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the break-up

LiquidPhire

LiquidPhire

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fucken shit me and my girlfriend of 10months just broke up , I know it doesnt seem like a long time to most people but this is horrible . I can't fucken eat a spoon of peanut butter without getting sick to my stomach. Got maybe a hour of sleep total last night, Let alone goto the gym! fuck fuck fuck. What can I doooo
 
I was in the same position about a year a half ago man. The best thing is to bang another girl and then only time will take care of the rest.
 
thanks guys, im into week 4 of my cycle and I don't know if I can continue with the intake of food and exercise im really distraught.
 
How old are you bro? Dont trip mang...its just another girl..your not married to her..so it cant be that bad
 
Well surely you cared about her seeings how you went on for 10 months. Being upset is understandable. However, you do have a life to run and manage. I know some of these comments may sound stupid or rude to you, but some are correct.
My best advice is to tough it out some. There are plenty other girls, maybe this one was not the "one" for you. I know it can be hard to lose a loved one but life has to go on. Who knows maybe she will come to her senses and tell you that she wants to be with you, or maybe you will find a new chick. Either way best of luck to you.
Now, my advice to you is to go on with your life. Be strong, and dont let this ruin you or your goals. Being down and not being able to eat,etc will do nothing to change the situation that you are in. Why dont you eat, and then take a nice trip to the gym.
Do some activities that you know will keep you busy, Maybe go out tonight. You never know what may happen. Just hang in there, it will all turn out for the best some how.
 
GOLUAN said:
How old are you bro? Dont trip mang...its just another girl..your not married to her..so it cant be that bad
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It could be worse than a wife. Feelings aren't dictated by legal papers, which is all marraige really is.
 
You could try and win her back, you know. A proposal would probably get her back. There's other ways that might work and if you really know her, then you will find what she needs. You'll have to think straight which can be hard.

It depends what it's worth to you.

Sometimes women can make you feel so bad. You love them and they're just bad for you. In that case you need to get away from her and occupy your time with other things (work, friends, et c).

Being on Test can make things worse for you if you're just wanting her so much.
 
Use this to fuel your fire. everytime i had a break up i wanted to transfor my body(either put on size or cut down) So when she saw me in 2 months they WOULD ALL SAY....wow you look good. Just turn the negative into a positive
 
Liquid2006 said:
fucken shit me and my girlfriend of 10months just broke up , I know it doesnt seem like a long time to most people but this is horrible . I can't fucken eat a spoon of peanut butter without getting sick to my stomach. Got maybe a hour of sleep total last night, Let alone goto the gym! fuck fuck fuck. What can I doooo
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Bro for some guys feeling the way you do is common. Do whatever you have to do to turn those negative feelings into positive actions. This might sound gay, but go out and buy some new clothes, go tanning, head to the gym and rip out a sick workout, hang out with friends and talk with other chicks. Do whatever so build your confidence and pride back up which can get destroyed after a break up.

Shit, your on a cycle right now man, the gym should be a party for you.

Girls that will up and leave you at any time are a dime a dozen and you shouldn't worry if they leave anyway. You'll find another girl and forget all about this currrent one.
 
Make yourself eat and work out. Work out harder then ever. It will distract you from the problem. It will also make you look better.
Time is what it is going to take.
Go to a strip club with your buddies. Seeing other naked chicks will help ease the pain.
 
i really dont know your situation bro,but most of the break ups here are either she found out your on juice or you train to much and you dont give her enough time,like i said i dont know your situation,but do what makes you happy bro ....
 
Thanks alot guys, I just wrote her a page long email explaining to her how I feel , this came all of a sudden she has a eating disorder and I didnt know that I was a big trigger in it so me not knowing makes me feel like shit. And it was all bottled up and she went away and they convinced her to leave me , fucking gay. :< But now I know and I am willing to make the changes needed hopefully shes understanding enough.. Thanks alot guys , yes I do plan on getting out tonight and today with my buddys but its hard.


Thanks for all the support guys,
really. thanks..
 
I have blanket recomendation that I make to any friend in need:

Read "The Art of Happiness". It is a book by his Holiness The Dalai Lama and will help you understand the differences between pleasure and happiness. It teaches that all we need to be happy is our mind. I am not a Buddhist, but the book helps me view other people and thier actions as seperate from my personal happiness. The Dalai Lama was basically a king in Tibet until he and all the Buddhist monks were outcast to India. He was able to maintain happiness in light of loosing what all else would consider everything.

Not trying to make light at all of your situation. We all experience emotional pain and I am sorry for yours. Take all these positive statements from this board, realize you have friends thinking about your struggle (some whom you have never met face-to-face), and most importantly loose yourself in someone elses problems. You can think of countless people that have it worse than you - reach out to one of them - then get your ass back into the gym pronto - don't self destruct.

And if none of that works I am guessing the New Poon idea is pretty solid . . . . lol
 
It's horrible to go through, I've been there but must say that in the 12 weeks following my break up I lived in the gym and absolutely smashed my PB lifts by the 3rd month. My aggression when lifting was unbelievable and I wasn't on cycle just completely redirected the emotional energy.
 
turn the switch on in your head... everytime you think about it, head to the weight room, do some push-ups or something, best workout of your life is what you will get, just take all the agression and anger out on the weights...
 
Absolutely under no circumstances call her. I know that is much harder to do than to say but trust me on this one. Wait and she will definately come back to talk to youwithin a month. You watch.

Unless you cheated on her a bunch of times then well chalk that up as a lesson. Believe me man time definately heals all wounds. And if you are young trust me you have plenty more chicks and broken hearts to deal with in the future. Drive on like a hero but trust me on the no contact rule I bet you within a week she will be coming by to um?? pick up the panties she forgot, or get a necklace she may have left there at your place. Chicks ALWAYS leave stuff for that reason. I myself pack up all that shit and make them take it ASAP when I see it starting but you can never catch it all. Then when/if they break up I put it all in a box and get it to them inconspicuously and mayve leave a note that does not take down your guard totally but leaves a door open. i.e. "I am sorry it ended like this" Leaves her thinking. Did he say that because he wants me back or did he say that because he is cool with it a nice guy and plans on moving on? Trust me it will kill her not to call but you have to be strong mentally a true test of your inner strength!!! Make it happen bro! And good luck I know how it feels!!
 
Yeah never call her is the best advice i've seen on here they always come back and it is also a good idea to think of all the things she did or said that pissed you off. You then end up hating her instead of missing her and it also makes for some killer workouts.
 
al420 said:
I have blanket recomendation that I make to any friend in need:

Read "The Art of Happiness". It is a book by his Holiness The Dalai Lama and will help you understand the differences between pleasure and happiness. It teaches that all we need to be happy is our mind. I am not a Buddhist, but the book helps me view other people and thier actions as seperate from my personal happiness. The Dalai Lama was basically a king in Tibet until he and all the Buddhist monks were outcast to India. He was able to maintain happiness in light of loosing what all else would consider everything.

Not trying to make light at all of your situation. We all experience emotional pain and I am sorry for yours. Take all these positive statements from this board, realize you have friends thinking about your struggle (some whom you have never met face-to-face), and most importantly loose yourself in someone elses problems. You can think of countless people that have it worse than you - reach out to one of them - then get your ass back into the gym pronto - don't self destruct.

And if none of that works I am guessing the New Poon idea is pretty solid . . . . lol
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Good shit there!! I need to find that book! I have learned that in another way but new approaches and ideas are always cool!!
 
oh, been here done this! All I can say is the aches and pains of a break-up are hard, but it does pass.
RULES to a sucessful healing process: No contact with her, work out, force yourself to eat (though I lost 20 lbs when I was in your shoes, but I was dumb) and let yourself be sad!
Mourning a loss is never a fun thing, but it does pass!
Good luck
 
Vascular Freak said:
Bro for some guys feeling the way you do is common. Do whatever you have to do to turn those negative feelings into positive actions. This might sound gay, but go out and buy some new clothes, go tanning, head to the gym and rip out a sick workout, hang out with friends and talk with other chicks. Do whatever so build your confidence and pride back up which can get destroyed after a break up.

Shit, your on a cycle right now man, the gym should be a party for you.

Girls that will up and leave you at any time are a dime a dozen and you shouldn't worry if they leave anyway. You'll find another girl and forget all about this currrent one.
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This is GREAT advice. Nothing is forever, maybe this break up won't be too. So don't get overwhelmed thinking everything is final and forever. Look at it like VF said, go work on yourself...make her look at you in 2 months and say "sh*t, I never should have let him go." Then you can introduce her to your hotter gf and revel in her being bitter. :)
 
Liquid2006 said:
fucken shit me and my girlfriend of 10months just broke up , I know it doesnt seem like a long time to most people but this is horrible . I can't fucken eat a spoon of peanut butter without getting sick to my stomach. Got maybe a hour of sleep total last night, Let alone goto the gym! fuck fuck fuck. What can I doooo
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man up and get over it...life goes on
 
don't idealize things. Look at what was wrong and focus on that insead of your loss.

Look forward to good things you have going on, the cycle, the gym, your friends.

There is no easy way to get over it, but these small things will help.

Always remember there will always be other women, and you are still the same great person with or without this chick.
 
go find some new pussy bro. Nothing will help you get over a break-up like a new girl.

I suggest the following cycle:

1-8: 5-6 drinks a day, no beer, preferably in the 10-12 drink range
1-8 (weekends and 2 weeknights) go to bars, find sluts and screw the hell out of them. don't look for g.f.'s, just hos you could bang and care less about. If it makes you feel better, throw them out in the morning and be an ahole to them.

By the end of this cycle you should be feeling fine.
 
ryan04 said:
go find some new pussy bro. Nothing will help you get over a break-up like a new girl.

I suggest the following cycle:

1-8: 5-6 drinks a day, no beer, preferably in the 10-12 drink range
1-8 (weekends and 2 weeknights) go to bars, find sluts and screw the hell out of them. don't look for g.f.'s, just hos you could bang and care less about. If it makes you feel better, throw them out in the morning and be an ahole to them.

By the end of this cycle you should be feeling fine.
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lol@1-8 weeks
 
Get some femal companionship...and I dont just mean fuckin......be sure to learn how to deal with the being alone thing...its miserable but healthy to be alone in that situation....and like some have already said....she will most likely cme crawling back.....DO NOT take her back.....It shows that she is influenced by others and thats a recipe for disaster.


Kaz
 
If you suck just ONE cock, I promise you that you will never think about this girl again. Promise.
 
patsfan1379 said:
dude. wtf. WAY over the line.
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but you have to admit it certainly gets him thinking about pussy. which is what he needs to do right now.
 
As others have said - and I don't care how shallow it sounds - go out and get yourself some tang. Even better if it's a fun girl you can hang out with and help take your mind off the ex. But either way - you need to hit that shit.
 
patsfan1379 said:
i dont know - it kind of made me think about some dude suckin cock.
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Ummm... dude? Want to come over and have a beer or two?
 
If you're a pussy do what she does, go out and try to get wild maybe find a rebound girl to fuck, get drunk and eat lots of chocolate.

If you're a man, go on with your life and do what will make you better as a person, use the anger for motivation to find a better girl, form a better life and build a better future. Nothing will beat that especially when she comes running back. Less headache for you if she doesn't, a win win situation.


P.S. Don't forget to wipe your vagina if you go with the first option
 
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