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jd_uk

jd_uk

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I posted this on a female forum (dont ask why!) but wanted to get some advice on it here from some 'good bros'. How would you handle this situation. I've been sitting in work (thankfully I still have a job today!) running it over in my head feeling quite violent to put it mildly. Anyway here's the post:


"Has someone ever said something to you that REALLY riled you up? They say words can't hurt, and too me they don't really but they can make me damn angry.

Case in point...

My gf has been very ill for 6 months (i'm talking sickness every single day, passing out, hospital tests/scans, not able to eat anything etc). As a result she's been VERY down and only this morning I had to get her out of bed, cheer her up to stop the tears, tell her how awesome she was and nice she looked etc etc. The stress to her body has been taking its toll, she's been gaining a bit of weight (although not as much as we worried would happen).

Anyway, I finally got through to her and we were having a great day despite her being in pain. That was until we walked down a little side street in town where a drunk couple were drinking. The 'lady' shouts out

'Oh, how come you're so skinny and she's so f'n fat?'

I'm not a violent person but you can imagine how I may have felt.

My gf has had issues with her weight (and therefore insecurity) for a while because of bad health and a year ago when she had plucked up the courage to go running a group of girls shouted out 'look at the f*t b*tch go". If I ever think of that time I get so annoyed I feel like I could kill someone.

Anyway this time I lost it. I genuinely wanted to kill this person. I did however end up just walking away after asking her to 'kindly' repeat what she'd said again...to which she drunkenly laughed (while not being able to look me in the eye). Despite calling her and her partner a bunch of "dull drunk c*nts' who weren't worth the effort I felt slightly ashamed of myself for not actually doing more. I know it's not clever and I know it doesn't help anyone but I know how it affects my gf (who has been suicidal before). If I hadn't walked away I'd be in a cell now because after I'd left I couldn't stop imagining smashing her glass and 'using it'. Which in a free world I would have absolutely no problem with doing. As bad as that sounds.

Sorry for the rant. I just hate people."
 
she doesn't look that fat in your profile pic dude, they were probably trying to pick a fight.
 
You did the right thing. You can hold your head high, as for your GF im sorry to hear that. I have a good friend whos wife has Lupis, sounds very much like what your girlfriend has. But im no doctor thats for sure.
 
the angrier you get, the worse it's gonna make your gf feel. because she's going to think that you think it's true. but if you just look at your girlfriend, laugh, and give her a 'wtf ever :confused: :D' look, she is going to feel a lot better about the sitch. just something to think about. hope she feels better soon man :)
 
im a walking time bomb, dont piss me off.

otherwise im quite pleasant!

if my chick was fat id be fucking mad. maybe shes faking her illness for the support u give her?

anyway, i would have yelled in the drunk cunts face and scared her so bad and followed her around and harrased her calling her every name in the book to the point where shed break down crying and have to threaten to call the cops to get me to leave her alone. but thats just me...
 
Sub-Zero said:
im a walking time bomb, dont piss me off.

otherwise im quite pleasant!

if my chick was fat id be fucking mad. maybe shes faking her illness for the support u give her?

anyway, i would have yelled in the drunk cunts face and scared her so bad and followed her around and harrased her calling her every name in the book to the point where shed break down crying and have to threaten to call the cops to get me to leave her alone. but thats just me...
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I've always thought that you're a douchebag - now I think you're a bigger douchebag.

Props a to a guy that sticks by his woman through months of sickness - and who may not look like the "ideal" woman to some of us here.

It's nice to hear about a guy that deeply loves his woman.
 
Rachel...lol said:
I've always thought that you're a douchebag - now I think you're a bigger douchebag.

Props a to a guy that sticks by his woman through months of sickness - and who may not look like the "ideal" woman to some of us here.

It's nice to hear about a guy that deeply loves his woman.
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too bad youl never get that, because your even more of a douchebag than me, with even less to offer.
 
so what was the turning point - what did I do to make you dislike me so much? we werea talking in chat a few weeks ago nicely - I'm not getting it.
 
Rachel...lol said:
so what was the turning point - what did I do to make you dislike me so much? we werea talking in chat a few weeks ago nicely - I'm not getting it.
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Rachel...lol said:
I've always thought that you're a douchebag - now I think you're a bigger douchebag.
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also in some other thread you were bein a little bitchy and when i joked back you put me on your shitlist.

so does this mean you want to erase my name from said list?
 
ceo said:
aw, kids. play nice. :) Subs would still knock the bottom out of rachel.
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i was saying i would in plat chat and cw and princessa were urging me to not stoop to that level,

then rachel comes in and goes

"i normally dont read chat history, not sure what i ever did to make u hate me princessa" and left crying

it was hilarious
 
Nimbus has a very good point. I'm sorry your gf is going through this and I think it's great that you're being so supportive. It's got to be taxing for you as well as her. I know it's got to be maddening to hear people be so rude, but just remember, if they're saying some shit like that, they're projecting and basically saying it to themself. Especially if it's coming from some drunk in the middle of the day. WTF are they doing in life that makes them think they can talk down to anyone?
 
grubd said:
she doesn't look that fat in your profile pic dude, they were probably trying to pick a fight.
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Forgot that pic was on there. That was taken a few years back, she's probably about 20-30lbs overweight I'd say and has gained all of that since being ill.

Subzero, I've been with this girl for over 5 years - You don't go through what she has been throug to 'keep someone'.

Thanks everyone else for the reassurance that I supposedly did the right thing. I'm just so wound up I feel I could kill someone if I think of it.
 
jd_uk said:
Forgot that pic was on there. That was taken a few years back, she's probably about 20-30lbs overweight I'd say and has gained all of that since being ill.

Subzero, I've been with this girl for over 5 years - You don't go through what she has been throug to 'keep someone'.

Thanks everyone else for the reassurance that I supposedly did the right thing. I'm just so wound up I feel I could kill someone if I think of it.
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Just keep showing your woman how much you love her. Don't worry about what other people say or think, it only matters what you think.

You sound a lot like me. In certain situations I don't always know how to react, especially when it comes to violence. After the fact you want to kill them because you never got to let that aggression out, but you also didn't reap the repercussions of your actions, which is good.

As dumb as it sounds, video games are a great destressor for me after work, a bad day, whatever. Get online, kill a few people and call it a night. I think its better playing against other people because its another human that you beat, outsmart, whatever, and makes you feel better about yourself.

I'm a pretty simple dude, it doesn't take much to make me happy.
 
The definition of a loser is someone that tears down another person in order to feel better about them self. I wouldn't worry about it bor.
 
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