The truth about my girl.....

[Xalthus]

I dont know if you guys remember, but i posted a thread about my girlfriend a while back asking for advice..

http://boards.elitefitness.com/forum/showthread.php?threadid=43971

Yesterday I had her tell me her whole past since birth, and that includes her sexual history. This is what she told me... Her sexual life began when she was 14, the guy and her fucked every other day for 2 years but never loved each other, they could "see" other people while in the relationship because they didnt care about each other. Then She slept 3 days after meeting some kid in church a while later. She slept with this basketball guy because she wanted to and he came in her, because they were both drunk. She had a pizza boy deliver her pizza and she thought he was hot so she told him to come back and fuck her, he did (never seen him again). She had that 3 some wit 2 other guys when she moved into her new house. She slept with 2 brothers (once, each on a different occasion). And she "fooled" around with this kid (that is still around her) for half a year, she said she never really loved him, but she fucked him 3 days before she left to go to utah, Then a month later she fucked me.. I think there were other sexual experiences with her but i cant remember what she told me. She is still telling me that im the only one she said she ever loved and all that bullshit. And now that she is back in texas finishing off her sports crap, That kid that she slept with 3 days before she came down here is still around her and she goes to school with him now. She tells me she tells him off and this and that, But i dont understand how someone would just have feelings for a person then 2 months later have no feelings for them. She tells me he tries to talk to her but she like tells him to leave her alone.. Whatever im confused... She still calls me each night for about 2 hours and tells me everything she has done, but i still dont know if i can trust her..
And i also feel like a shit, since she is the 2nd person i ever had sex with, and im like... the 20th.. So it makes it seem like there is nothing special between us when we make love. But i dont know... sigh~ WOULD YOU TRUST HER?

Sorry guys i had to vent and im also really confused...

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Beat her to death with a piece of driftwood.

It's the only way to rid her of her whore-ish ways.

 

[ciscokid1]

Jesus Christ man, there are some things that are just better off left unknown. That kind of thing would drive me fucking crazy.

 

[Weapon X]

Uh, so what's the question.
My Advice: NEVER ask a woman's sexual history because you can never handle it!! Trust me.

This is the legacy of the "Sexual Revolution." Hooray.

 

[Jeff_rys]

that's a girl you will never have for you alone

so take her as she is or find someone else.
Depends on what you want out of a relation.

 

[big4life]

If you can handle her past then try
to work things out, if you can't, then move
on, she can't change the past.

 

[AGENT SHAGWELL]

. She slept with this basketball guy because she wanted to and he came in her, because they were both drunk.

Question: Did she offer this additional infomation or did you probe for it?

If I were in love with someone, I think i would be truthful enough to tell them how many, but I dont' think I'd be so particular to explain every situation, and then some. Thats just cruel to the other individual, and unneccesary info. If she had unprotected sex, she should just say so, and leave it at that.

 

[Darksong2k1]

Xalthus I don't know what you're looking for bro. You're still questioning it so obviously the trust is not there.

So really you have to decide, is the pain of being without her (And quite possibly in the future with someone who will not do this to your insides.) greater than the pain and the torment of wondering every time she leaves the house just what she is up to?

- If you think it's love... nothing ventured, nothing gained.
- If you don't know what you feel, it's time to exit stage left.

But honestly I don't see it being love, if you don't trust her. As harsh as it may come off to be, most likely infatuation. Noone here can answer that except yourself. So it's time to face the mirror and make the step, whichever way it may be. I hate to see anyone like this - Because, I myself am having a really difficult time letting go of a girl that straight up just left me and left the state. Don't let it linger, deal with it soon. Friend of mine quoted: "That which does not help you grow in life only succeeds in killing you softly."

Take it to heart. Good luck. My $.02.

 

[Weapon X]

No matter who you date these days (BTW Xalthus, are you really LDS??), your girlfriend very likely had other dicks in her mouth than yours.

 

[supersizeme]

you are learning the hard way not to ask questions about a woman's previous sexual history. nothing good ever comes out of it. the only answer you really want to hear is "you were my first" and in this day and age that's never the case. so in your future relationships keep your mouth shut when you start to become curious about her past. you don't want to know. if she starts telling you about it, tell her you don't want to hear it.
trust me and whoever else made this point on this issue.

are you the best lover she's ever had? probably not
most well-endowed? probably not
best kisser? she's probably had better

these are all dumb questions you will want to ask but you're either going to get lied to in her response or you're going to get the harsh truth. so don't ask dumb stuff.