ugh, cant take it!!!

[84B2]

basically need to vent, sorry if this is in the wrong forum. the gf is pmsing like mad, i realise its something i cant control, and that i guess im going to have to learn to deal with if i want to be in a relationship with her, but its really bad, shes off in her own little world right now, i havnt been able to get ahold of her(basically when she gets bad she turns her phone off and just studys or something to get her mind off shit i guess), she doesnt return calls, shes as she says is a "loose cannon" right now, she was snapping at work, when i did hang out with her yesterday, she was going off about everything. how can i talk to her about this, i know if i did it now it would just piss her off more, but it really bothers me, shes canceled our plans to go to a movie 2 nights ago. every other gf i had didnt get it this bad, it was manageable, i could atleast go out for dinner or watch a movie with them, but this one takes it to a whole new level. anyone have any advice or anything to help ME deal with this, lol i know it sucks(oh, and btw, im comin off a cycle so my hormones are out of wack too and may be why this bothers me soo much, but i dunno)

oh well im going to a wedding tomorrow and wont be back till sunday, so hopefully she has returned to normal by then, but we will see

(and no, i didnt do something to piss her off, everything is cool between us)

 

[immortalis]

You want advice...

Learn how to use periods, and proper sentence structure. Attempting to read that just made my eyes bleed

 

[84B2]

i learnt that shit when i went to school, then i forgot it. its the interweb, were not all brains here, and i never pretend to be. oh, and im canadian, i think thats my problem

 

[Gymgurl]

Maybe she needs to be on medication....serafem...is used alot for women who really get it bad...

 

[immortalis]

i learnt that shit when i went to school, then i forgot it. its the interweb, were not all brains here, and i never pretend to be. oh, and im canadian, i think thats my problem

lol. Well, I wont hold that against you

 

[Fajitas]

She's cheating on you

 

[84B2]

Maybe she needs to be on medication....serafem...is used alot for women who really get it bad...

id think she does, its crazy. she is 2 completely different people, usually shes the one trying to get ahold of me to go out and do stuff, but this last week has been crazy. she almost punched out a coworker(shes 5'4, 110lbs and she scared the guy to the point where she wasnt working beside him anymore), got mad and threw stuff everywhere at work.

is there any way for me to talk to her about this without starting an argument? its something ive never really delt with like this(or that i even felt was a real problem, but if shes going to be like this once a month for like a week, its going to make things hard).

thanks for reading, even though ive got horrible grammar... lol

 

[immortalis]

id think she does, its crazy. she is 2 completely different people, usually shes the one trying to get ahold of me to go out and do stuff, but this last week has been crazy. she almost punched out a coworker(shes 5'4, 110lbs and she scared the guy to the point where she wasnt working beside him anymore), got mad and threw stuff everywhere at work.

is there any way for me to talk to her about this without starting an argument? its something ive never really delt with like this(or that i even felt was a real problem, but if shes going to be like this once a month for like a week, its going to make things hard).

thanks for reading, even though ive got horrible grammar... lol

Maybe she is Bi-Polar...

My wife is and shes FUCKING NUTS.

 

[Gymgurl]

Is she on the pill? Women on the pill will not get bad PMS becasue their cycle is regulated....so that might an option too

 

[84B2]

she cant take the pill, shes lactose intolerant(spelling? lol) and it makes her sick, she uses some patch thing.

fajitas, lol thanks for the support brosif.

 

[Gymgurl]

see the patch should keep her level normal so she won't have PMS until a day or so before.....hmmmm....maybe she should get her levels tested.....

 

[84B2]

hmmmm...... oh well ill try to mention it when shes not raging mad, lol

 

[Gymgurl]

It might be the patch isn't working with her body...I took a pill once and I couldn't stand myself it was so bad

 

[84B2]

It might be the patch isn't working with her body...I took a pill once and I couldn't stand myself it was so bad

could be, who knows, ill try talking to her about it when shes "normal"

 

[magman1]

it's probably part mental thing too, she gets her period and thinks she can behave this way.....you need to explain to her that the behavior is unacceptable. Enough Dr. Phil shit tho

 

[84B2]

it's probably part mental thing too, she gets her period and thinks she can behave this way.....you need to explain to her that the behavior is unacceptable. Enough Dr. Phil shit tho

i think i am going to do this, it seems like a childish thing for her to be doing, but we will see how things go this week...

 

[84B2]

i talked to her tonight, i think shes bipolar or some shit(honestly, this chick needs medical help, psycho, but i actually feel sorry for her), she was awesome the 1st couple weeks, best girl i had ever had, and now, she says she feels trapped, and hates being in relationships(she was going to ask me out and shes the one who got me first) , she says this happens every time, and she doesnt know why, which is why shes never in a steady relationship. and i havnt made her do anything she doesnt want to, or anything.(even talked with her previous boyfriend and he said the same thing, he got out asap)

this chick needs help, who can she see or what can people reccomend. its not pms, she says shes willing to try to make this work, but i doubt i will stick around for that, i dont need to put up with shit, but id still like to see her get help for this problem.

any advice?

 

[needtogetaas]

lol. Well, I wont hold that against you

 

[mustang_00]

it's probably part mental thing too, she gets her period and thinks she can behave this way.....you need to explain to her that the behavior is unacceptable. Enough Dr. Phil shit tho

when that happens you gotta put them in their place! Stab your cawk with something and then show them that you're bleeding and then start being an asshole! and be like "ooooh look we're twins now" in a stupid voice.

 

[Gymgurl]

Honestly....let her go....she will only get worse....

 

[immortalis]

i talked to her tonight, i think shes bipolar or some shit(honestly, this chick needs medical help, psycho, but i actually feel sorry for her), she was awesome the 1st couple weeks, best girl i had ever had, and now, she says she feels trapped, and hates being in relationships(she was going to ask me out and shes the one who got me first) , she says this happens every time, and she doesnt know why, which is why shes never in a steady relationship. and i havnt made her do anything she doesnt want to, or anything.(even talked with her previous boyfriend and he said the same thing, he got out asap)

this chick needs help, who can she see or what can people reccomend. its not pms, she says shes willing to try to make this work, but i doubt i will stick around for that, i dont need to put up with shit, but id still like to see her get help for this problem.

any advice?

Yes... get out. Simple. Trust me, if shes got serious mental issues its just not worth the head/heart-ache man. I've been together with my wife on and off for 10 years, and if I knew in the beginning it was going to be this difficult I would have thrown in the towel a long fuckin time ago. My big problem is I dont give up on anything, relationships included. Take notes from me... its just not worth it

 

[84B2]

Yes... get out. Simple. Trust me, if shes got serious mental issues its just not worth the head/heart-ache man. I've been together with my wife on and off for 10 years, and if I knew in the beginning it was going to be this difficult I would have thrown in the towel a long fuckin time ago. My big problem is I dont give up on anything, relationships included. Take notes from me... its just not worth it

appreciate the help bro, im about to throw in the towel, going to give it till the end of the week then its done. then off to better things

 

[ynotfish]

Maybe she is Bi-Polar...

My wife is and shes FUCKING NUTS.

I here ya bud!!! Lived there 19 years. Made me laugh out loud when I read that, til the memories came crashin in. Save yourself! Run Forest Run...

 

[84B2]

ima do as iron maden reccomends, "RUN TO THE HILLS!!!!!" lol fuck this sucks