tatman3177
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you are right you must have a balance in life and that includes family. YOU must have "your" time to achieve this balance. this balance in the end will definitly improve your family life. you should not smother your self in that or youll burn out fast and end up straying to some strange good looking piece of ass. now dont get me wrong im not saying to ignore your family, what im saying is in every family each person has something that he/she/thay do on their own, to have some alone time. this is a selfish lifestyle we have chosen but that does not mean we act like junkies and ignore everything around us to achieve our goals in lifing. 99.9% of eveyone that utilises aas still live a very respectable, ordinary life. and that includes fanily life.bvb69 said:I here what your saying but there must be a balance. Life is not just all me and my wants unfortunatly. Since having a child I have had to constantly remind myself of this. I never understood it before and thought I did, having a child changes your perspective on the life and I think finding the middle is the key no matter what situation you live in.