Those of you who ARE the/HAVE the piece-o-sheet ex....

[Bikini Mod]

I don't either - I mean there were moments of all sorts of emotions but like Smurf said I made my own decisions no one made me meet date or stay with these people.

I do have to shake my own head at some of my choices once and while but it's all good they were more great moments then bad ones and without the bad ones I would not have what I do now.

I could care less whether my ex lives or dies. The only problem I have is that he just wont die. LOL

Seriously, if it weren't for the fact that I have children with him, why should I care?

My first husband is the lowest form of life.

My current (and last) husband is a gift from God. Had I not been taught SUCH the great lesson from my first mistake, I honestly dont think that I would have learned enough to be able to be with the man I am today.

WE have ALL made bad choices. Mistakes are our greatest teacher.

And though Frisky chooses to remember the positives of her first marriage (I have NONE) I still stand by my viewpoint (and that is mine alone) that regardless of who the spermdonor was I would still have exceptional children. Hell, if I had had them with another man - they'd be MUCH happier as their father is quite successfully fucking them up.

What makes my children so wonderful is NOT who sired them, but rather, the village that their mother has always and is TRYING so hard to surround them with.

 

[Frisky]

I could care less whether my ex lives or dies. The only problem I have is that he just wont die. LOL

Seriously, if it weren't for the fact that I have children with him, why should I care?

My first husband is the lowest form of life.

My current (and last) husband is a gift from God. Had I not been taught SUCH the great lesson from my first mistake, I honestly dont think that I would have learned enough to be able to be with the man I am today.

WE have ALL made bad choices. Mistakes are our greatest teacher.

And though Frisky chooses to remember the positives of her first marriage (I have NONE) I still stand by my viewpoint (and that is mine alone) that regardless of who the spermdonor was I would still have exceptional children. Hell, if I had had them with another man - they'd be MUCH happier as their father is quite successfully fucking them up.

What makes my children so wonderful is NOT who sired them, but rather, the village that their mother is TRYING so hard to surround them with.

I see clearly what you say, no doubt!


I have great memories of my first marriage, and when it ended I have sour memories. I witnessed a totally differnet person when I filed. But thats life, I have had my life threatened, been tourmented, so many other issues that I just cast aside because no matter if I sit there and worry about them or not, Faith is Faith. I won't let him or anyone else EVER make my skin crawl, put a thorn in my back and make my life miserable.


I am happy, my wee ones are happy, I could use about 40k more a year... yea, but thats only money. I put happiness above dollars every day.

I'm judged day in and day out, but yet those that judge have never even walked the walk. Amazing isn't it?

 

[Bikini Mod]

I see clearly what you say, no doubt!


I have great memories of my first marriage, and when it ended I have sour memories. I witnessed a totally differnet person when I filed. But thats life, I have had my life threatened, been tourmented, so many other issues that I just cast aside because no matter if I sit there and worry about them or not, Faith is Faith. I won't let him or anyone else EVER make my skin crawl, put a thorn in my back and make my life miserable.


I am happy, my wee ones are happy, I could use about 40k more a year... yea, but thats only money. I put happiness above dollars every day.

I'm judged day in and day out, but yet those that judge have never even walked the walk. Amazing isn't it?

WERD

Funny thing, those that are most judgemental just follow us around, nipping at our heals with negativity...

If we ignore them, they just persist.

If we address them, we are "crazy attention whores with issues".

LMFAO

You be my crazy attention whoring sister with issues n' all!!!!

A very poignant post by another board member REALLY put it in perspective for me when I was so mired down in the heat of the negative crossfire that it cut to the quick for me INSTANTLY.

She said that she was SO HUMBLED by the traumatic experience she couldnt understand where other people (who had supposedly, by their own admission been through it too) had their heads.

I was instantly validated and ashamed all at once. I thanked her for helping me to regain clarity.

And then just cleaned the shit from underneath my shoes and walked on without skipping a beat.

 

[habitualhealth]

Yay me and Velvett have something in common

besides just being incredibly good looking

i'm pretty sure you don't share that commonality with her.

 

[habitualhealth]

ps. jury came back...this is definitely the best thread of the week.

Can I collect my winnings now?

 

[jh1]

ps. jury came back...this is definitely the best thread of the week.

Can I collect my winnings now?

Of course... see you in bit...

 

[habitualhealth]

Of course... see you in bit...

touche

 

[pdaddy]

touche

Is that an adam's apple in your avi?

If so, wanna cyber?

 

[habitualhealth]

Is that an adam's apple in your avi?

If so, wanna cyber?

If you like that you should see the dinky I'm packin'.

 

[pdaddy]

If you like that you should see the dinky I'm packin'.

If you refer to it as a "dinky" I don't think it's large enough to fill my canyon.