Sometimes I'm glad I dont have kids

[abolish the weak]

I had to go to Walmart tonight because Sams club was closed. I'm standing in line, and there is this chick trying to dig through her purse, and her kid is screaming in her ear. Little fat fucker too, just a spoiled rotten looking kid, fat with pigtails, who acted like she has been given anything she's cried for. So anyways, this kid swats her mom!!! Just takes her arm and smacks her mom in the face. I was like Oh hell no, I would not have even made it out the door. Would have been automatic ass beating on the spot. Fuck, if I ever have any kids they'll either be WELL BEHAVED, or I'll be in jail

 

[silverstar1025]

Obviously that Mom is not disciplining that child well at home. My kids don't throw tantrums when I don't buy them something. They know that no means no.

 

[abolish the weak]

Obviously that Mom is not disciplining that child well at home. My kids don't throw tantrums when I don't buy them something. They know that no means no.

nah, they dont discipline them, because they dont care about them. When you have 10 of them, w/ 8 different baby daddy's what do you care if 9 of them end up in jail?

 

[curvymommy]

If you had kids and you were raising them right there would never be a need for a scene like that to unfold.

Disgraceful and disgusting for a child to be in an ego battle with a parent.

My kid HAS thrown a fit in a store before though. That called for immediate abandonment of a fully loaded cart, I smiled at everyone as I left and called out, "Excuse me folks while I go raise my child!" Everyone laughed and I went to my vehicle and disciplined my child capitalizing on a teachable moment of what to never do again

Guess what? No more fits in the store! Parenting is hard work. Period.

 

[silverstar1025]

If you had kids and you were raising them right there would never be a need for a scene like that to unfold.

Disgraceful and disgusting for a child to be in an ego battle with a parent.

My kid HAS thrown a fit in a store before though. That called for immediate abandonment of a fully loaded cart, I smiled at everyone as I left and called out, "Excuse me folks while I go raise my child!" Everyone laughed and I went to my vehicle and disciplined my child capitalizing on a teachable moment of what to never do again

Guess what? No more fits in the store! Parenting is hard work. Period.

lol!! I you. So funny!!

 

[all the whey]

If you had kids and you were raising them right there would never be a need for a scene like that to unfold.

Disgraceful and disgusting for a child to be in an ego battle with a parent.

My kid HAS thrown a fit in a store before though. That called for immediate abandonment of a fully loaded cart, I smiled at everyone as I left and called out, "Excuse me folks while I go raise my child!" Everyone laughed and I went to my vehicle and disciplined my child capitalizing on a teachable moment of what to never do again

Guess what? No more fits in the store! Parenting is hard work. Period.

You and silver are good mommys

 

[silverstar1025]

You and silver are good mommys

See there are some good women in this world. Sorry I don't have a sister, but I have a friend named Crystal

 

[curvymommy]

You and silver are good mommys

I have a can of whoop-ass to unleash on unruly kids...tempered with a TON of love.

I don't spank my kids very much. I will do it though. NEVER with my hands. Hands are for loving, the spanking spoon is for disciplining and it rarely comes out. All we have to do it nod towards it and they straighten the heck up ASAP.

 

[curvymommy]

See there are some good women in this world. Sorry I don't have a sister, but I have a friend named Crystal

there are a few good ones left.

 

[silverstar1025]

I have a can of whoop-ass to unleash on unruly kids...tempered with a TON of love.

I don't spank my kids very much. I will do it though. NEVER with my hands. Hands are for loving, the spanking spoon is for disciplining and it rarely comes out. All we have to do it nod towards it and they straighten the heck up ASAP.

You are so cute! I have used my hand though, but it only took a couple times with my kids. Now all I have to do is say Mommy will spank you and they act right real quick. I remember the first I had to spank I cried too. I am glad I don't have to anymore it is heart breaking, but it was necessary.

 

[all the whey]

See there are some good women in this world. Sorry I don't have a sister, but I have a friend named Crystal

Yeah it is too bad you and curvymom don't have sisters.

Then, I could "date" both your sisters and crystal to see which one I would marry.

But, I have a feeling it wouldn't work out with any of them and I would have to stay happy. oops I mean I would have to stay single.

 

[all the whey]

You are so cute! I have used my hand though, but it only took a couple times with my kids. Now all I have to do is say Mommy will spank you and they act right real quick. I remember the first I had to spank I cried too. I am glad I don't have to anymore it is heart breaking, but it was necessary.

I am sure DH and the Latin Lover spanks you and curvymom

 

[silverstar1025]

Yeah it is too bad you and curvymom don't have sisters.

Then, I could "date" both your sisters and crystal to see which one I would marry.

But, I have a feeling it wouldn't work out with any of them and I would have to stay happy. oops I mean I would have to stay single.

Serious question... you not trusting women and not wanting to marry and all that. I know now being single and happy is cool and all, but what about when you are old? Do you think you may be old and lonely with no wife or kids? I always think about old people that have nobody and it makes me sad for them. I could not imagine not having a family. I guess you can always have your old poker playing buddies then to keep you company.

 

[GUARDIAN]

Obviously that Mom is not disciplining that child well at home. My kids don't throw tantrums when I don't buy them something. They know that no means no.

they just steal $20 instead....lol

 

[curvymommy]

Yeah it is too bad you and curvymom don't have sisters.

Then, I could "date" both your sisters and crystal to see which one I would marry.

But, I have a feeling it wouldn't work out with any of them and I would have to stay happy. oops I mean I would have to stay single.

I DO have a sister but she only likes girls.

 

[curvymommy]

I am sure DH and the Latin Lover spanks you and curvymom

Yeah...I' gonna get it tonight. He already told me.

 

[puddlemonkey]

They know that no means no.

Same go for hubby?

 

[silverstar1025]

they just steal $20 instead....lol

lol well she doesn't understand the value of money yet she is too young. Besides she has been collecting change and dollars to put in her little purse because she said she wants to save to buy mommy a bday gift

 

[curvymommy]

Serious question... you not trusting women and not wanting to marry and all that. I know now being single and happy is cool and all, but what about when you are old? Do you think you may be old and lonely with no wife or kids? I always think about old people that have nobody and it makes me sad for them. I could not imagine not having a family. I guess you can always have your old poker playing buddies then to keep you company.

Or is it blissfully happy to be alone FOREVER?

 

[silverstar1025]

I am sure DH and the Latin Lover spanks you and curvymom

I try to be bad often

 

[curvymommy]

lol well she doesn't understand the value of money yet she is too young. Besides she has been collecting change and dollars to put in her little purse because she said she wants to save to buy mommy a bday gift

very sweet.

 

[all the whey]

Serious question... you not trusting women and not wanting to marry and all that. I know now being single and happy is cool and all, but what about when you are old? Do you think you may be old and lonely with no wife or kids? I always think about old people that have nobody and it makes me sad for them. I could not imagine not having a family. I guess you can always have your old poker playing buddies then to keep you company.

I would like to have kids or even adopt. But, not if I don't get married.

I know a lot of older guys that wish they were lonely.

I have family and friends.

A lot of people say "you won't have anyone to take care of you when your old" First, that is a terrible reason to marry. Second, I have seen to many women AND MEN ditch their SO when they got sick. Third, if I never marry I will have money to have the absolute best care.

 

[silverstar1025]

Same go for hubby?

Not always sometimes I just need convincing. lol

 

[all the whey]

Same go for hubby?

My Pud Bud can hang out with me if we don't get married!

 

[puddlemonkey]

My Pud Bud can hang out with me if we don't get married!

Thats right, we'll never be bored!

 

[all the whey]

Thats right, we'll never be bored!

If we get bored.

We can always talk about how evil, selfish, crazy, etc women are!

 

[silverstar1025]

I would like to have kids or even adopt. But, not if I don't get married.

I know a lot of older guys that wish they were lonely.

I have family and friends.

A lot of people say "you won't have anyone to take care of you when your old" First, that is a terrible reason to marry. Second, I have seen to many women AND MEN ditch their SO when they got sick. Third, if I never marry I will have money to have the absolute best care.

I am surprised you want kids, but you would be a good fun Dad I am sure.

 

[all the whey]

I am surprised you want kids, but you would be a good fun Dad I am sure.

Kids love me. (women who want to breed hate me)

But, I have friends who have kids that I spend time with. We have a great time.

I don't have to discipline them or pay for them.lol

 

[puddlemonkey]

Not always sometimes I just need convincing. lol

Elbow to the throat?

 

[puddlemonkey]

If we get bored.

We can always talk about how evil, selfish, crazy, etc women are!

That subject alone can kill a good 8-10 hours a day.

 

[silverstar1025]

Elbow to the throat?

No I get something that pleases me in return usually.

 

[silverstar1025]

Kids love me. (women who want to breed hate me)

But, I have friends who have kids that I spend time with. We have a great time.

I don't have to discipline them or pay for them.lol

Hey you have it made then. All fun stuff I miss small babies, but will just enjoy friends kids. Don't want all the work of a new one now.

 

[puddlemonkey]

No I get something that pleases me in return usually.

$







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[silverstar1025]

$







.

$/humps/whatever I scratch his back and he scratches mine. We are both giving.

 

[all the whey]

That subject alone can kill a good 8-10 hours a day.

It's fun to.

Especially, when someone is telling you they are getting married and this girl is DIFFERENT!!!!!!!!!! loollo

 

[puddlemonkey]

lol so true

 

[GUARDIAN]

then that is ok.....lol

lol well she doesn't understand the value of money yet she is too young. Besides she has been collecting change and dollars to put in her little purse because she said she wants to save to buy mommy a bday gift

 

[Smurfy]

great thread.

 

[needtogetaas]

I had to go to Walmart tonight because Sams club was closed. I'm standing in line, and there is this chick trying to dig through her purse, and her kid is screaming in her ear. Little fat fucker too, just a spoiled rotten looking kid, fat with pigtails, who acted like she has been given anything she's cried for. So anyways, this kid swats her mom!!! Just takes her arm and smacks her mom in the face. I was like Oh hell no, I would not have even made it out the door. Would have been automatic ass beating on the spot. Fuck, if I ever have any kids they'll either be WELL BEHAVED, or I'll be in jail

I have walked up to people like that more then a few times and said. "do you need me to beat the shit out of your kid for you. Because the whole store is sick
of there shit" You should se the looks I get but I love doing it. Most of the time they just drop all there shit and storm out of the store. I had a few people start clapping once when a lady left. I bet she felt like an asshole.

 

[Smurfy]

I have walked up to people like that more then a few times and said. "do you need me to beat the shit out of your kid for you. Because the whole store is sick
of there shit" You should se the looks I get but I love doing it. Most of the time they just drop all there shit and storm out of the store. I had a few people start clapping once when a lady left. I bet she felt like an asshole.

If i was at a store and I observed you do something like that, Id think you were just as much an asshole as the parent.

 

[needtogetaas]

If i was at a store and I observed you do something like that, Id think you were just as much an asshole as the parent.

Thats great. In the 3 years that I have been here have you ever known me to care if others don't like what I say? Ya I am the same way in real life. If your kid is a spoiled peace of shit and he is bothering me. I will say it and make sure I do something to bother you. If your kid can piss me off then I have a right(no an obligation) to do something to piss you off.


You know what would really throw me off though. If some one turned around and said yes. Yes I need you to beat my kid for me. Can you do that right now lololol. Then wtf do I do.

 

[needtogetaas]

If i was at a store and I observed you do something like that, Id think you were just as much an asshole as the parent.

I bet you right to dear abby every week.

 

[all the whey]

Thats great. In the 3 years that I have been here have you ever known me to care if others don't like what I say? Ya I am the same way in real life. If your kid is a spoiled peace of shit and he is bothering me. I will say it and make sure I do something to bother you. If your kid can piss me off then I have a right(no an obligation) to do something to piss you off.


You know what would really throw me off though. If some one turned around and said yes. Yes I need you to beat my kid for me. Can you do that right now lololol. Then wtf do I do.

Seriously, what would smurfy's kid do to ever piss someone off??????

 

[needtogetaas]

Seriously, what would smurfy's kid do to ever piss someone off??????

You know I have a feeling he don't cry and scream in stores. He just don't look like the type, and she don't look like the type to let it happen. I could be wrong though.

 

[Smurfy]

Thats great. In the 3 years that I have been here have you ever known me to care if others don't like what I say? Ya I am the same way in real life. If your kid is a spoiled peace of shit and he is bothering me. I will say it and make sure I do something to bother you. If your kid can piss me off then I have a right(no an obligation) to do something to piss you off.


You know what would really throw me off though. If some one turned around and said yes. Yes I need you to beat my kid for me. Can you do that right now lololol. Then wtf do I do.

lol well i doubt that would happen.

yeah i get what you're saying, as well as your motivation behind it, i'm just telling you if i saw someone say something like that, Id think they were just as much an asshole. that's all.

 

[Smurfy]

I bet you right to dear abby every week.

never have. i dont even read that shit.

dont be mad at my post. Im merely expressing how I would feel if i were to observe something like that

 

[needtogetaas]

lol well i doubt that would happen.

yeah i get what you're saying, as well as your motivation behind it, i'm just telling you if i saw someone say something like that, Id think they were just as much an asshole. that's all.

Well its not the nice thing to do.

 

[Smurfy]

You know I have a feeling he don't cry and scream in stores. He just don't look like the type, and she don't look like the type to let it happen. I could be wrong though.

hell no he doesnt scream and cry in a store. he's 9 yrs old.
when he was an infant, however, he had colic and it only took one trip to the store where he screamed the entire time, for me to know not to ever take him to the store. and i didnt. he didnt go with me to the store until he was nearly 3 yrs old because of that. i also never took him out to a restaurant to eat until after he turned 3 because my ex and I took him one time at 1.5 yrs old and he was so hard to handle, we left before our food arrived.

 

[all the whey]

lol well i doubt that would happen.

yeah i get what you're saying, as well as your motivation behind it, i'm just telling you if i saw someone say something like that, Id think they were just as much an asshole. that's all.

Don't be mad at needto. He has anger issues from stuff I did to him when he was young.

 

[needtogetaas]

hell no he doesnt scream and cry in a store. he's 9 yrs old.
when he was an infant, however, he had colic and it only took one trip to the store where he screamed the entire time, for me to know not to ever take him to the store. and i didnt. he didnt go with me to the store until he was nearly 3 yrs old because of that. i also never took him out to a restaurant to eat until after he turned 3 because my ex and I took him one time at 1.5 yrs old and he was so hard to handle, we left before our food arrived.

See Smart women.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I have a can of whoop-ass to unleash on unruly kids...tempered with a TON of love.

I don't spank my kids very much. I will do it though. NEVER with my hands. Hands are for loving, the spanking spoon is for disciplining and it rarely comes out. All we have to do it nod towards it and they straighten the heck up ASAP.

CM - I am 100% with you, however, did you know that in the state of NJ if you discipline your child with ANYTHING OTHER THAN YOUR HAND that is considered "abuse" and is grounds to have your children taken from you pending an investigation?

Fucked up state, that NJ...

 

[javaguru]

Or is it blissfully happy to be alone FOREVER?

Single/alone doesn't mean lonely, I have friends and family and someone doesn't have to be married to be in a long term relationship. A lot of geigh peeps in long term relationships. IMO, not being married ensures people don't take one another for granted.

PS Not to piss on your parade but as a wiminz you're most likely going to end up alone and a widow in your late years when you want someone to take care of you.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Obviously that Mom is not disciplining that child well at home. My kids don't throw tantrums when I don't buy them something. They know that no means no.

You can't discipline kids anymore without a lawsuit following close behind. Well, there are less physical ways of disciplining them but few parents have the knowhow.

 

[ceo]

I would like to have kids or even adopt. But, not if I don't get married.

I know a lot of older guys that wish they were lonely.

I have family and friends.

A lot of people say "you won't have anyone to take care of you when your old" First, that is a terrible reason to marry. Second, I have seen to many women AND MEN ditch their SO when they got sick. Third, if I never marry I will have money to have the absolute best care.

Bro, if you EVER committ...go with a foreign model!!!!!!!!!!!@

 

[Bikini Mod]

You can't discipline kids anymore without a lawsuit following close behind. Well, there are less physical ways of disciplining them but few parents have the knowhow.

I can count on one hand how many times I have physically disciplined all four of my children combined... yet they were taken away from me "the last time" because I took a belt to my oldest daughter's ass when she left me no choice. She had actually been told to act out by her father on my time. I had been to the school several times asking for help so my oldest child was a known discpline problem.

One night in JAN 06 she made me come looking for her when she decided she would simply not come to my home after school on my time. Her sisters gave up that she had been doing this on her father's time for quite some time.

Long story short, after a long car ride home (so I could calm down) and lengthy discussion as to what was wrong with her behavior I made her drop her jeans and gave her four controlled shots to the rear end. I even took her voluntarily to the pediatrician THE NEXT MORNING and told the doc what I did and made her show her rear end to the doc (who had known me and my family for bout 13 years). If he even suspected abuse he was legally obligated to report me. Of course, that was not the case.

5 months later when my custodial arrangement with my ex was up for review and HE KNEW I was going to get more time with my kids he submitted doctored photos and hand-written notes by my oldest about how I was abusing her.

That was 1 MAY 2006... I was "temporarily stripped" of legal and physical custody of all four of my girls pending a DYFS investigation, an investigation that DYFS refused to conduct as "they were not the ones who took my kids." That "temporary" is still going on today nearly TWO YEARS LATER. That's right, I have NO RIGHTS to my own children. No access to school records, doctor's visits, NO SAY WHATSOEVER IN ANY PART OF THEIR LIVES.

Since then my oldest daughter has been allowed to run the streets (with whatever male gives her enough time to get her to lay down - SINCE THE AGE OF 13) like a wild child and the younger three pretty much come and go as they please with no parental supervision. They all went from straight A to failing. The older two smoke cigarettes, pot and drink to the point of sickness every chance they get.

... so for those of you who think that it can't happen to you - think again.

I was (and still am) and EXEMPLARY MOTHER... never hurt anyone, nor did I break any laws...

It is a sad state of affairs when a parent is afraid to discipline their child (as I had been on many occasions during the course of this nightmarish custody battle) as they are afraid that the child being fought over will "say they want to live with the other parent"... the one that WONT discipline them.

At one point I was advised to pretty much let my kids do whatever the fuck they wanted so as to gain their favor. I was also told of kids who were actually hitting the parents. Those parents were told to keep their mouths shut and "play nice" so as not to lose custody altogether.

I am not EVEN kidding...

Just something to think about the next time you see a parent who won't discipline an unruly child.

 

[curvymommy]

You can't discipline kids anymore without a lawsuit following close behind. Well, there are less physical ways of disciplining them but few parents have the knowhow.

There are many ways of disciplining children. They take a great investment of time. I've got many, many ways of correcting my kiddos and spanking is just ONE arrow in my quiver.

 

[curvymommy]

Whoa! I had no idea Bikinimom. My heart breaks for you and your kids. I'm so, so sorry

I can count on one hand how many times I have physically disciplined all four of my children combined... yet they were taken away from me "the last time" because I took a belt to my oldest daughter's ass when she left me no choice. She had actually been told to act out by her father on my time. I had been to the school several times asking for help so my oldest child was a known discpline problem.

One night in JAN 06 she made me come looking for her when she decided she would simply not come to my home after school on my time. Her sisters gave up that she had been doing this on her father's time for quite some time.

Long story short, after a long car ride home (so I could calm down) and lengthy discussion as to what was wrong with her behavior I made her drop her jeans and gave her four controlled shots to the rear end. I even took her voluntarily to the pediatrician THE NEXT MORNING and told the doc what I did and made her show her rear end to the doc (who had known me and my family for bout 13 years). If he even suspected abuse he was legally obligated to report me. Of course, that was not the case.

5 months later when my custodial arrangement with my ex was up for review and HE KNEW I was going to get more time with my kids he submitted doctored photos and hand-written notes by my oldest about how I was abusing her.

That was 1 MAY 2006... I was "temporarily stripped" of legal and physical custody of all four of my girls pending a DYFS investigation, an investigation that DYFS refused to conduct as "they were not the ones who took my kids." That "temporary" is still going on today nearly TWO YEARS LATER. That's right, I have NO RIGHTS to my own children. No access to school records, doctor's visits, NO SAY WHATSOEVER IN ANY PART OF THEIR LIVES.

Since then my oldest daughter has been allowed to run the streets (with whatever male gives her enough time to get her to lay down - SINCE THE AGE OF 13) like a wild child and the younger three pretty much come and go as they please with no parental supervision. They all went from straight A to failing. The older two smoke cigarettes, pot and drink to the point of sickness every chance they get.

... so for those of you who think that it can't happen to you - think again.

I was (and still am) and EXEMPLARY MOTHER... never hurt anyone, nor did I break any laws...

It is a sad state of affairs when a parent is afraid to discipline their child (as I had been on many occasions during the course of this nightmarish custody battle) as they are afraid that the child being fought over will "say they want to live with the other parent"... the one that WONT discipline them.

At one point I was advised to pretty much let my kids do whatever the fuck they wanted so as to gain their favor. I was also told of kids who were actually hitting the parents. Those parents were told to keep their mouths shut and "play nice" so as not to lose custody altogether.

I am not EVEN kidding...

Just something to think about the next time you see a parent who won't discipline an unruly child.

 

[curvymommy]

Single/alone doesn't mean lonely, I have friends and family and someone doesn't have to be married to be in a long term relationship. A lot of geigh peeps in long term relationships. IMO, not being married ensures people don't take one another for granted.

PS Not to piss on your parade but as a wiminz you're most likely going to end up alone and a widow in your late years when you want someone to take care of you.

Java, why would that piss me off? I practically grew up in nursing homes and helping to care for the elderly. I know what I'm in for. It's the cycle of life and I'm not trippin' about anything.

 

[javaguru]

Java, why would that piss me off? I practically grew up in nursing homes and helping to care for the elderly. I know what I'm in for. It's the cycle of life and I'm not trippin' about anything.

Technically, I was pissing on the idea of having someone that loves you taking care of you in old age, not pissing you off directly.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Single/alone doesn't mean lonely, I have friends and family and someone doesn't have to be married to be in a long term relationship. A lot of geigh peeps in long term relationships. IMO, not being married ensures people don't take one another for granted.

PS Not to piss on your parade but as a wiminz you're most likely going to end up alone and a widow in your late years when you want someone to take care of you.

It's wiminz' penance for all the shit they put their man through over the years lol.

 

[curvymommy]

Technically, I was pissing on the idea of having someone that loves you taking care of you in old age, not pissing you off directly.

LoL...thank you for not technically pissing in my direction. I appreciate it.

You're not a warm fuzzzy guy but there's something I like anyway

You are very direct and a careful pisser too. kthxgbye

 

[curvymommy]

It's wiminz' penance for all the shit they put their man through over the years lol.

If there really are paybacks in the universe, I will be very well taken care of. Oh wait...I already am. It's a two way street.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

I can count on one hand how many times I have physically disciplined all four of my children combined... yet they were taken away from me "the last time" because I took a belt to my oldest daughter's ass when she left me no choice. She had actually been told to act out by her father on my time. I had been to the school several times asking for help so my oldest child was a known discpline problem.

One night in JAN 06 she made me come looking for her when she decided she would simply not come to my home after school on my time. Her sisters gave up that she had been doing this on her father's time for quite some time.

Long story short, after a long car ride home (so I could calm down) and lengthy discussion as to what was wrong with her behavior I made her drop her jeans and gave her four controlled shots to the rear end. I even took her voluntarily to the pediatrician THE NEXT MORNING and told the doc what I did and made her show her rear end to the doc (who had known me and my family for bout 13 years). If he even suspected abuse he was legally obligated to report me. Of course, that was not the case.

5 months later when my custodial arrangement with my ex was up for review and HE KNEW I was going to get more time with my kids he submitted doctored photos and hand-written notes by my oldest about how I was abusing her.

That was 1 MAY 2006... I was "temporarily stripped" of legal and physical custody of all four of my girls pending a DYFS investigation, an investigation that DYFS refused to conduct as "they were not the ones who took my kids." That "temporary" is still going on today nearly TWO YEARS LATER. That's right, I have NO RIGHTS to my own children. No access to school records, doctor's visits, NO SAY WHATSOEVER IN ANY PART OF THEIR LIVES.

Since then my oldest daughter has been allowed to run the streets (with whatever male gives her enough time to get her to lay down - SINCE THE AGE OF 13) like a wild child and the younger three pretty much come and go as they please with no parental supervision. They all went from straight A to failing. The older two smoke cigarettes, pot and drink to the point of sickness every chance they get.

... so for those of you who think that it can't happen to you - think again.

I was (and still am) and EXEMPLARY MOTHER... never hurt anyone, nor did I break any laws...

It is a sad state of affairs when a parent is afraid to discipline their child (as I had been on many occasions during the course of this nightmarish custody battle) as they are afraid that the child being fought over will "say they want to live with the other parent"... the one that WONT discipline them.

At one point I was advised to pretty much let my kids do whatever the fuck they wanted so as to gain their favor. I was also told of kids who were actually hitting the parents. Those parents were told to keep their mouths shut and "play nice" so as not to lose custody altogether.

I am not EVEN kidding...

Just something to think about the next time you see a parent who won't discipline an unruly child.

And people still don't understand that our society is collapsing. Look at the foundation. Examples like yours are pretty much the norm now. Well, are at least much more common.

Also, why can't the authorities put 1 and 1 together by seeing how fucked up the kids are getting and that the one they gave custody to has everything to do with it? They probably think you're doing it through esp or something hey.

 

[velvett]

I had to go to Walmart tonight because Sams club was closed. I'm standing in line, and there is this chick trying to dig through her purse, and her kid is screaming in her ear. Little fat fucker too, just a spoiled rotten looking kid, fat with pigtails, who acted like she has been given anything she's cried for. So anyways, this kid swats her mom!!! Just takes her arm and smacks her mom in the face. I was like Oh hell no, I would not have even made it out the door. Would have been automatic ass beating on the spot. Fuck, if I ever have any kids they'll either be WELL BEHAVED, or I'll be in jail

What did the mother do?

Damn, my mother would have probably dribbled my ass around the store, before making me apologize to everyone in a 5' radius for being disobedient.

 

[Stefka]

Technically, I was pissing on the idea of having someone that loves you taking care of you in old age, not pissing you off directly.

I thought that's what kids are for.

 

[javaguru]

I thought that's what kids are for.

Nah, they just put the parents in nursing homes and visit them on holidays.

 

[Cutiebaby]

I cannot stand shopping and listening to crying brats while their parents just stand there and either smile or try to sweet talk them.. Fuck that, my shopping cart would be left where it is and my kids would be in the car on the way home and not seen for the rest of the day...Bed, is an awesome place!!!!!
My kids know better than to act up in the stores, I don't give a damn who is around..they will not act like little "bastards" out in public.

 

[Bikini Mod]

And people still don't understand that our society is collapsing. Look at the foundation. Examples like yours are pretty much the norm now. Well, are at least much more common.

Also, why can't the authorities put 1 and 1 together by seeing how fucked up the kids are getting and that the one they gave custody to has everything to do with it? They probably think you're doing it through esp or something hey.

LOL (gotta laugh because if i don't I'll cry)... a have a transcript from the last court room sideshow where the attorney we hired to represent my sister (to whom my daughter ran) and my daughter who ran away asks the judge pointblank, "Has there ever been any evidence of wrong-doing on BIKINIMOM's part?" The answer? "No." The attorney asked again and the reply? "No, I just have a feeling."

So ya, you are right.... osmosis, ESP, voodoo, whatever... anything BUT EVIDENCE to base a decision upon.

Luckily that fukkin looney tune judge was NOT reappointed so he ain't no judge n'more... which opens up a whole realm of posibilities...

We are talking federal and supreme court shtuff. If we can we will try to make case law so that other children won't be used and abused like mine have been and so many others before them.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Velvett, Angel, CM... we are ALL on the same page.

My housemanager has an 8 year old little girl who though she is full of life, she is a good girl, respectfull and helpfull. All of us grown-ups guide her accordingly but we point out YOUR MOTHER IS THE BOSS... What she says goes and is NOT negotiable.

 

[the_alcatraz]

Agreed. It's important to emphasize the non-negotiable part.