"Absolutely not! This is more than "a sex thing." If a girlfriend associates abuse with pleasure, then imagine what dynamics she'll bring into an advanced relationship, such as provoking arguments to inspire this kind of behavior.
Furthermore, even if the hitting is consentual the physical marks can be used against you as evidence any time you two have an argument. In every State now, it is an option for the State to press criminal charges against you even if the victim declines, simply if there is visual evidence of physical assault. What's done in a sexual context can become a trap against you in a legal one."
smokinghawk maybe you misunderstood. they were talking about smacking in the hot, funky way. like just a good firm slap on the booty. not like mark leaving, seriously painful skin spoiling shit.
i agree a female liking that would have issues to deal with.
nice smack during sex is just good imo. "Hanky-Panky"