the break-up

[Singleton]

You could try and win her back, you know. A proposal would probably get her back. There's other ways that might work and if you really know her, then you will find what she needs. You'll have to think straight which can be hard.

It depends what it's worth to you.

Sometimes women can make you feel so bad. You love them and they're just bad for you. In that case you need to get away from her and occupy your time with other things (work, friends, et c).

Being on Test can make things worse for you if you're just wanting her so much.

 

[drdug27]

Use this to fuel your fire. everytime i had a break up i wanted to transfor my body(either put on size or cut down) So when she saw me in 2 months they WOULD ALL SAY....wow you look good. Just turn the negative into a positive

 

[Vascular Freak]

fucken shit me and my girlfriend of 10months just broke up , I know it doesnt seem like a long time to most people but this is horrible . I can't fucken eat a spoon of peanut butter without getting sick to my stomach. Got maybe a hour of sleep total last night, Let alone goto the gym! fuck fuck fuck. What can I doooo

Bro for some guys feeling the way you do is common. Do whatever you have to do to turn those negative feelings into positive actions. This might sound gay, but go out and buy some new clothes, go tanning, head to the gym and rip out a sick workout, hang out with friends and talk with other chicks. Do whatever so build your confidence and pride back up which can get destroyed after a break up.

Shit, your on a cycle right now man, the gym should be a party for you.

Girls that will up and leave you at any time are a dime a dozen and you shouldn't worry if they leave anyway. You'll find another girl and forget all about this currrent one.

 

[immortalis]

honestly a lot of good advice in here already.

 

[slat1]

Make yourself eat and work out. Work out harder then ever. It will distract you from the problem. It will also make you look better.
Time is what it is going to take.
Go to a strip club with your buddies. Seeing other naked chicks will help ease the pain.

 

[frankmasterpiece]

i really dont know your situation bro,but most of the break ups here are either she found out your on juice or you train to much and you dont give her enough time,like i said i dont know your situation,but do what makes you happy bro ....

 

[LiquidPhire]

Thanks alot guys, I just wrote her a page long email explaining to her how I feel , this came all of a sudden she has a eating disorder and I didnt know that I was a big trigger in it so me not knowing makes me feel like shit. And it was all bottled up and she went away and they convinced her to leave me , fucking gay. :< But now I know and I am willing to make the changes needed hopefully shes understanding enough.. Thanks alot guys , yes I do plan on getting out tonight and today with my buddys but its hard.


Thanks for all the support guys,
really. thanks..

 

[slimsc]

Hey Bro,
Thats what i am talking about!!!

Sssc​

go get some new poon asap..pay for it if you have to.. its the best thing really

 

[kbrkbr]

Where's a mod when you need one?

Take this shit to a chat room.

 

[al420]

I have blanket recomendation that I make to any friend in need:

Read "The Art of Happiness". It is a book by his Holiness The Dalai Lama and will help you understand the differences between pleasure and happiness. It teaches that all we need to be happy is our mind. I am not a Buddhist, but the book helps me view other people and thier actions as seperate from my personal happiness. The Dalai Lama was basically a king in Tibet until he and all the Buddhist monks were outcast to India. He was able to maintain happiness in light of loosing what all else would consider everything.

Not trying to make light at all of your situation. We all experience emotional pain and I am sorry for yours. Take all these positive statements from this board, realize you have friends thinking about your struggle (some whom you have never met face-to-face), and most importantly loose yourself in someone elses problems. You can think of countless people that have it worse than you - reach out to one of them - then get your ass back into the gym pronto - don't self destruct.

And if none of that works I am guessing the New Poon idea is pretty solid . . . . lol