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No such thing as "the one" or a soul mate. Sorry, I don't buy it.
I believe that one should be "whole" before worrying about selecting a partner....the rest is "dime store paperback BS".
Solid friends...now THAT is hard to find.
I believe that one should be "whole" before worrying about selecting a partner....the rest is "dime store paperback BS".
Solid friends...now THAT is hard to find.
Soul Mate... The One.... Whole Package.....
It is the person that you would dream to life if you could. The person you meet and instantly WHAM!! you know deep inside you love them before you even talk to them or observe them. The one that you polish your heart up to a mirror brightness in hopes of catching all their finger prints on it. The person that shows you just how two individual halves will make a much better whole. The one that sets the standard that no one could ever possibly measure up to.
Yeah, they DO exist too. Those of you who say that they don't just have not met yours yet. And the sad truth is that many people will go through life never meeting theirs. I have met mine, and despite the wicked little handle I go by here, this is The One, Whole Package, Soul Mate that I am going to spend the rest of my life with. No other man could possibly replace this one. Believe me, I know.
It is the person that you would dream to life if you could. The person you meet and instantly WHAM!! you know deep inside you love them before you even talk to them or observe them. The one that you polish your heart up to a mirror brightness in hopes of catching all their finger prints on it. The person that shows you just how two individual halves will make a much better whole. The one that sets the standard that no one could ever possibly measure up to.
Yeah, they DO exist too. Those of you who say that they don't just have not met yours yet. And the sad truth is that many people will go through life never meeting theirs. I have met mine, and despite the wicked little handle I go by here, this is The One, Whole Package, Soul Mate that I am going to spend the rest of my life with. No other man could possibly replace this one. Believe me, I know.
Sorry-no such thing as one SoulMate. It's generally a concept used by people unhappy or growing uneasy with their current relationship as a motivation to move on- "still looking for my soulmate" or by the idealistic who believe that one person can be everything that they need to compensate/compliment whats lacking in their own life. Your soulmate usually ends up being that relationship that grows and strengthens over the years and you end up with a lover who is also your best friend.
Dear all.
I have a soul mate.
we are best friends
we have never argued (5 years now)
we have the best fun TOGETHER
we miss each other all the time
If something goes wrong we turn to each other
We have complete honesty
We have great sex
We have fun sex
we laugh together
I find him totally attractive
He's perfect. We don't want to marry because we feel that that would trivialise the thing we have.
A soul mate isn't your ideal. It's someone who knows all your faults and still doesn't want anyone else but you ever.
I have a soul mate.
we are best friends
we have never argued (5 years now)
we have the best fun TOGETHER
we miss each other all the time
If something goes wrong we turn to each other
We have complete honesty
We have great sex
We have fun sex
we laugh together
I find him totally attractive
He's perfect. We don't want to marry because we feel that that would trivialise the thing we have.
A soul mate isn't your ideal. It's someone who knows all your faults and still doesn't want anyone else but you ever.
Well, as someone who's found ther true soulmate, I can tell you
a couple of things:
1. If it isn't complicated: He/She is probably not your soulmate.
2. She/He doesn't care about your faults/weaknessess.
3. The most important: Would you be willing to die for him/her?
As human beings we have an instinct for survival, but
when you feel that that instinct is being over-shadowed
by love towards a certain him/her, then that him/her
is your soul-mate.
This question is more complicated than it seems. Trust
me I have asked it to myself time and tme again,and the
answer scared me. Its that feeling of vulnerability that
a soul-mate has on you that truly makes him/her
your soul-mate.
It takes a lot of guts to really look into yourself like this,
because sometimes you will not like what you see.
As they say, "The truth hurts".
Godspeed
a couple of things:
1. If it isn't complicated: He/She is probably not your soulmate.
2. She/He doesn't care about your faults/weaknessess.
3. The most important: Would you be willing to die for him/her?
As human beings we have an instinct for survival, but
when you feel that that instinct is being over-shadowed
by love towards a certain him/her, then that him/her
is your soul-mate.
This question is more complicated than it seems. Trust
me I have asked it to myself time and tme again,and the
answer scared me. Its that feeling of vulnerability that
a soul-mate has on you that truly makes him/her
your soul-mate.
It takes a lot of guts to really look into yourself like this,
because sometimes you will not like what you see.
As they say, "The truth hurts".
Godspeed
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