I've been talking to this girl online for awhile. And we hungout back in the spring, but then i was a punk and didnt call her for awhile, and then i started talking to her again and we hungout a week ago and had a good time.
Last weekend she went on a date with some guy who knew her friends, so her, this guy and her friends hungout all weekend. I talked to her on Sunday night, and felt kinda bad because she was originally maybe thinking about hanigng out with me last saturday but now i know why she didnt.
So Sunday night she told me, and said she felt bad about the situation and normally doesnt agree with multiple dating but this just sorta came up.
I asked her if she wanted to date exclusively for the time being, and she said yes, so I was pretty happy about that, and I cancelled my date for Sunday night (a girl I had been talking to online but hadnt hungout with yet), which sucked but I felt better doing that.
But I'm realizing that she has some male friends so I should be allowed to have female friends, right? I realize there are actually a lot of females that I've been talking to online as friends but I havent met them yet. Is it okay to meet them and just hangout as friends, as long as I don't cheat?
It just would suck to not get to even meet any of them because of all this. I didn't want Sara to get snatched up by some other guy(s) so thats why i asked her if she wanted to exclusively date me. But now I'm wondering if maybe I committed too soon. I thought maybe it'd be easier if both of us were only dating 1 person at a time...
Last weekend she went on a date with some guy who knew her friends, so her, this guy and her friends hungout all weekend. I talked to her on Sunday night, and felt kinda bad because she was originally maybe thinking about hanigng out with me last saturday but now i know why she didnt.
So Sunday night she told me, and said she felt bad about the situation and normally doesnt agree with multiple dating but this just sorta came up.
I asked her if she wanted to date exclusively for the time being, and she said yes, so I was pretty happy about that, and I cancelled my date for Sunday night (a girl I had been talking to online but hadnt hungout with yet), which sucked but I felt better doing that.
But I'm realizing that she has some male friends so I should be allowed to have female friends, right? I realize there are actually a lot of females that I've been talking to online as friends but I havent met them yet. Is it okay to meet them and just hangout as friends, as long as I don't cheat?
It just would suck to not get to even meet any of them because of all this. I didn't want Sara to get snatched up by some other guy(s) so thats why i asked her if she wanted to exclusively date me. But now I'm wondering if maybe I committed too soon. I thought maybe it'd be easier if both of us were only dating 1 person at a time...

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