The Dairy Queen girl I went crazy for...

[fyxgel2]

fxygel, I strongly recommend a book called how to succeed with women. read it, and one day you too may end up getting a woman that's hot (for her age)

lumberg thanks for the tip. (for her age, lol) Anyways, maybe I will read it but I'm not sure how much it will help me. Is it really that different from any other dating books? I've read one before, and I've read a lot of online stuff.

The thing is that I think I know a lot of info about what to do and what not to do, the problem is that I just dont get out into life and apply it.
I just kinda sit on my butt, and nothing will happen until I get off my ass.

The instance with Linda is a bit extreme. In this case I was being lead by emotion, over reason. I normally am not this stupid, and I know how to interact with girls in a much more positive manner.

But I'll keep the title in mind. Thanks.

 

[GodOfThunder]

Shes not being a wuss bro I just think you freaked her out. What I think you did, man, is you gave too much info too quick. You put all your goods on the table and said "take it or leave it", and she left it. That was ballsy as hell but maybe not the smartest thing to do. Learn from this.

 

[The Red Dragon]

Hmm this is trouble. You gotta change your MO when it comes to girls, this would freak out the majority of girls out there. First of all it shows that you have major insecurity issues, they hate that, its just as good as a KEEP AWAY sign. Second, how can you expect her to answer those questions, anything she can say in response to these questions can be construed as an insult by you. You can't put her on the spot like that.
You should cut your losses man...I think you lost her for good, at least as a potential date. A normal girl would be freaked out by those e-mails, they have a stalkerish undertone to it.
You're getting great advice here, take it. Drop her, learn from your mistakes and try again with what you learned.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Forget about her. And, dont consider it a loss. Consider it a learning experiance. And, do nothing even remotely close to this when trying to date.

Bro, just relax and be more confident in yourself. You are coming off needy, and chick do not like this. Do more things like when you casually talked to that chick at church and left. You set her up perfect. Now, talk to her again. (And, other girls)

Yes, listen to this dude; he knows what he's talkin about. You have to start acting like you could care less what a girl thinks of you, and start acting more confident. If you act this way, you will eventually be this way, and it will show to these girls.

Girls are not there to be your therapist, and to help you figure yourself out and what you're doing wrong with them. They will simply move on to a man who knows what he's doing. So it's something you have to figure out for yourself through experience and then apply what you have learned to these chicks. You'll find out that they will come to you more than you will ever have to chase them, if you're doing it right.

 

[Paulos]

Drunken Weasel Is That You???

 

[GoldenDelicious]

Damn it you are a good looking guy. Take the advice everyone has given you. Quit asking for advice then not following it.

YES

less theory more practice, its a lot of fun, you know

 

[Forge]

I want to be friends with her so I can figure out the secret behind her discipline. So that I can use it to make my own life better.

Dude, she isn't a cracker jack box toy, and she isn't a therapist or good-will worker. Women aren't here on this Earth to give men tips on dating and fucking women, men have to learn that on their own. YOU need to learn that on your own.

You're an idiot when it comes to women, the sooner you accept that the better. Just be yourself and don't go chasing them begging for dating tips, that's just pathetic.

 

[V-Machine]

Holy shit its fatal attraction all over again.

 

[alien amp pharm]

I can't believe you all still think this is a real life person here.

Nobody is this lame. I think this person is sitting behind the computer laughing at you all.

 

[Dougly]

Amazingly crafted nuttier than squirel shit alter.