there something wrong if your thinking “your out of their league”
The way I see it there are no leagues. You’re just not confident enough or you dress and act like a retard and need to work on it. I’ve seen fat ass slobs married to the finest women there are. WHY? because there around them a lot and are nice and friendly.
A lot of the time ugly guys(not saying your ugly) get good looking women because they work with them or there around them a lot, or they share a common bond(an experience etc)
You have even better chances of hooking up with these fine ass women because you live in the same dorm, you’ll see them a lot ect. I’d kill to be in your situation, I’ve never had the luck of being around so many fine ass women.
heres a tip, listen to Too-Short to learn and make sure youve got your game straight, begin giving them compliments on their eyes etc.. or something they are wearing, act like you notice small little things they do to look pretty and compliment them..
Cool, and someone find this kid some cheap art schools. If he can carve an image of Ruth Bader Ginsburg on his forehead, he'll go out like Dali, Renoir or Dahmer.
fyxgel, avoid the feeding frenzy of horney guys. Unless you're amazingly hot you probably will want seperate yourself from all those other dudes in your dorm and find ways to meet some of the girls on a one-to-one basis.
And be careful about building some big mythology about these girls....they're just girls. thinking like that is only going to make you awkward and nervous around them. Learn to be comfortable with yourself and comfortable about them.
hmm. so how do i avoid the feeding frenzy then? there are only like 5 guys, out of like the 50 in our hall, who go around browsing the other girls floors on a regular basis. and only 3 of them would be interested in the girls that i am interested in.
I like the idea of trying to meet with some girls on a one to one basis, but how? I want to definately arrange things so I bump into a good looking girl and get to know her. ( I'm sorry but right now these are my number one priorities: she has to be good looking, and she has to be genuinely nice. )
So how do you arrange bumping into some good looking girls, on a one to one basis? do you mean like asking them out? or like joining some club and hoping to meet a chick that way or something (lame if you ask me, when there is a whole floor of hot girls, just on the other side of this building.) and i hate college clubs and organizations, as it requires going through a whole lot of extra bull$hit just to get to know some girls.
Dude- didn't you all start school back in September? It is about time you started to get interested in the chicks... were you waiting for puberty or something....?
BTW- you know most dorm chicks are new to the school (freshmen or otherwise) by christmas break most of them who are going to put out have already been sampled repeatedly by the more suave and proactive dudes...
yea, okay classes did start in september, I thought you were referring to the second semester. Honestly the reason why I havent acted til now is because I was just too wussy too, and I was stuck chasing after this one girl, who I was obsessed about before I even started going here. (she goes here too, problem is... i dont think she likes me)
So now I'm on the prowl.. making a fresh start. j/k
btw folks, im not looking for pussy, im just looking for a cute girlfriend. holding hands, kissing, and giving each other every piece of attention you can, maybe, but not sex... im holdin off on that one until marriage. (and my guess is that a lot of the girls here wanna do that too, since this is a christian school)