Something awful happened - advice please.

[Frackal]

Wow this cunt HAS fucked another guy behind his back before? Nice, veggie girl, you are one pathetic fucking moron...with your 'oh why me ill just kill myself' attention whore crap... I'll tell you what, there are only about 3-4 chicks on here that I really respect. I have to say the two biggest disappointments of my growing older has been the selfish way people will hurt each other for personal gain, and the disgusting, sick minds of most women...I truly do not understand it. But I see it everyday so it must be true.

 

[Bikini Mod]

E, I'm not sure if you've read her other threads a few weeks back, but she's actually 'cheated' on him before by fucking another guy, so it's an ongoing thing with her.

I think she just needs time to enjoy the single life and sew her wild oats so to speak for a few years. No point hurting others.

Oh no I have not read the other threads. I didn't realize that she has had sex with other guys in the past. And her boyfriend took her back?

OK, correct me if I am wrong here, but who is the chump?

The ranger kid is getting exactly what he is willing to settle for. Trust me on this one. I KNOW ABOUT SETTLING.

 

[Frackal]

Bikinimom I see your point there, but if this what she calls her boyfriend, and unless he has verbally agreed that it is OK for her to sleep around, then she is a cheating whore as usual.

Dont blame this kid totally ...sometimes you grow to care about someone and want to try with them...its not just a matter of settling...just as you love a child, you dont just say, 'well my kid fucked up, im trading him in becuase I dont settle..' ... if you love a person, the same sort of thing can be true....veggie is an idiot. I cannot tell you how many women ive seen with her warped personality model...

 

[Bikini Mod]

Wow this cunt HAS fucked another guy behind his back before? Nice, veggie girl, you are one pathetic fucking moron...with your 'oh why me ill just kill myself' attention whore crap... I'll tell you what, there are only about 3-4 chicks on here that I really respect. I have to say the two biggest disappointments of my growing older has been the selfish way people will hurt each other for personal gain, and the disgusting, sick minds of most women...I truly do not understand it. But I see it everyday so it must be true.

Frack it isn't all black and white. (Well in this case IT IS.)

But in general, I have been dissed by more than one "nice guy" and I survived. I do not think that all men are dogs. But I do believe that MOST MEN LIE. Women used to say that it was to get into a chick's pants. I say that isn't so.

I believe that a man feeds this whole "I love you" bs to a woman who is not into getting into a real intense relationship because HE DOESN'T WANT HER TO SLEEP WITH OTHER GUYS. As soon as she falls in love with him, HIS TUNE CHANGES. Why? So that he can sleep at night knowing that though he is dissing this girl SHE LOVES HIM (and I am not talking about the way VLChick defines love LOL) so she won't "be" with other guys.

To that I say - a big ole FUCK U. Until I am engaged to be married I will go where I want and do what I want and I WHOLEHEARTEDLY expect him to do the same.

 

[Bikini Mod]

Bikinimom I see your point there, but if this what she calls her boyfriend, and unless he has verbally agreed that it is OK for her to sleep around, then she is a cheating whore as usual.

Dont blame this kid totally ...sometimes you grow to care about someone and want to try with them...its not just a matter of settling...just as you love a child, you dont just say, 'well my kid fucked up, im trading him in becuase I dont settle..' ... if you love a person, the same sort of thing can be true....veggie is an idiot. I cannot tell you how many women ive seen with her warped personality model...

Frack I feel you more than you know, but the bottom line is the relationship that a man and woman share is not the same as the parent/child relationship. Case in point: my divorce. I will not always be my ex's wife (although God knows it SEEMS THAT WAY) but I will be my children's mother until the day I die and even thereafter.

I have been hung out to dry more than once and trust me, it won't happen again. Do I blame the guys totally? NO - I ALLOWED IT TO HAPPEN.

Shit on me once, shame on you.

Shit on me twice, SHAME ON ME.

And yea, from you guys are telling me, this girl is VERY immature and has ZERO idea about love, commitment or marriage.

 

[polarpixie]

That's it?????? I have to totally disagree here. No woman in a committed relationship should allow themselves to be carressed, cuddled, their lips "brushed" or dry fucked. That's all pretty disrespectful.

Exactly. I'm sorry that you are so torn by what happened, I really am, but you SHOULD feel bad because if you didn't think you could refrain yourself from messing around on the "love of your life", you should let him go. Have you ever *truly* been in love? Because when you are truly in love with someone, being with someone else, or even being tempted by anyone else is gonna be the very last thing on your mind.

 

[Citruscide]

I need to make another movie....

C-ditty

 

[Citruscide]

http://mm.dfilm.com/mm2s/mm_route.php?id=629737

This movie should set the records straight...

C-ditty

 

[Bikini Mod]

I swear to God, I wish that you could hear me laughing!

I have tears in my eyes. Thanks C-ditty. I really needed that. You have no idea just how badly I did.

 

[Fonz]

Wow this cunt HAS fucked another guy behind his back before? Nice, veggie girl, you are one pathetic fucking moron...with your 'oh why me ill just kill myself' attention whore crap... I'll tell you what, there are only about 3-4 chicks on here that I really respect. I have to say the two biggest disappointments of my growing older has been the selfish way people will hurt each other for personal gain, and the disgusting, sick minds of most women...I truly do not understand it. But I see it everyday so it must be true.

If she's already had sex with another guy during the relationship then I am with Frackal here.

Its over. period.

And btw, emptying your feelings on the internet for personal redemption won't change the fact that you cheated on him.

Tell him its over and move on. Just hope you haven't scarred the poor guy for life.

Fonz