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Totally lost in an abusive relationship - HELP
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GoldenDelicious
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i grew up with a lot of women, and while i will protect them all in the face of some external threat without hesitation or regard for consequence, i have made it very clear to the women that i associate with that i have no qualms about beating the hell out of them under various (extreme) circumstances.
its amazing how some really fiesty women stop short at a glance once you pull the rug of their own misconception out from under their feet. not that i am a violent person, mind. i dont start fights, but i wont tolerate bullshit - and the drama queens who lean on mens reluctance to hit a woman while they scream/slap up a storm arent willing to take the chance, it seems
learn a couple of joint locks, and use them next time she decides to hit you. the reality of how much stronger/faster men are, and how much damage they can take without giving a shit isnt real until they experience it
have fun
its amazing how some really fiesty women stop short at a glance once you pull the rug of their own misconception out from under their feet. not that i am a violent person, mind. i dont start fights, but i wont tolerate bullshit - and the drama queens who lean on mens reluctance to hit a woman while they scream/slap up a storm arent willing to take the chance, it seems
learn a couple of joint locks, and use them next time she decides to hit you. the reality of how much stronger/faster men are, and how much damage they can take without giving a shit isnt real until they experience it
have fun
You could get evidence of her beating you, and then give it to the social services so you can get custody of the kid, but I don't know which of you would actually make a better parent.
You've got to put the well being of the kid first and foremost.
Good luck in making good decisions.
You've got to put the well being of the kid first and foremost.
Good luck in making good decisions.
monkey arms
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I know you already said that you would never hit her, but I can't stress the fact more, if you ever do you will never see your child on a regular basis again.
Unfortunately the courts/legal system are extremely bias when it comes to custody rights toward men. You need to have every abusive physical encounter with her documented, take photos if you can of any bruises, scratches,etc.
Call the police in every occurance.
Get a restraining order against her, and make every attempt to get custody of this child.
I've had several bros go through this kind of shit. The women they are involved with are abusive but they call the cops and have daddy carted away, then comes the restraining order and they have spent 1000's of dollars just to see their own children for 2 days a month.
Play this one safe and be cool headed.
Best of luck.
Unfortunately the courts/legal system are extremely bias when it comes to custody rights toward men. You need to have every abusive physical encounter with her documented, take photos if you can of any bruises, scratches,etc.
Call the police in every occurance.
Get a restraining order against her, and make every attempt to get custody of this child.
I've had several bros go through this kind of shit. The women they are involved with are abusive but they call the cops and have daddy carted away, then comes the restraining order and they have spent 1000's of dollars just to see their own children for 2 days a month.
Play this one safe and be cool headed.
Best of luck.
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Spartacus
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there ia another one up tonight toovelvett said:
lol i find it funny as well that men get slapped around by women and dont do shit, the last time my mom hit me, i told her if she ever hit me again id punch her in the face...i was serious and she hasnt hit me since- i havnt really deserved it since, and i didnt deserve it when she hit me, which is why i said that, i wouldnt say it if i deserved it.GoldenDelicious said:i grew up with a lot of women, and while i will protect them all in the face of some external threat without hesitation or regard for consequence, i have made it very clear to the women that i associate with that i have no qualms about beating the hell out of them under various (extreme) circumstances.
its amazing how some really fiesty women stop short at a glance once you pull the rug of their own misconception out from under their feet. not that i am a violent person, mind. i dont start fights, but i wont tolerate bullshit - and the drama queens who lean on mens reluctance to hit a woman while they scream/slap up a storm arent willing to take the chance, it seems
learn a couple of joint locks, and use them next time she decides to hit you. the reality of how much stronger/faster men are, and how much damage they can take without giving a shit isnt real until they experience it
have fun
anyway, yeah if a bitch slaps u, bitchslap herback
strangebrew said:
Yeah, I'm helpless. j/k Its not the fact that she is abusive, I used to keep on teasing her to see how hard she could hit...until I realized the escalation thing.
One slap and she's knocked out and I'm locked up - thats why I dont go there.
The only thing I ever did was once she hit me twice, tried to hit me again so I grabbed her hair, twisted her around and pulled her head down do my waist and told her just because I dont doesnt mean I cant. Looking up at me hanging by her hair she got the point...at least for a while
