to vicsectomy or not to vicsectomy

[markmark]

o.k. guys , wife will no longer take birth control ..married for 19 years and have two boys 10 & 12 and not planning any more & don't want any surprises, her solution "VICSETOMY" . IM reluctant to do so and I hate condoms.. I think she should go under the knife but she just wont do it. Sex has not been the same for the last 1 1/2 years or so .. By depriving me of sex is driving me up the wall and lusting over other women.. any of you couples experience this and if so what was your conclusion?? Any of you men had this done ??

 

[vixensghost]

"Vasectomy"- got it?

Sorry, if the wife is refusing sex for fear of getting knocked up, there are other problems goin on.Those problems, may or may not be ,connected to your soon to be shredded vas deferens.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Vasectomies rule!!!! I want one!

 

[vixensghost]

Vasectomies rule!!!! I want one!

I's tie your shit up in a knot for free.

 

[puddlemonkey]

 

[puddlemonkey]

With your tongue?

 

[vixensghost]

U know I wuv ya.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Both my exhusband and brotherinlaw had one when it was decided "enough kids". Neither had any complications. It is like a 20 minute procedure in the doc's office and you sit on some frozen peas for a day or so. Whereas for a woman it is done under general anesthesia, in the hospital, overnight stay and higher risk for complications. The choice was a pretty easy one in both cases.

 

[Saintinistic]

I had months of pain afterwards, and a few painful episodes since. it was a curse, so for all the peace of mind, we have less sex no that before.

they tell you about the 1 in 500... the 1 in 1000 etc odds for complications, well fuck me if I wasnt the lucky one to score on all of them.

I had it done January and even a month ago had my left epididimus swell up and cause enough pain to warrant an ultrasound.

I am glad it isnt like teeth where you have to go back once a year.

the operation itself was ok, the needle was hardly felt at all, and its numb pretty fast. the doctor was a crack up and we spoke about all sorts of shit, philosophy, conspiracy theories... even about how I recommended he try ketamine. crack up.

but he had to give me extra anesthetic as it felt like he was pulling my guts out. that wasnt pleasant.

it was all over in about 45 minutes from shorts off and shorts on.

out of all the people I know I was the worse, the rest where all good.

so it depends on how lucky you are. I dont mean to scare you, but you wanted honest information.

dont fear the operation, its easier than what your wife would go through.

 

[Gymgurl]

My hubby had it and we had sex the next day...he wanted to make sure its worked. he had no pain meds after just ice the first day. BUT everyone is different