So how should i tell the girlfriend that i'm juicing ?

[Razorguns]

and she eats mcdonalds and wendy's and drinks coke everyday all day and still maintains her model figure

Off-topic...:

Tell her she needs to start watching that habit of hers.

Proven millions of times over and over again -- women eat what they want, enjoying that lovely high metabolism of theirs in their 20s. Only to start losing it as time goes by (right around 29-33) and then wake up one day and notice a big huge ass staring at them. Unfortunately, very very few manage to somehow change their eating habits that late in life to reverse the damage and are thus stuck with that middle-age butt forever.

 

[canadianhitman]

calveless and brothabill....you are both very naive here....biteme is 100% right on this

The woman you think is your best friend and solemate and is so sweet and blah blah blah can become a complete psycho the minute something happens and you break up....

Wait...before either of you respond with the typical "Oh, not my girl....she's not like that. Even if we broke up, we'd stay the bestest of friends" let me say this: all the other guys who have been severely screwed over by some vindictive lunatic ex-girlfriend (or even a current girlfriend throwing a fit) felt the EXACT same way you did. They were 100% sure that their girl wasn't like that....could NEVER, EVER be like that. After all, why were they going out with them if they believed they were capable of something like that, right? HMMMM?

For the record, I've never had to deal with a nutty scorned lover (okay, there was this one chick that stalked me a little back when I was 20...but we'd only been together like a month and the stalking was just simple annoyance), so don't bust out that "man, what happened to you to make you so cynical". I'm not cynical, I'm REALISTIC and OBSERVANT. I've seen guys get burned too many times...I've seen guys GO TO JAIL because they had an argument with a girl and she called the cops for NO GOOD REASON...and let them in and ratted about their stash of juice. Just pure vindictive and petty rage. And yes, the odds are, that your girl can be like that too given a certain set of circumstances.

**Ladies, I'm not sexist here or anything....guys can be the exact same way. I've seen vindictive boyfriends try to take down girls that they can't get over in this manner too (not juice obviously, but stuff like ratting to Children's Aid about weed use, ect).**

Bottom line is: don't leave yourself open to getting screwed over. You say this is the woman you're going to marry...well big deal. Be married for awhile, see that this woman posesses the unshakeable character and undying loyalty that you hope she does...and THEN you can consider letting her in on everything. But, until then...it's the Cell-Tech. That's your story, and you should stick to it.

 

[biteme]

calveless and brothabill....you are both very naive here....biteme is 100% right on this

Thank you. I almost always am.

 

[calveless wonder]

calveless and brothabill....you are both very naive here....biteme is 100% right on this

The woman you think is your best friend and solemate and is so sweet and blah blah blah can become a complete psycho the minute something happens and you break up....

Wait...before either of you respond with the typical "Oh, not my girl....she's not like that. Even if we broke up, we'd stay the bestest of friends" let me say this: all the other guys who have been severely screwed over by some vindictive lunatic ex-girlfriend (or even a current girlfriend throwing a fit) felt the EXACT same way you did. They were 100% sure that their girl wasn't like that....could NEVER, EVER be like that. After all, why were they going out with them if they believed they were capable of something like that, right? HMMMM?

For the record, I've never had to deal with a nutty scorned lover (okay, there was this one chick that stalked me a little back when I was 20...but we'd only been together like a month and the stalking was just simple annoyance), so don't bust out that "man, what happened to you to make you so cynical". I'm not cynical, I'm REALISTIC and OBSERVANT. I've seen guys get burned too many times...I've seen guys GO TO JAIL because they had an argument with a girl and she called the cops for NO GOOD REASON...and let them in and ratted about their stash of juice. Just pure vindictive and petty rage. And yes, the odds are, that your girl can be like that too given a certain set of circumstances.

**Ladies, I'm not sexist here or anything....guys can be the exact same way. I've seen vindictive boyfriends try to take down girls that they can't get over in this manner too (not juice obviously, but stuff like ratting to Children's Aid about weed use, ect).**

Bottom line is: don't leave yourself open to getting screwed over. You say this is the woman you're going to marry...well big deal. Be married for awhile, see that this woman posesses the unshakeable character and undying loyalty that you hope she does...and THEN you can consider letting her in on everything. But, until then...it's the Cell-Tech. That's your story, and you should stick to it.

first of all...i'm really not even gonna begin to waste my breath. You have no idea of who i am and good i am at judging character or my girlfriend for that matter. You have no idea of the tribulations we've both been through and why i would ever make a claim like saying i would marry her. By nature i am the most cautious person in the world so it takes alot for me to say that. Yes, i'm sure to many of your friends, etc it can apply. You're probably asking why i'm getting defensive but if you even knew 50% of the story of my relationship you'd drop your jaw...

I understand your point but don't use your generalizations and assumptions here, that's when people make themselves look stupid.

If you haven't met a girl that you can confide in 100% or she can confide in you, then you're not one of the few fortunate...but just because it doesn't apply in you or your friend's situations, don't place that upon me. And no, i'm not naive...I know my girlfriend doesn't take any shit and WOULD absolutely do something like that but ONLY if i went out of my to fuck her or screw her over in a similar way. That would be a result of my own action and my own fault.

 

[BrothaBill]

Easy now son, just busting some balls, made me laugh when I read that. Of course women can be insane, thats just a given. No naivete here, course Im naturally always covering my ass in matters less than legal so Ive never had to worry about someone getting the upperhand on me, its already been identified and resolved before that can happen.

 

[blut wump]

I reckon you should sit with her and try to discuss it fully. Tell her that it's important to you and why and then genuinely discuss the issue with her. Be prepared to be talked out of it if her arguments are valid and you can't overcome them. Agree not to browbeat each other and come to a conclusion between yourselves as to whether you use steroids. Just try to explain why each of her fears are groundless and pinpoint why she objects. It could be just prejudice and fear.

If she won't discuss the issue rationally then you can always tell her that you did what you felt you needed since she wouldn't talk about it.

 

[DieselGunz]

I would tell her if you are serious with her.


But then again I would not do steroids if it "could" pose a problem, it is not worth it to me.

Good luck

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Need to know basis...
Why volunteer privy information unless you need to.

 

[Mastardo]

She can't prove anything if you don't leave a paper trail. If you try to hide it she might be more likely to use it against you if she found it - and she might feel upset that you would try to hide it from her. Keep your kit in a safe and accessible place around her stuff and get her fingerprints all over a few of the bottles. Wipe the rest of the bottles when you are done using them. Then you can be very straight-forward with her and convince her it is safe enough.

But if you don't live with her then I wouldn't tell her.

 

[Mastardo]

She seems to be pretty adamant on her stance against steroids saying that "you don't need steroids to be fit and acheive your goals, blah blah blah". She knows i have alot of knowledge about them and my want to do them, so hiding it wouldn't be a good idea...plus I'm extremely honest and open with everything in our relationship so if i lied she'd probably be really pissed and i'd lose her trust. On top of that, She's way too smart of a girl to believe i wasn't juicing...i think she's the only person in the world that can see through my bullshit aside from my mother lol

She's opened minded so if i could come up with a good argument i think she'd listen........ she keeps insisting i could get back into shape without using...which is probably partially true but it'd take much much longer and be alot more work and money..i miss having that pump, hardness and extra step and since i've tasted it it's hard to stay natty.
any ideas guys?

Hold on a millisecond.

You want to juice. She is not your mother. You are not married.

Is she a professor, a superstar or a self made millionaire? If not, why would you need to convince her or supplicate in any way? This is not related to how you feel about each other.

Besides, why would you volunteer information that could land you in jail (again, unless you are living with her in which case telling her would limit the risk)?