Ughhh I hate being Married!

[Bikini Mod]

Women just want you to listen to them, regardless of what it is. Just try & pretend your considerate of her, it will be of your benifit.

How about you REALLY ARE considerate of her? There is a novel idea....

Anyone who is married can see that this arguement had ZERO to do with what was posted... she wanted to talk about something and he did not pick up on the subtle cue... Yes, she behaved in an extremely immature fashion, BUT - we are talking about a marriage here, not some girl that he just picked up last night and fucked.

No one ever said that it was EZ being married. Anyone who does is either lying or a RETARD - period.

 

[cure]

take her out somewhere nice! when in doubt buy her jewelry. you married her so treat her like a queen, unless you don't think you should treat your wife like a queen. the longer i am with a woman, the better i treat her and the more attention and love i give her but for some reason i get dumped when i start doing that. then again, i am not married and don't know how long you have been married.

Did you really type this?

 

[WODIN]

Try bondage.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I wasn't going to say that.... but you took the words right out of my mouth.

Call me crazy, but I thought the whole point of marriage was about sharing your life with someone.... but then again, what the fuck do I know? I am, afterall, nearly divorced.

 

[CrimsonKing]

thanks for the replies folks.. some made me laugh, some made good sense... and others...welll...

Bikininmom is right, the issue at hand is not the hair on her arm, but I thought it made a very funny story for this post!

I sucked up to her this morning and she is ok (for now!)...

I've been married for 7 years, we have 2 kids (5 -girl, 3- boy), she is a stay-at-home mom. I think she just get angy at me sometimes when I'm wrapped up in work and stuff (like EF boards!).. and not sitting down to nice chit-chat with her...

 

[MrMuscle]

tomorrow when you are watching tv togheter again say:

"i did 10 reps with 400 pounds on the bench today"

and when she goes "thats nice" wait a couple of seconds, and then throw a simular tantrum like she did today. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You guys are both really good guys....

Chatboards, golf, shopping, work etc and so on are very EASY ways for MARRIED couples to ignore each other. It hurts a lot when your spouse alienates you, whether the diversion is conscious or not. Believe it or not, the mere fact that you have a few small children make it MORE than easy to ignore each other and NEVER put each other first... I am speaking from experience.

Hopefully, someday my ex and I can be friends and do "the family functions" thing TOGETHER (A girl can dream, can't she?). People often ask, "Gee wouldn't it be hard to be in the same car/room with each other... wouldn't you fight?" The answer is really quite simple. NO - with four kids it is VERY EASY TO IGNORE EACH OTHER!

Think about that people....

 

[Jimsbbc]

tomorrow when you are watching tv togheter again say:

"i did 10 reps with 400 pounds on the bench today"

and when she goes "thats nice" wait a couple of seconds, and then throw a simular tantrum like she did today. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

LOL! That's a good one, she prob won't know what hit her...

 

[Prometheus]

tomorrow when you are watching tv togheter again say:

"i did 10 reps with 400 pounds on the bench today"

and when she goes "thats nice" wait a couple of seconds, and then throw a simular tantrum like she did today. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

nice idea - lol. but the chances are pretty low that she'd catch on - then if you try to explain you'll have to go through all that crap a second time...

there's really no winning in this area - best you can do is make a huge, foolish, transparently fake show of love in public (ideally in front of her friends) once or twice a year and hope that carries you through - the more public, the better, and bonus points for imitating a scene from a meg ryan movie or a de Beers commercial.

 

[spongebob]

sometimes we (women0 just feel as if we are taken for grantide and no one is really listening to us.

get in the kitchen and fix me a turkey pot pie bitch.