Thinking about asking my girlfriend to marry me

[Randy_Spears]

Ive been through a lot of girls in my life and I know this is the girl for me, Im 28 and shes 22 by the way. Weve only been together 3 months but Im going to start saving for a ring now and by the time I get the ring and ask her we would have been together for about 8 or 9 months. Weve been very close for the short time weve known each other and I would have seen a "chink in the armor" at this point, but she is genuine in every way and damn near perfect. In the past I let the perfect girl get away but Im not letting that happen this time. Share your experiences if this is all similar.

 

[Testosterone boy]

Ive been through a lot of girls in my life and I know this is the girl for me, Im 28 and shes 22 by the way. Weve only been together 3 months but Im going to start saving for a ring now and by the time I get the ring and ask her we would have been together for about 8 or 9 months. Weve been very close for the short time weve known each other and I would have seen a "chink in the armor" at this point, but she is genuine in every way and damn near perfect. In the past I let the perfect girl get away but Im not letting that happen this time. Share your experiences if this is all similar.

I hope that all goes well. Can you send the number of that perfect girl to Frackal?

How are you feeling?

 

[OXANDRIN]

broly, she is 22 you are 28 she will be re-tooling in a few years, find an older chick unless you got lots of cash, they usually hang around those dudes

 

[duritz]

dude don't do it. if it's meant to be then having a relationship for 3 or 4 yrs will still be viable. I love these morons that are like, "I wanna marry her". What's the difference between marriage and a steady relationship?? NOTHING!!! It's just a title. you don't have to be married to experience the same things. Usually marriage ruins things. And for those people who think, "well if we are married I know i have them for life" Well if they are gonna leave you or cheat on you they can do it when you are married anyway. Hope this helps. Two of my friends had this recently happen to them. One was engaged and found out his girl was banging like 5 guys on the side. The other was married and found out she was banging a guy on the side.

 

[velvett]

Three whole months huh.

It took me longer to find the right pepper mill.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Nope. Bad idea IMO. Take it easy bro' why rush? Just enjoy going out for now and if things last a long time then do it. Not after a few months.

 

[pauly]

Take everything that pple say as a grain of salt, but make sure you read what they say. Only YOU and HER will know if it's right or not. Shit, my parents only knew each other 2 weeks before they got married......they have 3 boys and a healthy relationship. Never any huge arguments and I can honestly say out of all my other friends or aquaintences, we have the tightest family structure. Still going strong over 23 years together. There are a lot of smart asses on the board so just read all the good stuff and utilize it.

 

[Randy_Spears]

Take everything that pple say as a grain of salt, but make sure you read what they say. Only YOU and HER will know if it's right or not. Shit, my parents only knew each other 2 weeks before they got married......they have 3 boys and a healthy relationship. Never any huge arguments and I can honestly say out of all my other friends or aquaintences, we have the tightest family structure. Still going strong over 23 years together. There are a lot of smart asses on the board so just read all the good stuff and utilize it.

Thanks. To clarify again, I am not going to pop the question until I have to ring, which wont be for another four or five months.

 

[Necrophagia]

Go fer it.

 

[p0ink]

Three whole months huh.

It took me longer to find the right pepper mill.

you know, im in the same boat. my pepper grinder is the biggest piece of shit, and it makes my pepper taste like plastic.

i really want to get one of those nice wooden ones that waiters carry around in upscale places. any suggestions?

im being serious here. my pepper means a lot to me.