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Those who have been divorced...

I still hate her. It's been 6 years. I had to get the divorce papers out today to get my daughter's social security #. Brought back memories. I will hate the bitch until the day I die. I'm a Scorpio.
 
What did she do to you to turn you from "loving, honor and cherish" to hate? If you don't mind me asking...
 
He got into drugs (speed, heroin) and took all our money while I was in the hospital having HIS baby. He took off 4 days after I delivered. I filed for divorce. A couple of months later, I read in the "Police Beat" section of the paper that he'd been arrested (in my car) with a couple of pounds of speed under the front seat.

I got full custody - all his rights were taken away. He's currently doing 16 years in prison. I haven't heard from or talked to him since before he left. (4 1/2 years ago) Sucks to be him. :D

A blessing in disguise. Try and beat that one!
 
the-short-one said:
He got into drugs (speed, heroin) and took all our money while I was in the hospital having HIS baby. He took off 4 days after I delivered. I filed for divorce. A couple of months later, I read in the "Police Beat" section of the paper that he'd been arrested (in my car) with a couple of pounds of speed under the front seat.

I got full custody - all his rights were taken away. He's currently doing 16 years in prison. I haven't heard from or talked to him since before he left. (4 1/2 years ago) Sucks to be him. :D

A blessing in disguise. Try and beat that one!
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Wow...that's quite the story, lol. Sounds like you're better off without him... Good to hear you're doing well now hun :)
 
Mine was having an affair and when I finally caught on, she lied her ass off. 7 days later I was served divorce papers at work. She tried to take my daughter away and make me pay child support. If you haven't heard my story, it's legendary. She brought a box full of things in the courtroom as evidence of my wrongdoing. I had no idea what was in the box. I opened it in the courtroom and took a peek when nooone was looking. There was a pair of brass knuckles with a knife on the end that her brother had loaned to me when I was hiking in Colorado. She wanted to make it look like I carried this weapon around, also she had put empty amphetamine vials in the box and some pornographic magazines (LMAO). She never cared about that. The vials were probably hers because I do not use drugs, except for AAS. To make a long story short, it ended costing me over 10,000 dollars and I imagine her as well. We ended up getting split custody with no child support, which is what I wanted and begged her to do in the first place. We spent over 20,000 unnecessarily. I hate her. I was able to prove that she was having an affair after she lied about it in court. She backed down and the case was settled. She's lucky, because if she had won custody, I would have made her life miserable.
 
the-short-one said:
He got into drugs (speed, heroin) and took all our money while I was in the hospital having HIS baby. He took off 4 days after I delivered. I filed for divorce. A couple of months later, I read in the "Police Beat" section of the paper that he'd been arrested (in my car) with a couple of pounds of speed under the front seat.

I got full custody - all his rights were taken away. He's currently doing 16 years in prison. I haven't heard from or talked to him since before he left. (4 1/2 years ago) Sucks to be him. :D

A blessing in disguise. Try and beat that one!
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Okay, you get the cake until a better one comes along...
 
biteme said:
Mine was having an affair and when I finally caught on, she lied her ass off. 7 days later I was served divorce papers at work. She tried to take my daughter away and make me pay child support. If you haven't heard my story, it's legendary. She brought a box full of things in the courtroom as evidence of my wrongdoing. I had no idea what was in the box. I opened it in the courtroom and took a peek when nooone was looking. There was a pair of brass knuckles with a knife on the end that her brother had loaned to me when I was hiking in Colorado. She wanted to make it look like I carried this weapon around, also she had put empty amphetamine vials in the box and some pornographic magazines (LMAO). She never cared about that. The vials were probably hers because I do not use drugs, except for AAS. To make a long story short, it ended costing me over 10,000 dollars and I imagine her as well. We ended up getting split custody with no child support, which is what I wanted and begged her to do in the first place. We spent over 20,000 unnecessarily. I hate her. I was able to prove that she was having an affair after she lied about it in court. She backed down and the case was settled. She's lucky, because if she had won custody, I would have made her life miserable.
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WOW. The part I don't get is why would she do that to you? I guess this other guy must of been something else to get her to treat you like that. Or maybe it was just a long time coming. If so, then I'm surprised that she just didn't walk away from you by herself.

I'm sorry to hear that.
 
EnderJE said:
WOW. The part I don't get is why would she do that to you? I guess this other guy must of been something else to get her to treat you like that. Or maybe it was just a long time coming. If so, then I'm surprised that she just didn't walk away from you by herself.

I'm sorry to hear that.
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Could be. I didn't go down on her very often. Very beautiul but she didn't have the best hygiene. Maybe the guy didn't care. I was never abusive to her, those that know me, know that I am passive by nature. Lately, I've been in a pensive mood and you can tell by my mosts.
 
biteme said:
Could be. I didn't go down on her very often. Very beautiul but she didn't have the best hygiene. Maybe the guy didn't care. I was never abusive to her, those that know me, know that I am passive by nature. Lately, I've been in a pensive mood and you can tell by my mosts.
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Dought it was your fault or who gave her better oral sex. Odds, are she wasn't old enough or mature enough to get married. Someday, she will realize she fucked up.
 
biteme said:
Mine was having an affair and when I finally caught on, she lied her ass off. 7 days later I was served divorce papers at work. She tried to take my daughter away and make me pay child support. If you haven't heard my story, it's legendary. She brought a box full of things in the courtroom as evidence of my wrongdoing. I had no idea what was in the box. I opened it in the courtroom and took a peek when nooone was looking. There was a pair of brass knuckles with a knife on the end that her brother had loaned to me when I was hiking in Colorado. She wanted to make it look like I carried this weapon around, also she had put empty amphetamine vials in the box and some pornographic magazines (LMAO). She never cared about that. The vials were probably hers because I do not use drugs, except for AAS. To make a long story short, it ended costing me over 10,000 dollars and I imagine her as well. We ended up getting split custody with no child support, which is what I wanted and begged her to do in the first place. We spent over 20,000 unnecessarily. I hate her. I was able to prove that she was having an affair after she lied about it in court. She backed down and the case was settled. She's lucky, because if she had won custody, I would have made her life miserable.
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Wow. I thought mine was bad. At least I got full custody without any fight. By the time my court date showed up - he was already locked up. I paid less than $1000. I am really sorry - I know what it feels like to get totally screwed by someone you thought you could trust.
 
Wow, that's some pretty extreme shit. I have yet to see 1 hardcore drug user, all I see are weed/AAS/shroom/E consumers and thats about it.
 
biteme said:
Mine was having an affair and when I finally caught on, she lied her ass off. 7 days later I was served divorce papers at work. She tried to take my daughter away and make me pay child support. If you haven't heard my story, it's legendary. She brought a box full of things in the courtroom as evidence of my wrongdoing. I had no idea what was in the box. I opened it in the courtroom and took a peek when nooone was looking. There was a pair of brass knuckles with a knife on the end that her brother had loaned to me when I was hiking in Colorado. She wanted to make it look like I carried this weapon around, also she had put empty amphetamine vials in the box and some pornographic magazines (LMAO). She never cared about that. The vials were probably hers because I do not use drugs, except for AAS. To make a long story short, it ended costing me over 10,000 dollars and I imagine her as well. We ended up getting split custody with no child support, which is what I wanted and begged her to do in the first place. We spent over 20,000 unnecessarily. I hate her. I was able to prove that she was having an affair after she lied about it in court. She backed down and the case was settled. She's lucky, because if she had won custody, I would have made her life miserable.
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In the courts eyes do they care if she had an Affair vs no Affair, beyond making her look bad?
 
i have the balls to say i fucked up. i cheated on her for two months, drank heavily for 6 mos before that. when i finally realized i fucked up she decided it was over. lived together for a 1 1/2 yrs after but split up this last new years eve. no kids, so split was somewhat easy. i still love the person i married, but can hardly look at what she has become today. i blame mostly myself, however, i resent her too. she treated me like absolute dirt for the 1 1/2 yrs we remained together. i tried everything in my power to make her understand again why she married me and to see me for who i really am, not the poor excuse of the person i was for 6 mos. people can label me a cheat or a drunk and say people never change. and i'll say fuck you. you'll never know what's in my heart or those who have done things similar to what i've done. (ignorant insecure fucks will say "spoken like a true cheater". remember who you are, because you have alot to learn about people and life in general) some people don't change. but some do

i have someone now who treats me like a king and i love and appreciate her the same. i will always have a place in my heart for the woman i married and loved, and nothing will change that. i also love and cherish the woman i am with now, and will not do anything to jeopordize that either

some loves take months to get over. some years. and sometimes you may love someone and lose them forever, and never get over it. instead of missing or regretting the time you spent together or would of spent together, cherish the times you did spend together, that's what matters most. it's what matters to me
 
vansmack2000 said:
In the courts eyes do they care if she had an Affair vs no Affair, beyond making her look bad?
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Depends on the circumstances, but when they lie about it under oath and get caught, then it's taken seriously.
 
Devastation said:
i have the balls to say i fucked up. i cheated on her for two months, drank heavily for 6 mos before that. when i finally realized i fucked up she decided it was over. lived together for a 1 1/2 yrs after but split up this last new years eve. no kids, so split was somewhat easy. i still love the person i married, but can hardly look at what she has become today. i blame mostly myself, however, i resent her too. she treated me like absolute dirt for the 1 1/2 yrs we remained together. i tried everything in my power to make her understand again why she married me and to see me for who i really am, not the poor excuse of the person i was for 6 mos. people can label me a cheat or a drunk and say people never change. and i'll say fuck you. you'll never know what's in my heart or those who have done things similar to what i've done. (ignorant insecure fucks will say "spoken like a true cheater". remember who you are, because you have alot to learn about people and life in general) some people don't change. but some do

i have someone now who treats me like a king and i love and appreciate her the same. i will always have a place in my heart for the woman i married and loved, and nothing will change that. i also love and cherish the woman i am with now, and will not do anything to jeopordize that either

some loves take months to get over. some years. and sometimes you may love someone and lose them forever, and never get over it. instead of missing or regretting the time you spent together or would of spent together, cherish the times you did spend together, that's what matters most. it's what matters to me
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Everything you've done in the past makes you who you are today. Even the fucked up stuff. Sounds to me like you finally understand what it is to appreciate what you've got. That's a hard lesson that most people NEVER learn. KARMA to you.
 
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