The Dairy Queen girl I went crazy for...

[fyxgel2]

for someone who claims to Love The Lord, these are some interesting quotes

You need to spend less time writing creepy, pathetic, stalker like emails, and more time studying the Word. That is if this is for real.

pfftt.. well thanks for trying to contradict the value I hold in my faith.

Look, The Word is a pain in the butt to study, and it takes willpower to do it that I dont have. If I knew that I would go to hell if I didnt read the Word every day, then I might do it, but I dont think thats the case.

Do I want to read it more? yes. I kinda dislike it though that God makes it that you need to read His book, in order to be the "best Christian that you can be"

 

[slickdadd]

Man, you are hopeless. Don't ask her why she didn't reply. It's sad you haven't moved on, and when you display to her you haven't moved on, she will be even more freaked out and realize that you in fact are obsessed over her and this situation and think about it non-stop, which you do! You need to find something else to do with your time other than obsess over a girl. It gets you nowhere dude. It's done. Damaged beyond repair. And pretty rightfully so. She did nothing wrong. She doesn't have a duty to reply to your stalker-esque advances via email.

I want to sympathize with you and all but after reading your posts and the way you reacted, I can't. I hope for both yours and her sake, you move on. Nothing good will come of dwelling on it. I promise.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Ya'll just need to stop playa hatin'.

Fyxgel2, play on playa!

 

[big4life]

pfftt.. well thanks for trying to contradict the value I hold in my faith.

Look, The Word is a pain in the butt to study, and it takes willpower to do it that I dont have. If I knew that I would go to hell if I didnt read the Word every day, then I might do it, but I dont think thats the case.

Do I want to read it more? yes. I kinda dislike it though that God makes it that you need to read His book, in order to be the "best Christian that you can be"

I'm not one to jump on anyone's faith or beliefs, but reading the bible will not make you a good Christian. Try being a good person first. Take religion out of the equation and just treat people the way that you wish to be treated. I'm not a religious person, and I couldn't tell you the last time that I read the bible, but I treat people with respect and dignity, and for the most part it is returned. Religion is fine for some people, just not for me. I base my opinion of people on how they treat other people and themselves, not on if they read the bible or attend church.

 

[fyxgel2]

I'm not one to jump on anyone's faith or beliefs, but reading the bible will not make you a good Christian. Try being a good person first. Take religion out of the equation and just treat people the way that you wish to be treated. I'm not a religious person, and I couldn't tell you the last time that I read the bible, but I treat people with respect and dignity, and for the most part it is returned. Religion is fine for some people, just not for me. I base my opinion of people on how they treat other people and themselves, not on if they read the bible or attend church.

I couldnt agree more.

which is why posts like "read more of the Word" piss me off.

 

[Lestat]

personally I think that being at the Christian school is doing you more harm then good.. but we won't get into that.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Although I think you're beating a dead horse here. I had a similiar relationship with a girl that never seemed to have time for me either. We remained friends (and still are 20 yrs later). We discovered about 3 yrs into it that we were both in love with each other but neither of us had any clue the other felt the same.

"Never tell people your troubles. Eighty percent of them don't care and the other 20 are happy you have them."

- that quote is so true.

 

[fyxgel2]

Just like you were nervous to ask her, maybe she's nervous to turn you down so she didn't reply. Nonetheless, you shouldn't ask her why... just move on & ignore it. She'll come around eventually & let you know. Right now she might think you're being a bit too pushy & is afraid to reply.

your right, asking her why she didnt respond would probably make her all the more uncomfortable. I guess I am a man who thinks that some discomfort in social situations can be a good thing, but I think you are right, in this situation it isnt a good thing. Its obvious that I weirded her out a bit, and maybe I would be better off, just acting like those emails never happened. I'll forgive her, and not try to make things too awkward for her in the future.

 

[powerforward]

you need to study to know that profane language and threats towards someone not interested in you, do not fit with God's teachings. And if you don't study the Bible, how do you know what it takes to be a good Christian?

I'm sure this comes off as an attack, but its not. If you claim to be a Christian, it is your responsiblity to carry yourself in a certain manner.

And this is not about being a good person or not, you claimed to be a Christian and even signed your email as such, but a little rejection and you are ready to exact retribution on this girl. Get real.

 

[Lestat]

just pray