HS - you said you were leaning toward sexual assault -- legally speaking you could probably be right. However to defend that in court could really be a challenge. Practically speaking, there were many points where this situation just simply would never have come up given the application of forethought and common sense. But then I think honestly we've all probably either been in that situation or pretty damn close to it at least once in our lives. Yes, the guy needs to keep himself in check, but its done and overwith - what can she do now? Either talk to someone about how to pursue a successful prosecution, or just deal with it - in both cases, I recommend talking to someone about how to deal with it personally.