

what i do in situations like this is just find somewhere to outlet your anger for this, my choices are working out and playing my guitar, dont usually feel like partying and banging new girls when im upset

I read that like 4 times and am not picking up any sarcasm. What the crap?

 

[DEEZPAZ]

AS the Great Rapper Biz Markie once said "And she said hes just a friend" ***Everyone now****

SEriously bro, I would never go for that sh!t b/c as a guy I know if the chick is smoking hot I would want to bang her regardless if she had a b/f or not and if I was her good friend or not!!! Add in a little bit of beer, weed or E and you can almost guarantee shes sleeping in the wet spot the next morning!!!

 

[sigweed]

I read that like 4 times and am not picking up any sarcasm. What the crap?

you're an outstanding person and i respect you on a personal and professional level, and your posts remind me that life is in fact worth living

 

[onebigab]

Hey u got any naked pics of her. Post them up on the net.

 

[PHATchik]

Sorry bor,

but she sounds young and it could have been worse. You could have married the ditz.

Now you know why any girl that says "I only have guy friends" is not relationship material

Whoa, whoa, whoa. I've been through this round before, and I think it's shit. I have guy friends...my best friends are guys. Nothing has ever happened with them. Yes, Alien got screwed on this one. She sounds immature and he's better off, but you can't generalize based on her.

I've had to defend myself about my guy friends before, and no, you can't trust all women that say this. I realize that raises the question of "how do you know you can trust any of them?" I don't know how to answer that. I know that with me, when I say I have guy friends, that's what I mean. It's just a matter of trusting me. Sometimes, trust can be misplaced, but you can't go into the relationship assuming it's all a big lie.

 

[EnderJE]

Hey u got any naked pics of her. Post them up on the net.

And if not, then photoshop her head one some and post up one of those "priceless" pics.

 

[Razorguns]

never fall for that "i got LOTS of great guy friends! all of them FRIENDS".

we know GUYS. Every guy who's "friends" with a hot chick, just wants to get into their pants. And will keep "trying" and "waiting"f or that opportune moment. They may be friends, but if that "opportune" moment comes up - BOOM! They're on them like vultures.

Especialy when that conversation from her starts with the "Damn, my bf is such an ass". that's the cue where guy friends start "consoling" them and make their move.

trust me on that one. I see it all the time. Fortunately most women don't like dating their guy friends, and usually date someone brand new after they brake up with someone.

 

[Dial_tone]

My FB has alot of guy friends and she doesn't screw them, but then they're all dorky computer geeks who wouldn't know what to do with a real woman anyway. She has alot of female friends too.

 

[TC2]

Well I admit I like them young, but surely I've learned my lesson this time.

The bad part is that I NEVER meet any girls my age that are single. The few to choose from are all ugly, out of shape, in a relationship, or have baggage.
All of my hookup situations are all under 23 it seems.

Life sucks.

Word broly, I'm 28 also and it's like a barren wasteland as far as single/no kid having/none crazy/not fat as fuck, chicks our age.

But fuck it, I'm not even going to waste my time on a chick that is under 25.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Whoa, whoa, whoa. I've been through this round before, and I think it's shit. I have guy friends...my best friends are guys. Nothing has ever happened with them. Yes, Alien got screwed on this one. She sounds immature and he's better off, but you can't generalize based on her.

I've had to defend myself about my guy friends before, and no, you can't trust all women that say this. I realize that raises the question of "how do you know you can trust any of them?" I don't know how to answer that. I know that with me, when I say I have guy friends, that's what I mean. It's just a matter of trusting me. Sometimes, trust can be misplaced, but you can't go into the relationship assuming it's all a big lie.

Yeah, I don't have a problem with the guy friends being around if I trust the girl, but when they start acting shady that creates a problem. That's what happened here. She didn't handle the situations well at all, even if there was truly nothing going on. There are certain ways you should act in a relationship like that and she didn't do that.

She made her choice and that was to keep hanging out with them. It's kinda a blessing in disguise like JerseyArt said. I was stressing in the last week or so because of the way she handled these situations.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Well I've been busy nonstop since yesterday (thank goodness for weekends). I hung out with a lot of friends today and I went shopping today with my best female friend. She goes into women's stores to shop for clothes and at the same time I hit on the other girls shopping. It's great. I got 2 numbers and could've gotten a third easily. I can call these girls up to hang around and mess around with. This is the best medicine for post breakup stress.

We all went out later on and had a blast. I talked to several girls. I'm feeling good right now. A relationship is what I want, but these girls will do in the meantime helping my ego, build myself up, and get over the ex. It's just a matter of time before I found another girl I see as potential dating material.
I just wish there was more to choose from.....most are psycho, as TC2 points out.

 

[alien amp pharm]

never fall for that "i got LOTS of great guy friends! all of them FRIENDS".

we know GUYS. Every guy who's "friends" with a hot chick, just wants to get into their pants. And will keep "trying" and "waiting"f or that opportune moment. They may be friends, but if that "opportune" moment comes up - BOOM! They're on them like vultures.

Especialy when that conversation from her starts with the "Damn, my bf is such an ass". that's the cue where guy friends start "consoling" them and make their move.

trust me on that one. I see it all the time. Fortunately most women don't like dating their guy friends, and usually date someone brand new after they brake up with someone.

I couldn't agree more. Every word you said is dead on.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Whoa, whoa, whoa. I've been through this round before, and I think it's shit. I have guy friends...my best friends are guys. Nothing has ever happened with them. Yes, Alien got screwed on this one. She sounds immature and he's better off, but you can't generalize based on her.

I've had to defend myself about my guy friends before, and no, you can't trust all women that say this. I realize that raises the question of "how do you know you can trust any of them?" I don't know how to answer that. I know that with me, when I say I have guy friends, that's what I mean. It's just a matter of trusting me. Sometimes, trust can be misplaced, but you can't go into the relationship assuming it's all a big lie.

True, but that's when you as the female do things to reassure the boyfriend that there is noting to worry about. Acting shady will only put doubt in the boyfriend's mind. You don't have a guy friend over to your place and then not answer the phone when the boyfriend was scheduled to call, not say 'I love you' when the guy friends are around when the BF is on the phone, etc.

I'm not saying you are guilty of this. That is just what this girl did. Then got upset at me if I pointed out it bothered me (which it would anybody).