Thoughts on relationship(help)

[calveless wonder]

make a choice. sounds like you aren't ready to settle

can't have it both ways unless you want to be a complete scumbag and that'll catch up with you in the end

 

[mrplunkey]

She's cheating on you

 

[mrplunkey]

Piitb

 

[mrplunkey]

With those two standard answers out of the way, I wonder how you'd feel if she wanted a relationship but wanted to screw a few bigger-dick guys on the side...

 

[princesa]

what's the age difference?? just wondering

Be honest with her, she might be open minded and have an open relationship. Or..maybe she feels the same way about you

 

[Megalomaniac]

Ummmmmmmmmm NO!

that is called "wanting your cake and eating it too" (Smurf in 3, 2, 1)
Life doesn't work this way

That is like saying, I want to work cause my job gives me good money, but I want to play golf all day also

Well that is exactly how I feel, I love golf but work sucks. Why can't life work that way for me? Are you telling me young girls don't get to have a cake and also eat one? IMHO that is what I have always seen, young girls(not all) throwing a wink and getting what they want but not earning it. I'm not saying this is for everyone but I would love to have a great companion but sexual relations with a bunch of younger girls.


my age33, her age 33, younger girls age 20-23.

 

[calveless wonder]

solution :

find a mid to late 20 something with a smoking body but that's mature

 

[blueta2]

It works that way if you're a rich shiek with 4 wives. Maybe you need to move to Dubai

 

[Megalomaniac]

what's the age difference?? just wondering

Be honest with her, she might be open minded and have an open relationship. Or..maybe she feels the same way about you

She might feel that way but she expresses that she loves our sex and wants more relationship. Right now we are distant so that helps but I'm just not one who has ever enjoyed waking up with someone every morning. I enjoy it some mornings but also enjoy waking up alone some mornings.

I've stayed out of relationships for the last 8 years but this long time friend wanted to go for it so I did. Now I just want it how it was, I think I took it to far.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Well that is exactly how I feel, I love golf but work sucks. Why can't life work that way for me? Are you telling me young girls don't get to have a cake and also eat one? IMHO that is what I have always seen, young girls(not all) throwing a wink and getting what they want but not earning it. I'm not saying this is for everyone but I would love to have a great companion but sexual relations with a bunch of younger girls.


my age33, her age 33, younger girls age 20-23.

Talk to the Grump, he lived this life for like 20 something years.

I am still trying to figure why he traded "all that" for me.

Honestly? If that is REALLY how you want to live your life then just lay your cards on the table from the get go. If the women are down for that, then I say, "Why not?"

... sorta like I told my old grump from the first conversation, "Sorry I don't share. If you want to be with me then you will have to accept that I don't care how long you have lived your life *that* way. That just won't work for me." ... realizing full well that if he was not down with what worked for me then the relationship would not progress.

I let him decide for himself. There was no deception on either of our parts and is working out just fine for both of us.