Somebody shoot me, please

[Big Johnson]

Why can't I get over my worthless, no-good, lying whore of an ex-girlfriend? WHY? I can't even fully enjoy casual sex with her on my mind 24-7. I'm beginning to think I'm a lost cause. Someone, put me out of my misery before I call her or something. Its almost like she is the only chick alive as far as my heart is concerned. I need therapy.

 

[May1010]

It's kind of like trying to weaning yourself off drugs or cigarettes or some other addiction. Tapering down doesn't work. You've got to break it off. Completely.

If you don't, you will not see the other opportunities that may present themselves.

My ex-bf and I broke up well over a year ago. Even though he busted my nose in our final fist fight, I still wanted him back until recently. Moral: It takes time. Hang in there.

Now get out there and bang some tight pussies for May1010!

 

[big dog]

Im going through the same thing bro, just went to the doc today for medication

 

[Big Johnson]

Good advice, May. I nailed a fat girl tonight, but guess who I thought of the whole time? Time...I have already wasted a year and a half on her. I wish there were some other way. I really do have every reason in the world to move on, but for some reason there is a part of me that still wants her as much as ever. Even with all the fucked up, evil shit she's done to me. I wonder how long this will take? I was hoping my anger and hurt would be enough to push me beyond it all, but I was wrong. This sucks. I wish I could rip out my feelings and be done with it.

 

[Big Johnson]

Im going through the same thing bro, just went to the doc today for medication

Maybe that's what I need. At least something to help me sleep.

 

[May1010]

Here's a pic of me and my ex. I'm on the far left. My ex is next to me in the white shirt. He's from Argentina. We were together for a bit over 2 years. He beat the shit out of me and busted my nose because he suspected me of cheating on him.

Like I said, I only recently got over him.


Funny story: After he punched me in the nose for the last time, I was sitting on the floor of our apartment. Blood was pouring out of my nose. I looked up at him and said, "I am SOOOO over you." To this day, I think that's pretty funny.

 

[big dog]

Yeah bro, he prescribed me Celexta(sp) and good ole Xanax. I dont sleep either.

I wanted to start my summer cycle but it looks like Im not in the right state of mind

I may just take 2 cc of Test for 5 weeks because Im starting to lose weight

 

[scotty2hotty]

b.j. (may-that doesnt mean blowjob either)

all i can say is hang in there. go to the doc and get some sleeping med. it helped me. boy do i remember those days.

 

[May1010]

Scotty2hottie:


Rumor has it that you and N-V-R2Big are one and the same!

 

[Big Johnson]

Damn, May. You look like you could take him. Well, we have both had our noses broken by significant others I don't get people who hit the ones they care about. The only time I'll ever hit someone is if I care nothing for them.

Big Dog, this sucks for us. I guess the only thing to do is ride it out and see how it goes. I'm on a cycle right now, but its not helping any. Maybe holding off is a good idea. Good luck to you, bro.

 

[scotty2hotty]

Scotty2hottie:


Rumor has it that you and N-V-R2Big are one and the same!

why, because i agreed with him on the saints post and madbomber got mad. let me guess who started that rumor!

i hardly ever post on here. i hardly have time to. i am entirely too busy to be on this board like some of you although i do enjoy it. i wish i could have a couple of names but i barely have time to have just one.

 

[scotty2hotty]

.......................and the only reason that i replied is because i go to school in new olreans and i also dislike the saints.

 

[May1010]

Damn, May. You look like you could take him

Oh I took him, baby! Several times ... actually, he weighed about 40 pounds more than me. He's 6'2" and 190. He just looks skinny in the pic.


As for physical violence, it's very prevalent in gay relationships. But, I also don't understand why anyone would want to harm someone they care for.

Just remember, you're a man. You can never hit a woman! No matter what she does.

Just move on. There's someone out there who's much better suited for you.

 

[hooch]

Just imagine that by now for sure she has moved on and has been tagged by somebody else multiple times.

Hope this helps

 

[scotty2hotty]

may, in a gay relationship who goes to jail and gets labeled the equivalant to a woman beater?

even though women do things that warrant a smack and they know it. they use the excuse that guys cant hit women and they use it to their advantage.

***no i have not hit any but boy do i want to sometimes.

 

[big dog]

scotty your post do remind me of NVR, bro

IF you go to UNO, What two big buildings are they in process of finishing

 

[May1010]

may, in a gay relationship who goes to jail and gets labeled the equivalant to a woman beater?

In my experience, we just duked it out and tore up the place until I got tired. Actually, my ex was very caring and nurturing afterwards. He even butterflied a cut on my eye brow once. Then, the make up sex was killer!

We never called the police.

 

[scotty2hotty]

big dog, i have no clue. i dont pay attention to that stuff. i am always in the business building. i eat in the cove and i used to live in privateer place. i live on maple street off of st. charles uptown now.

i sat out last semester. i havent made up my mind yet whether to return this fall or next spring.

 

[velvett]

[snip]...Even with all the fucked up, evil shit she's done to me. I wonder how long this will take? I was hoping my anger and hurt would be enough to push me beyond it all, but I was wrong. This sucks. I wish I could rip out my feelings and be done with it.

AH HA!
Said the blind chick.

(see, like I said before Big J does offer me great insight.)

Now, what would the boys of elite say in a moment like this???

DUDE!

F**K her best friend.

(ok guy, this is crazy. I've been reading your stuff too often, but humor me... come on that's something ya'll would say right? Right? )


Sorry Big J, that does suck. You could try keeping an eye out for someone else that would rock your world. You know not actually look frantically, but just keep an eye peeled for a keeper.

 

[Big Johnson]

DUDE!

F**K her best friend.

I already thought of that. However, her best friend is like seven months pregnant and I'm pretty sure I couldn't get it at the moment. I will rethink my options a month or two after she delivers and let you know how it goes.

 

[Kryp2o]

Damn BJ I feel bad for ya dude.

I was in a relation ship with a girl a while back that lasted over two years and it came to an abrupt end (wasn't a pretty ending either) and for a while after I had frequent bad dreams about it but the good news is eventually they stopped and I got over it. You'll feel freaky about it for a while but you will get over it. It just takes time for it to go away and wear off.

Hey May I agree with BJ you look like you could have took him (in a fighting sense). For some reason I keep associating the cabana boy picture as being you. Go figure.

 

[smallmovesal]

i agree it just takes time to heal the wounds. you're just going to have to find something to fill up that space... or someone. you're just going to have to remind yourself why she's is bad for you when you start to miss her.

easier said than done

 

[Big Johnson]

remind yourself why she's is bad for you

She's is pretty bad for me. Thanks for your advice